The pain of rejection

Robby is mainly going through the pain of rejection from Kasturi. He is also suffering from anger and jealousy towards Raunak, but, the pain of rejection is more intense. Robby had never expected this to happen. He might have thought that even after so much of humiliation in society, Kasturi will welcome him with open arms and will forgive him so easily. Kasturi's question was also valid. What is the guarantee, that, in future he will not behave in the same manner when someone else points fingers at Kasturi's character? Trust is the basic foundation in any relationship. When the foundation itself is so weak, how can one proceed in a relationship?

I so agree with you! 😛 Thats what i been trying to tell everyone

I agree tat Rob didnt ask Kas before taking any decision.... But even Kas & Ronal are no less.... Wen we expect Rob to trust Kas and Ronak, then we shud also expect the same from Kas and Ronak tat they shud not lie to Rob and tat too abt his own sister...

He is not a kid... He wud have definitely understood if Kas makes him understand....

So wen u luv someone sooo much and ur own mom & ur family members show u proofs tat ur luv is cheating u on ur back then u ll not understand wat u r doing... So i completely agree with Rob's behavior... May be he was little off the limits the way he treated Kas... The most important thing is how he felt after knowing the truth abt Kas.. 😭

But guys, give him a chance.... We cant expect everyone to behave as sensible as others are....His character is like tat.... so luv him 100% knowing his character or hate him 100%...

Krishi

knumnum - correct.
When Raunak and kasturi lied to robbie about divya's epi because he wont take it nicely, did they think for a second how he will be if kasturi goes out of his life 😭 😭 , poor man had come repenting to kasturi too.

i am not saying that kasturi would have run and married robbie immediately but marrying raunk as a last resort was not right
robbie did a mistake agree, which is not forgivable then kasturi and raunak also did the similar kind of mistake by marrying each other , that too raunak looks 😡 like he was just waiting for a reason to marry kasturi

I am sorry but i have to disagree. Terming Robbie's pain as 'Pain of Rejection' is diluting the turmoil, the pain he is going through. When u say 'Pain of Rejection' you are meaning Robbie is being Egoistic about the issue.... In this particular case Robbie is NOT being egotistic! A guy who is in pain for rejection would not have accepted her decision to move on with someone else and stood in that hall watching her get married as a punishment he gave to himself. He wouldnt have put himself through the torture of witnessing EVERY ritual of her marriage in pain (mind u not anger)...and dying a thousand deaths in the process. That is not a sign of an egotistic Man in any which way….If u can read his eyes, the last thing u will find is Ego....u will see how empty he feels deep in his soul. The pain he is going through is the pain of having lost the love of his life, the pain of the memories that will haunt him, the pain of a life he has to lead as meaningless as ever. Calling Robbie's pain just a Pain of Rejection would be a huge understatment

As far as Robbie expecting Kasturi to welcome him with his open arms...it wasnt what he was expecting. He was expecting her to give THEM a chance again, after knowing even he was being mislead big time. He wanted to stop her because he knew HER happiness isnt in marrying Raunak. As far Kasturi asking him how can she trust him again.... it was her decision. How can anyone guarantee future? No one can guarantee the future…U have to go ahead believing in the best. She didnt have the guts to take that chance, she didnt believe Robbie when he said this will never let this happen again. She wanted a stable life, she wasnt ready for the baggage that came with being Rockstar Robbie Sabarwal's wife....you cant blame Kasturi's preferences on Robbie at all. Lets not forget how this mess all started, it was a stupid juvenile lie they told Robbie for his welfare, they ended up giving him pain for a lifetime 😡. If Kasturi is a victim of this mess, Robbie is no less a victim... may be Robbie is a far more serious causality. Atleast at the end of a week, Kasturi's problems which was her preference has been taken care off...What about Robbie who has to suffer for life?

