Originally posted by: ak75
Hi ! Anu,
Good topic. It seems now-a-days good -hearted people are the weakness of the society as they as mostly exploited by cunning people who don't have any ethics or rules in life. Sometimes I wonder whether being good and sensitive to others feelings is a vice or a virtue!!😕
Yesterday's episode was nothing much to write about. But I did find some interesting points there. It was mostly about weakness of good people and how vulnerable they are to negative characters
You are so right, yesterday's episode focused on the vulnerabilities of people who have been ethical and sensitive to others emotions!!
1. Inder - Barkha walks out of his house and life and he is still unable to confess to her about the past. Inder is more worried about how he will tell her than guilty about his deeds(if he has done any wrong) . He gives the impression that he is trying to protect her from somethng very shocking . He is hesitating to share an important incident in his life with her... and Barkha in return is also NOT trying to force the truth out of him. She believed what she saw and expect him to talk first. So much for ego... After 25 years of marriage , when they should be able to read each other's mind they are struggling to have a face to face convo.
In Inder's case I too feel he doesn't want to hurt Barkha and so he is not able to come out with the truth. Sometimes lack of communication and fear of loosing loved one takes toll on the relationship. Barkha has never given thought to others feelings..she has always been following the policy of " My way is highway"! you call it ego or overconfidence that she can never be wrong!! Such an attitude will spell doom to any relationship...I wonder how Inder could stay 25 years with her!!😆 He must have made many compromises one of them being that 19 year old girl!!😛
The moral of the story is, he loves Barkha too much to hurt her!!🤢 But trust is not a saleable commodity!!😡
2. Sagar - He is amazing when it comes to controlling his emotions . He fiercely guards his secret feeling for Laajo so as to not to hurt her or her marriage. But sometimes even he is not able to keep a check on himself. At the end of the day, he also crave for love and attention. Just giving him a pillow/bedsheet and showing concern was enough to make his head spin and he almost revealed his feelings in front of her. He should be extra careful. Any mistake at this point will be advantageous for Jasmine .
I feel sorry for Sagar, who has never got love in return in any of his encounters!! He is so much in love with Laajo that he doesn't want anything bad to happen to her or her marriage. But you know Love cannot be hidden for long..it just waits for an opportunity to pour out!!🤢 I feel his love is without expectations and so it is pious...and Nikhil really needs to learn something here!!😕
3. Nikhil - Yeh toh weakness ki dukan hai...but somehow yesterday I felt more sorry for him than angry. Jasmine exploiting his innocence to the maximum. Sadly, the day he realise his mistake...it will be too late.
Nikhil loves Laajo and he feels she belongs to him!! When possessiveness creeps in love it suffocates it. He needs to respect Laajo as an individual and not only as his wife. Nikhil's overdependence on Laajo has made him vulnerable to Jasmine's evil plans. When suspicion creeps in then no person can think logically and this is the thing which Jasmine is banking on. Feel sorry for Nikhil , for being so foolish and nave as to forget that his actions are showing that he does not trust Laajo who he professes to Love madly!!😡
Surprisingly, the newlyweds are managing pretty well. We all had written off the marriage before it started... but strong and mature relationships are crumbling while the new couple try to strike a balance and make the most with limited resources.
Yeah it is a surprise that the newly weds are doing fine!! but this only happens in daily soaps..Ayesha still wears designer wear and is possessive about her lipstick...maybe a time may come soon where she has to select between her branded coffee maker and her coffee maker husband!!😆😆😆😆😆 How can we viewers handle three crumbling relationships?!! So the C.V's are gracious enough to rationing it to two at a time!!!😆😆😆😆
I feel for Nikhil - Laajo relationship to stay..they both need a break something like a honeymoon!!😉 While Jasmine is force fed her medicine😡 ( I wonder where Mrs. Shalini disappeared as she was so worried for Jasmine)
And as far as Inder - Barkha are concerned the possibility of patch-up seems remote...all hopes on Nani!!🤢 Nani better feed some Chavan prash to Inder so that he gets the courage to come out with the truth so that we all put an end to our speculations!!😆😆😆😆
Pati Patni Aur Panga
