Why is Raman so rude? - Page 2

Big heart can compensate for a short tempered nature only till an extent. After that person starts getting terified with the other person's anger or should I say lack of temper control. Big heary takes a back. Ek burayi 100 achayi ko khatam kar saktI hai. It's like slapping someone n then saying sorry each time.

Originally posted by: Indomitable

Most of them are justifying Raman's rude behavior with Ishita due to her closiness to her best friend Mani & ranting his name & talent through out every moment but was Raman that cool, polite & nice to Ishita earlier a big NO he was always rude with her earlier too. I just want to ask one more thing during Aadi's accident case Raman use to lie Ishita & meet Shagun & supported her as Ishita was unaware of the truth that Aadi was real culprit of her mother (after knowing the truth she immediately withdrew the case)but at that time also instead of uttering truth he use to yell at everyone & shuts everyone's mouth. So he was always dominating, ill-mannered guy and am pretty much annoyed with his behavior & want Ishita to behave like him once to show him the mirror & make him realize what he really is & really deserves desertness of everyone😡

@bold: Seems like you were watching different episodes of YHM back then.

Most of them are justifying Raman's rude behavior with Ishita due to her closiness to her best friend Mani & ranting his name & talent through out every moment but was Raman that cool, polite & nice to Ishita earlier a big NO he was always rude with her earlier too. I just want to ask one more thing during Aadi's accident case Raman use to lie Ishita & meet Shagun & supported her as Ishita was unaware of the truth that Aadi was real culprit of her mother (after knowing the truth she immediately withdrew the case)but at that time also instead of uttering truth he use to yell at everyone & shuts everyone's mouth. So he was always dominating, ill-mannered guy and am pretty much annoyed with his behavior & want Ishita to behave like him once to show him the mirror & make him realize what he really is & really deserves desertness of everyone😡 [/

Originally posted by: ankitasen

@bold: Seems like you were watching different episodes of YHM back then.

sorry yaar...I can't explain...
sometimes his rudeness does put me off when it comes to ishu... 😡

Originally posted by: Indomitable

I think u shud give instant start to ur memory by rewatching the old episodes, didn't u remember the hotel case which caught fire & he saved Shagun in front of Ishita who ran to the hotel in worry of Raman & she was utter shocked seeing him carrying Shagun in his arms but when he is back home he shouted at his family & never allowed to question them instead iof explaining the whole situation. At that time he use to hide the truth & gave the name of Majboori. And most important point when Ashok leaked the truth that Shagun was behind her Amma's accident by taking her to the picnic spot then also he yelled at Ishu by saying it's his majboori & came home at drunken state...
Now let's analyze your points here. You said he lied FOR MEETING Shagun. Where?! He met Shagun there. Ishita didn't ask about his whereabouts so Raman didn't tell. How come was it lying? He did not shout after the incident, he simply said " Main haar baat ko batana jaruri nahi samajhta" when Toshiji asked him why he was in the hotel with Shagun. Raman was like that, he never defended himself. He could've easily defended himself saying there was Pathak present as well but he didn't. Then he went to his room.

At the picnic spot he didn't yell at Ishu in the name of Majboori. Ishu was praising him all along but he knew he broke Ishu's trust. So the guilt was written all over on his face. When ishita was comparing him like Bhawgwan, his inner turmoil couldn't digest it. His anger and self-loathing get outburst saying " Meh koi Bhagwan nahi hoon, Insaan hoon." The ruckus created after Raman got drunk was because of self-loathing, he reprimanded himself, scolded himself, begged mercy to Ishita saying he was majboor. He yelled in self-loathing when Ishu tried to help him to watch steps, he said " why did you care? I'm a very bad person, I broke your trust. I don't deserve your care" (cant remember the exact hindi dialouge). His guit was cleary there. Infact in the whole Adi accident case, he had always guilt-ridden body language, he was mentally disturbed that he had to stand against Ishita.His frustration all vented out in the form of anger and beating when Param yet again misbehaved with Ishita. So, your basic claim was twisted and I hope it got cleared now.

@Blue: These two are my replies to your queries.