As far as Raunak goes, Yes, Robbie IS jealous... but he is far more hurt because he is feeling betrayed by his friend. A friend he considered loved him so much that he could fight kasturi for him... and that friend today stands between him and the love of his life... he is bound to be hurt. And Kasturi drawing comparisions between them is surely not gone in favour of what Robbie feels for Raunak at this point. See the fact u like it not is that Kasturi chose Raunak's 'Goodness' only in comparison with Robbie immaturity.... and NOT because of Raunak's own merits. Because Raunak was still the same guy and she knew Robbie well before too...but she chose Robbie in love and not Raunak because Love or companionship arent chosen by comparing two different people. And lets not forget that Robbie still hasn't got the facts correct. Robbie still under the impression whatever action Raunak took towards Kasturi was behind his back… …and Raunak decided to keep quiet when he was required to open his mouth. In that case he surely is going to feel stabbed at the back by his very dear friend.

Very true i agree with you, and besides this pain of rejection love is also hurting Robbie alot,


MALEKA

I agree wid u Ryka..... What Robbie is feeling is right now is not mere a pain of rejection.... its far more... its pain of loosing ur love, its pain caused by a severe heartbreak, its a pain caused by shattered dreams and haunting memories!!!

Robbie knew Kasturi.... he knew that she is getting married for the sake of her family.... He knew that she loves him and not Raunak.... So definitely he was not expecting Kasturi to forgive him so easily but he was ready to take any punishment she gave all he wanted was a chance.... But I guess the situation was too out of control from Kasturi's hand too.... Knowing her she wudn't have dared to put her family's reputation at stake this time around.... Robbie knew that this marriage was a outcome of his acts and doings.... So he was desperate to put it right.... anxious with the fear of loosing his love!!!

Before Kasturi entered his life he never believed in love but then started living with her love and for her love.... her love brought him everything he ever yearned for... the warmth of her love was all that he NEEDED for a lifetime... she was his need not his want.... But he lost her... He didn't only loose her but everything he wanted to live for... Is this pain mere a pain of rejection???

The pain he is going thru of loosing his love is mingled with the pain of guilt, betrayal and jealousy too... He is aware that his mistake of not trusting Kasturi is making him pay big time!!! He feels responsible to put Kasturi into this mess.... So he knows that he is also partly responsible for their separation!!!

He feels betrayed by his best friend whom he considered his brother.... As Ryka said that Robbie is still not aware of the facts but one thing that irritates me the most is what was the rush?? Cudn't Raunak wait for two more days to get married?? Cudn't he make some excuse and wait till Robbie's return?? And the way Raunak is behaving after marriage... holding Kasturi's hand and all Robbie is bound to feel ditched!!! He cudn't c Kasturi with any one else and know he has to go thru the pain of watching her day and night.... living with her in the same house but not as his Kasturi but someone else's wife Kasturi... Raunak's Kasturi!!!

As it is said, Dreams shatter in your eyes once but the broken pieces of it hurt all thru ur life.... Kasturi is a balanced and stable girl... she knows to handle her pain but Robbie his emotions are extreme and intense... He doesn't even know how to handle it... his case is definitely more severe!!!

Its not merely a pain of rejection but a lot more than that!!!

Sonia

Originally posted by: sonia_s11

As it is said, Dreams shatter in your eyes once but the broken pieces of it hurt all thru ur life.... Kasturi is a balanced and stable girl... she knows to handle her pain but Robbie his emotions are extreme and intense... He doesn't even know how to handle it... his case is definitely more severe!!!

Its not merely a pain of rejection but a lot more than that!!!

Sonia

robbies situation is more severe and on top of that he does not have anybody run into like raunak or kasturi .what will happen to him 😭 😭 😭

Actually, I agree with both Deepa and Ryka.

It is a rejection of pain. A pain caused by the fact that Kasturi rejected THEIR future together. Kasturi rejecting him is the root cause of what he is going through right now. Hence, I can accept Deepa's statement of "Pain of rejection". But above and beyond that, I think it is the pain of loss that is killing him. The thought that he has lost her forever and that too by his own mis-doings.
And laced with this is the fact that she is right in front of him doing all those things that they both dreamed of, with someone else!!!! Man, that is one hell of a pain. Atleast aankhon se door rehti toh shayad ye har pal ka dukh na hota. All of them living under the same roof is just hell. But her living in the same house has 2 sides to it, negative and positive. Even though this whole thing is making him miserable, atleast she is in front of his eyes!!! I don't know about Robbie but I am definitely happy about this fact that atleast he can always see her and maybe one day win her back as opposed to her getting married to some X guy and Robbie never seeing her again!!!!