When Love becomes a challenge.... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Lois_Lane

"No matter whatever happens... I want to enjoy a great performance from Karan-Shubangi-Jatin 😃"

<FONT face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size=4>very true, these 3 are doing a fabulous job😳👏and tht's the thing u said, no mater wat happens in the future lets just enjoy the acting and the current track rite now😉😳

<FONT face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size=4>MALEKA

Originally posted by: nimmo20

Okay guys just chill! It's only a serial! It deals with human emotions and the choices they make based on them. No one can deny that Robbie acted despicably with Kasturi and her family, but look at what motivated him as well as his behaviour. He was in pain thinking she had cheated on him. We knew that this was wrong, but his mother spun a web of lies about him that he could not see clearly through to the truth. It happens to real people too. Everyone, no matter who they are, makes mistakes. Robbie is no different. He was never meant to be a saint. Neither for that matter is Kasturi. No one should hate either Robbie or Kasturi. They have acted as they have because of the circumstances created around them by the other people in their lives.

Ofcourse it is only a serial. If this was real, this whole stupid misunderstanding between R and K would have been resolved in under half an hour 😛. One or the other would have asked for an explanation and everything would have settled.

In the mask of the serial I am talking about a huge truth of life and that is to forgive a person who has erred. I think yeh duniya abhi tak chal rahi hai, toh is liye ki kahin na kahin, koi na koi, kisi na kisi ko maaf kar rahaa hai!!!! This centuries old world would not have existed if everybody were this rigid!! Kab ki khatam jo gayee hoti.

Also, all these relationships - family, siblings, husband-wife, in-laws, friends coworkers etc, would not have existed. We would all be living alone if went with the idea of "let him suffer for what he did". We have to, have to know when to draw a line and forgive.

What we post here in the forum, is the insight we give to others about what type of people we are. Sorry nightangel, if I hurt you but from your posts I find you extremely rigid and it just surprises me. I feel maybe you are too young and maybe have not come across situations that have asked for your forgiveness. Life many times will bring us across situations that will test our patience and will force us to make a decision about going one way or the other. At that point of time, flexibility will save the day!!!

Oh well, I will stop the lecture now, I hope you understand the point I am trying to make 😊

Originally posted by: Ryka

Robbie inta samajdar hogaya tho Kasturi sudaregi kisse😕? Raunak ko kisse compare kare, use acha insaan manke, uae kaise chunegi😕? Point na. Robbie doodh ka dula tho bilkul nahi hai….wo tho pink blood se dula huha😆. Ok jokes apart.

Good joke... chalo joke me hi sahi mana to sahi ke...Ronak is good compare to robbie... [ plz stick with current issue only...]

Robbie human hai, kyunki galathi bhi Insaan se hi hoti hai faristoon se nahi. Robbie Human hai isliye galati ki ehsaas hone par kudh se sharminda hai, Aur Robbie Human hai isliye ek pal ki galathi keliye zindagi bhar(ok 7 months…wo bhi bahut hai) ki saza swekara. Janwar ki harkathoon ko koi galath nahi kehsakta.... No one will call Lion wrong if it hunts down a deer.

aree whole life to bahut door ki baat hai..itana patient robbie mein hota to ye sub hota hi nahi...!!!!! if u make mistake again & again... on a same point..& every time u expect dht other person has to forget me... I think its not fair @ all... he already done same mistake in d past... & still he has not strong voice for furture also...becuz he never use his brain.. just follow her mother... [ anyway dht's diff.issue...] we can expect such thing 4m human only...dht's why we r diff.dhn animal....itana to manti ho an??????😳

Aur jahan tak logic ki bath… apni dimak lagane ki bath hai. Robbine ne lagaya na... isiliye yeh problem huha hai. If he hadnt used his brains, gone by his heart... he would have been saved the problem. . Robbie was given the abortion papers by nikhil… he refused to believe it, they took him to the hospital to get it confirmed. U see Kasturi's handwriting on the form along with the her consent Signature, esp on the day she is supposed to be at home getting ready for her shagun in the evening… what will u do?He related those reports to the series of lies he caught Raunak and Kasturi saying, when he confronted them... they lied some more😡 Anyone will have a doubt. Robbie is not wrong in suspecting Kasturi…Robbie is wrong in not having cleared that suspicion by asking Kasturi😡.

Robbie is wrong in not having cleared that suspicion by asking Kasturi .......... u give d answer urself... dht's it... I exectly want this... but if robbie can do dhis.. how can u say

R O B B I E D R O C K S T A R........😛 u know ucheee log ucheee soch... 😉

No one endorses Robbie's behaviour. But we accept the fact he was wrong, he is very wrong. He knows it and so do we. Ab kya? When he realized his mistake it is his right to say sorry, but to forgive him or not is Kasturi's call. So what is wrong with him saying sorry😕? Anyway I have spoken enough abt Robbie's behaviour through out…don't want to get into that now. The point being discussed here is not how right or wrong Robbie is… because that is a forgone conclusion… Robbie IS wrong.

Good .... iseee baat ko samja karo dear.... 🤗 jo galat hai wo galat hai... no matter how u love him or like him...

