A Woman's POV - Arya & Minisha situation

greatsaleen

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Here are some of the things that seem obvious to me:

Arya:

had his loyalties figured out when he entered the house. He was clear that he will never nominate Minisha.
When he had some issue about Puneet Issar, he seeked Minisha's advice. Meaning he respected her opinion.
When asked to list the best bahu - he gave Minisha the top spot.
After today's episode - Arya was genuinely shocked. He spitted out the truth in the heat of the moment. But the language he used was still not disrespectful in any way. It was a very human reaction.
I think that Arya must have deeply fallen for Minisha at one point and I think today he got his heart broken to bits and pieces.

Minisha:

without any provocation by Arya, she disclosed the pre-Big-Boss entry interaction to Deepshika. I am sure she knew that it was going to be broadcast-ed on national TV. And a statement like that would make him look horrible!
She called him a "thaali ka baingan" again without any provocation to her?!

Ladies & Gentlemen of the house: its a very beautiful thought that one must respect ladies and never open their mouth but this situation is different. Minisha clearly asked for it but opening her mouth first! What was she expecting? & what an absolutely horrible way of treating someone!

In this scenerio, what happened was bad and Arya got caught up in his shock of the situation and made the wrong decision but the sum of it all is --- >>>Minisha is all wrong, wrong, wrong!

Hats off to Salman Khan - "I have been in such situations, raat ko need nahin aati,..."; one of the most genuine speech I have heard come out of a celebrity's mouth. Dear Mr. Khan, it is a dilemma that even non-celebrities face in their lives ...

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Mona

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Manish ne jhaal bichayi...Arya uss mein jump kiya...minisha got all sympathy by playing victim... If arya acted intelligently... He could have all the lime light... This proves he is mand buddhi...

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greatsaleen

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: -MONA-
Nice analysis...

Thank you :)

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msd21

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: -MONA-
Manish ne jhaal bichayi...Arya uss mein jump kiya...minisha got all sympathy by playing victim... If arya acted intelligently... He could have all the lime light... This proves he is mand buddhi...

Mand=band=no budhi😆

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bbsai

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Posted: 11 years ago

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what was between friends should have stayed between friends. Now it is embarrassing for both of them, Look at the faces of housemates when all this was happening. Only a few (Puneet, praneet, Gautam, Natasha, Pritam ) were very composed. All the others reacted as though a big scandal revealed.
I am sure each one of them sitting in that room faced this kind of controversy publicly or privately.

Salman Khan handled all the drama very well. He even quoted his own example. That shows he moved on in his life and he has grown very wise as well. No body else could have handled temper tantrums of these bigg boss house celebrities that easily.

Have to appreciate Salman for being Salman.

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Shyam

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I believe the true story is somewhere in b/w to what Minisha and Arya have been telling us. To me it comes out as Minisha and Arya's breakup wasn't pleasant at least from Minisha's side and she has some bitterness left from that. As for Arya, he looks fake to me especially given that he always claimed women should be respected and then goes on to disclose all this 🤔

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greatsaleen

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I believe the true story is somewhere in b/w to what Minisha and Arya have been telling us. To me it comes out as Minisha and Arya's breakup wasn't pleasant at least from Minisha's side and she has some bitterness left from that. As for Arya, he looks fake to me especially given that he always claimed women should be respected and then goes on to disclose all this 🤔
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Also a convincing deduction!

These 2 are a piece of work to come into the house together in spite of a bitter history!

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Neha

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Bang on...

Respect means respect...men or women both are entitled to one.

Just bcoz u r a woman does not mean you can say anything and get away with it. Minissha started the whole thing bringing this topic whn it wasnt necessary nd when d tables turned very cleverly she played the auraton ki izzat card. Disgusting.

Arya did not ask her to fake romance. All he asked was that whether his hugging create problems in her personal life they have had a history. Not to forget he had a valid reason for it as well.

Before you say his question implies he was indeed looking for a romantic angle then that hugging and holding hands wala ques was completely logical. He wanted to be sure his closeness won't affct her relationship since even he has a friend who is insecure knowing their history. You r going to stay with your Ex under the same room...things could create problems btw the personals lives of the two.

This is something guys ask in real lyf too when they need to interact wid their frnds who are in a relationship to avoid any problems.

There are bf's/guys who are protective and don't like other guys being close to their gals even if it is in a friendly manner, whats so wrong is a guy asks a gal about this. When in real life something like this is called looking out for a friend thn why is this such an issue inside the house ?

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