Hi Anonee
I have never said Veer has tried to blackmail Paakhi. Frankly the man has too much integrity and self respect to do that. In fact he is sensitive enough to understand the impact knowing he loved her but not being able to reciprocate will have on Paakhi so had never intended to tell her how he felt. And as you say he has told her on at least 2 occasions that he intends to leave and I have no doubt he will.
And yes absolutely he deserves a partner who loves him the way he is, cherishes him for the type of person he is and respects him and his family. He has suffered a lot in the name of love.
As for his family - of course they would want what's best for him and that is absolutely right and what Jiji said to Paakhi on KC night before Veer admitted how he felt was correct and fair. If she continued to ask Paakhi why Veer should live his life like that, then that's fine but IMHO the following actions are/were wrong :
1. forcing someone to measure up a man for a jumper using their hands (why a measure tape was not available is anybody's guess😆) when they know that these 2 don't even hold hands just because he happens to be her husband
2. forcing someone to share a plate of food when they don't want to
3. suggesting his absent mindedness is due to being rejected
4 suggesting he is suicidal, pretending that he has tried before when he has not
Yes, yesterday, she did seem to have finally accepted that these 2 are not meant to be and she has given Paakhi a way out for which I respect her. Let's see whether Paakhi understands the implications if she decides to participate in the tilak ceremony.
Edited by payal7 - 10 years ago
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