I want to marry you .........But!!!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Some days back Varsha ji ask this question to me ... Now I am asking you 😊

People who are engage to marry . Yet decide to live togather for a while before marriage. What is your opion on this relationship?

Why a trial time period if already decided to marry?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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oh.. we had a similar post before.
i completely support them. there is so much one can learn from these 😳.

no matter how much you love the person, moving in is a whole new experience. first year of marriage they say is much harder than one assumes. this is because waking next to someone day afer day and sharing every thing is not as easy. this is particularly true when both are independent thinking and accomplished humans rather than one willing to be completely dependent / tag along.
i learnt a lot during that period and in fact, i wish i invited my MIL to move in too 😉😆..


DEW DROP.. the title of ur post followed by few days ago Varsha di asked you the question got me 🤣..
I was heartbroken at the thought of my DB jaan dumping me for you..😭
😆😆😆 J/K..
Edited by mermaid_QT - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I too don't understand!!!😡😆😛

May be this trail period is to check if they have done an error in deciding to get married !!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

Some days back Varsha ji ask this question to me ... Now I am asking you 😊

People who are engage to marry . Yet decide to live togather for a while before marriage. What is your opion on this relationship?

Why a trial time period if already decided to marry?

when you live together, subah uth ke toothbrush karna, toilet seat upar neeche

differences between theory and practical😆

oh I thought marriage was like in the movies etc etc

understand if you are compatible in all😉 senses

pata hai trailer or movie me pharak hota hai, but something is better than nothing right?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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this time periOd... i think its tO understand each Other clOsly... may be a persOn have take a wrOng decisiOn in hurry... Or may be their thOughts were different sO in this periOd, they bOth gOt tO knOw each Other betterly... 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sareg

pata hai trailer or movie me pharak hota hai, but something is better than nothing right?



🤣🤣🤣
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sareg

pata hai trailer or movie me pharak hota hai, but something is better than nothing right?

not necessarily. trailers are meant to entice. often misleading because the real story is boring😛😆

like they say, wrong information is worse than no information. in this case, someone will likely still be on their goody-goody behavior knowing they are on probation. haan, dekna hai toh probation aur shaadi ke baad. saare gul tab khilte hain😉

Edited by chatbuster - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

oh.. we had a similar post before.
i completely support them. there is so much one can learn from these 😳.

no matter how much you love the person, moving in is a whole new experience. first year of marriage they say is much harder than one assumes. this is because waking next to someone day afer day and sharing every thing is not as easy. this is particularly true when both are independent thinking and accomplished humans rather than one willing to be completely dependent / tag along.
i learnt a lot during that period and in fact, i wish i invited my MIL to move in too 😉😆..


DEW DROP.. the title of ur post followed by few days ago Varsha di asked you the question got me 🤣..
I was heartbroken at the thought of my DB jaan dumping me for you..😭
😆😆😆 J/K..

@ Dewey and QT Patootie 🤣..I am on my knees and proposing to both of u to move in with me 😳 🤣..

I will post my serious post later when I stop laughing 😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
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In a perfect world, one would get engaged only to a person s/he would want to marry. About living together, it is one's personal choice though I am personally not in its favour.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: chatbuster

not necessarily. trailers are meant to entice. often misleading because the real story is boring😛😆

like they say, wrong information is worse than no information. in this case, someone will likely still be on their goody-goody behavior knowing they are on probation. haan, dekna hai toh probation aur shaadi ke baad. saare gul tab khilte hain😉



so extend the trailer to see most of the movie 😆😆.. aka live - in
okay, j/k..

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