Anyway my question was will Chawla family forgive Robbie if he apologized in front of the media and spoke in praise of them? Because that particular family was worried about their public image rather than their daughter's pain. So IF Robbie takes care of their public image… will he be forgiven? If Robbie wont be forgiven, on what grounds? That he hurt their daughter… they showed no signs of being concerned about that daughter… they were even ready to marry her off to an old man and got her married to a guy with a dark past just to get ride of their humiliation. I guess my question will remain a question🤔.

no dear.... dhy all ready agree..whn k's told dht she luv robbie... all r waiting for dhm for shagun.. on dht evening.. jab ye bakheda start hua... dear app bahut jaldi bool jate ho...ye wahi log hai... wahi family hai.. jisneee k' ko job karnee ki permission de... [ u know dhr culture so i don't go in..] ye wahi loga hai... jo k's ki wish per... again i repeat k's wish per Robbie se uskee shaadi karne ready ho gaye... "luv marrige..." [ again m not going in dht point of dhr family culture..]

so dear dhy already think dhr daughter first..if she happy dhn we will except this also.... Infact dhis is k's mistake... devika warns her on dht pooja be4 she leave banglore... rite.. but k's think i know my luv better dhn anyone..

Btw what do u prefer? Robbie not apologizing at all? Or even if he appologized, where should he have done that? In a dark cosy room or in front everyone assembled at the hall...with the Media documenting his confession & kasturi's decision?

I say be4..."Forgiveness occure whn u commit a crime... here he didn't crime ....but his lack of sense.. trust... & some how male ego.. dht m superior.. make all dhis "tamasha..." so forgiveness ka to sawal hi nahi hota... now 4 ur questions.. ofcouse dear d way u behave ... u hav to clear each & every accuse on d same way... !!!!! but I know " A man's nature does not change with adverse circumstance..."

ye achha hai... paheleee gayal karo aur baad me malam laganee jaoo...

Btw lovely shayari…chalo kuch to accha lagaa...but hum kuch alag kayalat ke log hain. I believe Love is a beautiful feeling and being hurt in love does nothing to challenge that beautiful feeling😳. Wo kehte hai na… It is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved😳.

yes u r also good... 👏

lo to hamara ek aur share suno...

"pyar mein 100 dard sahge hum...

bashrat ke pyar karne wala pehle wo dard sha ke batayee.....

areee jaan mangee to jaan bhi dengeee hum,

per pahele wo to pata ho ki wo hamair jaan ke kabil bhi hai ki nahi............... 😳 "..................................................

hav fun & enjoy d life,

nightangel.................................😛

Originally posted by: pragalbha

nighangel, Ryka,

nightangel,

You will not like what I am going to say, but I am still going to. I always read your posts and always find such umcompromising, unyielding feelings in them that today I felt I had to write this post.

No dear u r alwyas welcome.. I like dht my post push u to reply... thnx dear...

What do you think about the rest of us? You think we did not feel bad about what Robbie did to Kasturi and her family? Did you see any of us support Robbie when he did this? We all know Robbie is wrong. SO we are well aware of the "jo karega, woh bharega" concept. And we all also know that whatever decision Kasturi took, was the only decision that she could have taken.

ok fine..we both agree on dhis point so not go further..

But you seemed to have made a pact with yourself of NEVER to understand or look at the pain Robbie is going through. You are always complaining that he came back and asked forgiveness for one day and is expecting to be forgiven. It is not a question of one day or 2 weeks. Its the question of how much and with what feeling that apology was asked. So you want Robbie to repent his whole life? So you think, once he suffers his whole life, he will be redeemed, then Kasturi's anger will cool down, then K's family's izzat will be back again?? What are you talking, girl??? I always see a lot of "badle ki bhavna" in you. Why???

cool..cool...dear,,,dhr is no "badle ki bhavana in me..." at all believe me first...!!!! 😛 ok now 4 ur qustions..

yes dear... u believe or not per kuch mistake aisee hotee hai..jisko rectify karnee mein puri life bhi kum padteee hai.. I know now u point out on robbie...[ he didn't do anything like dht..]

wht he do its not matter but "HOW DISCUSTING WAY HE DO DHT'S MATTER..."

we know d world from our parents.. no matter wht... dhy r d supream in all d way of life... if dhy gone on d extream level... dhn u must hav to think twice...whr u r wrong...??? if its repeat again... [here dht chances r more dhn 100%...]u never ever forget urself 4 whole life.. & at dht time.. no love ..fove will survive u.... [ image... dht if samething happend to Robbie 's mother [ wo father ko to manta hi nahi..] dhn ...do u hav any idea... how u can stop him.....???] kyou bhai.... app ki ma ..ma hai to hameri ma... uper se ayee hai....????? sorry dear... mistake is barrierable on certain level whn its cross beyond level...dhn... no words ...to explain it....

When somebody does wrong, we are upset with them, when somebdoy does right, we aceept them, when somebody apologizes, we think about forgiving them. This is what every human is supposed to do. Its very obvious you don't believe in the concept of "forgive and forget" or the concept of "live and let live". It realy feels sad.

I belive in all d concept of life..

"forgive & forget..." k's did already ...leave dht part of life...dht creats more pain & no gain 4 rest of her life... its also one kind of forgiveness & forgetnees.. !!!!!!!

"live & let live..." she did na.... she realize dht i can't live with this man for rest of my life... so she leave him.. go man.. now u live ur way .. & i live my way... she already done ... now my questions is will robbie is letting her live peacfully????????? 😳

Originally posted by: nightangel

Edited by Ryka - 18 years ago