Sonali. Upen and gautam without moral policing

Starting with sonali as a player I beileve she a a bit dumb but knows when to speak . What I like about her is "I don't care " attitude. She is not at all gullible or meek unlike karishma or minnisha Even when Gautam was trying so hard to instigate her she kept her cool. Now coming to the new confrontation with Ali and the moral police of India forum terming her as desperate and even characterless. my question to the MP s is what is wrong with exploring options Gautam is a nice guy and so is upen so if it is ok for gautam to switch from Diandra to sonali and then keep on humiliating her saying she is not good enough for him how is it wrong for sonali? . She knows her strength and is using it , as a player she is far better than upen, arya and minnisha. On the Ali incident my two cents is first the way she jerked and got up is a proof he did something and later the way she composed herself and got back is perhaps how any normal girl will react. I am specifically upset with the girls who should have taken out their sandal to hit the taklu and ask him to go back to his dubai and even touch a girl on hand leave aside legs and say he is joking.

Coming to old upen I can't understand his gameplan simply being a mattress for girls will it take him further in the game ? well that is to be seen . What I hate him about is that he was with sonali and did not stand by her instead quickly diandra replaces sonalis and both start laughing. I am upset with diandra specially as she comes across as a strong female and is making fun of a girls distress.

Gautam is a true player very focused on the game . He knows well the relationships formed her are temporary and is not keen in making them. He eats , drinks and sleeps about game.

So in summary I would rather evaluate them as game players than individuals based on the reality show .

Gautam acts like something in front of Sonali and something else behind her back. The way he laughs when talking about Sonali is very rude in my opinion. When Gautam keeps saying the two of them are just friends then why should Sonali be committed to him and not be friendly with others in the house???

People have such double standards between Men and women it is shocking. Guys do something it is funny and playful, girl does it and she is given all sorts of names, like desperate. Sonali didn't get close to Upen earlier maybe because she was respecting Soni's closeness to him and didn't want to start something that would lead to a conflict between them??

What Ali did is wrong no matter where he touched her. She did not give consent and so the discussion ends there. Ali was wrong!

You sound like Arya getting upset with Gautam singing for Sonali after he was friendly with Diandra.😆 Last I checked Gautam never said to Sonali when she said I want to be with you that yes, I want to be with you too, let be exclusive? So Sonali should keep waiting for him while he makes up his mind??? Or Commit herself to him even though he has not made any commitment to her???

Lol completely agree saregama_fan . Phoneix D gautam did day she is good girl for someone else and it is evident that sonali has figured that her only chance of survival is through a romance the show is only for three months so there is no scope of wasting time and on the same note Upen came with the offer she didn't go to him.