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Posted: 10 years ago
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Soumya is probably not a reputable person but Krishna definitely does not deserve her or any other lady. I admit I understand his frustration but throwing the gift at her was wrong. She bought it for his sister and she held his respect by saying is doesn't matter if its from a her or him its the same thing. He had no right to throw the gift at her.

I cant say Krishna was completely wrong when he grabbed Soumya arm when he saw her with Yuvraj. She had given the reason to think she is seeing Yuvraj behind his back. Was it necessary, no and she does deserve to be treated better but she lies to much that you begin to doubt everything she says.

Back to the gift throwing, I am glad that she decided to walk away but then she made me feel like slapping her when she said your life got better after marrying me. You do not deserve me. Right! He does not deserve you but you do not say someone life got better because of you. I am all for women speaking up against their husband (or anyone else ) when they wrong but to kick someone when they are down is wrong.

Both are so abusive and both do not deserve each other. Many people look at the girls being abused but never look at the guy. I look at both on a equal scale. Both are verbally abusive and Krishna is slowly becoming physically abusive. Krishna needs a girl who stays quiet and walks behind him and jumps at his every request. Soumya needs someone who would walk behind her shading her with an umbrella. Both are a carbon copy of each other.
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Ada I was so disgusting with both of them yesterday chii they both are terrible and equally to blame for what's happening in their relationship. I also feel when it comes to abuse that we should not just judge a man but judge the situation that he is in coz certain times a person can be pushed to their limits and may react in an unforgiving way. Woman can use words to push their limits when it comes to a man thinking that they must always be in control. And that's not true we all are human and if we are pushed to far we gona all push back at some point and it doesn't matter whether we male or female we all gona react the same way. If u cnt control yourself and your actions dnt expect others to have superior control over their emotions and actions for u. But this Krishna has no control over his anger and his words and just says anything without thinking nor even ever trying to find out if his thinking is wrong coz he naturally assumes that he is always right. This man just has such an ego about him and is nothing but a chauvinist pig. He can't take the fact that she is working and supporting him but is still to proud and wnt take on something else whilst he is waiting for the job he wants to have. I remember in that post u made about yuvani and souyma's idea of love souyma was described as some1 who expected her partner to treat her the same and pamper her the way he had done be4 marriage and the same is true for krishna. He thought she was gona continue being a doormat and do whatever he wanted her to do after marriage as well but instant she has turned into a poisonous snake in his life. And now coz of their egos they are bringing out the worst in each another. But in the past few episodes souyma its like she enjoys belittling him every chance she gets she enjoys the power she has over every1 coz of the money and gifts that she brings to them. Money is her weapon and she is using it against him I dnt blame him for throwing the gift bt he shouldn't have thrown it at her. He threw it with such force if it hit her face it would have been ruined and than who would dadi get yuvraj married to lol. But really yesterdays episode was just filled with meanness
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Originally posted by: sandiab

Ada I was so disgusting with both of them yesterday chii they both are terrible and equally to blame for what's happening in their relationship. I also feel when it comes to abuse that we should not just judge a man but judge the situation that he is in coz certain times a person can be pushed to their limits and may react in an unforgiving way. Woman can use words to push their limits when it comes to a man thinking that they must always be in control. And that's not true we all are human and if we are pushed to far we gona all push back at some point and it doesn't matter whether we male or female we all gona react the same way. If u cnt control yourself and your actions dnt expect others to have superior control over their emotions and actions for u. But this Krishna has no control over his anger and his words and just says anything without thinking nor even ever trying to find out if his thinking is wrong coz he naturally assumes that he is always right. This man just has such an ego about him and is nothing but a chauvinist pig. He can't take the fact that she is working and supporting him but is still to proud and wnt take on something else whilst he is waiting for the job he wants to have. I remember in that post u made about yuvani and souyma's idea of love souyma was described as some1 who expected her partner to treat her the same and pamper her the way he had done be4 marriage and the same is true for krishna. He thought she was gona continue being a doormat and do whatever he wanted her to do after marriage as well but instant she has turned into a poisonous snake in his life. And now coz of their egos they are bringing out the worst in each another. But in the past few episodes souyma its like she enjoys belittling him every chance she gets she enjoys the power she has over every1 coz of the money and gifts that she brings to them. Money is her weapon and she is using it against him I dnt blame him for throwing the gift bt he shouldn't have thrown it at her. He threw it with such force if it hit her face it would have been ruined and than who would dadi get yuvraj married to lol. But really yesterdays episode was just filled with meanness


I completely agree. The only thing I just didnt like is he threw the gift at her, if he had thrown it against the wall that would have been another story. Both deserve the crap they are getting from each other. I just wonder if they both going to stay together or separate real soon.
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If there is one thing that disgusts me, it is when a man goes too far with his anger just because he has an adversary who is weak physically. Physical abuse, in whatever form it is is condemnable.
Krishna is insecure and amazingly he uses his anger to hide his incompetence and bullies his wife. Soumya got a job as a hostess to take care of her needs.. Cannot Krishna do something that for this stage at least helps him and his family?

He will live in his father's earnings but will not accept his wife's help. Ego at its heights.

That does not mean that Soumya is faultless. She lies through her teeth and loves her luxurious lifestyle. She gets jealous. She aches for her friends lifestyle and she has her own ego.

They are both ill suited for each other. They were attracted at some point. Soumya loved what to her was krishna's "possessiveness" while krishna's ego got fawned when his master's daughter became his wife.

But when actual realities set in, their faults are coming out..

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