Respect Minisha for clearing air about Arya on TV

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Posted: 11 years ago
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People are finding it immature, uncalled for and stupidity of minisha to disclose Arya - the sherni's offer to Deepshikha on national tv.

Some people are claiming it back stabbing, few are calling it against the rules.

Till few hours i was also thinking she showed immaturity, but suddenly i tried to see things from other angle.

WE all know some news about Arya and Minisha dating was der, later news came that she and Arya are maintaining distance. Salman himself asked bahu no thing, where Arya named Minisha as one.

Now catch is if she wanted to have some romantic link up with Arya den she might have remained silent,
but she exposed the offer. So naturally link up news was a stunt played by Arya's Publicist, by going PR's client's bigg boss drama history it can be said that offer can be PR's mind work who might have suggested it to Arya itself.

By understanding Minisha's sharp brain one can be sure she got the clue about Arya's romantic link up offer and she solved the puzzle herself. And to safeguard her image she disclosed the deal on tv so dat her name should not be linked up with Arya.

I really admire you girl for this, earlier i found you stupid but no you are intelligent enough and the way you safeguard your image that is again remarkable.

And for Dale

You keeps on doing your dirty PR thing, if contestant has potential your dirty tricks wont effect them in long run.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No doubt Minisha was beautiful but now a days she put on some weight, but if compare her career graph that is far better than Tanisha, Arya, karishma Tanna n all.

But i hardly saw any attitude in her, like tanna commented on other's caliber , Tanisha did, but Minisha never done this.

She camly sit on sides on WKW, dont try to be salman's eye candy which is really good and appreciable.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If for an instant we believe that what Minnisha was saying is true, still there is an unspoken/understood rule of confidentiality between conversations that friends/acquaintances have...and THIS conversation happened OUTSIDE the house, before even the show started. That is so not done!!

He proposed, she disposed...the matter ended there! By raking it up here, she seems to be using it for her benefit to appear proper and holier-than-thou.

All these contestants would have done stupid things outside the house...are we expecting that everyone will be judged on what they have been doing outside, in their personal lives...and not on how they conduct themselves inside?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i tohhh liking her a lottt these daysss...

shez goooddd...


10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000%%%%% better than that diandra tanna banna puns...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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sorry buddy.. it was not done.. Kaye ka respect kare Minisha ki.. Jab ki usne apne hi dost or whatever ka nahi kiya.. Pure national TV pe yeh san bola ( doesn't matter ) true or not . But this is not done.. Even though I hate Aray... But joh bhar hua so ho gaya.. thats it
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kwerky23

If for an instant we believe that what Minnisha was saying is true, still there is an unspoken/understood rule of confidentiality between conversations that friends/acquaintances have...and THIS conversation happened OUTSIDE the house, before even the show started. That is so not done!!


He proposed, she disposed...the matter ended there! By raking it up here, she seems to be using it for her benefit to appear proper and holier-than-thou.

All these contestants would have done stupid things outside the house...are we expecting that everyone will be judged on what they have been doing outside, in their personal lives...and not on how they conduct themselves inside?



This is not new that people discuss outside things related to contestants in house.

In last season, sofiya disclosed that she met Ijaz outside before entering house and her secretary told her many bad things about him.

Dolly Bindra raised issue of her dispute with Sweta Tiwari's ex husband and put allegations on Shweta's character as call girl etc.

Sky disclosed one issue about Mehek 's past about some party in goa.

Sapna called salman woman beater.

Imam discussed that he dropped Urvashi from some project where he was casting director.

Mine putting all examples here nothing to defame previous contestant but to tell that contestants does so.

Dont u feel that romantic link ups some where malign girl's image? Minisha said correctly that she has one boyfriend and such link up will harm her relationship with him.

Further, you said he propose and she cud have said no. But between that future proposal and current salman's indirect questioning, PR news plantation might have put an harm on Minisha's image.

Take other scenario, which u find appropriate that is she wud have refused in future. If she wud have done so, many viewers like us wud have put allegations on her intensions that if she wanted to decline his proposal why did she gave so much importace to his stupidities in first phase. Some might have called that her plan to stay in house.




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: omika23

sorry buddy.. it was not done.. Kaye ka respect kare Minisha ki.. Jab ki usne apne hi dost or whatever ka nahi kiya.. Pure national TV pe yeh san bola ( doesn't matter ) true or not . But this is not done.. Even though I hate Aray... But joh bhar hua so ho gaya.. thats it



First, Minisha never called Arya as his frnd.

Second, it was Arya who from first day telling about his pact with Minisha, which is totally wrong from game's point of view.

Third, these ppl try to take ride on use by service planted love stories. do u think that is right?

Fourth, a person who raise his or her voice and show discomfort against it is called wrong. Why? coz she thot about her image, or she thot not to cheat audience.

Fifth, Puneet was her screen father in bachna ee haseeno, arya was her hero in some punjabi movie. It doesn't mean they become her rishtedaar.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibhusharma78



This is not new that people discuss outside things related to contestants in house.

In last season, sofiya disclosed that she met Ijaz outside before entering house and her secretary told her many bad things about him.

Dolly Bindra raised issue of her dispute with Sweta Tiwari's ex husband and put allegations on Shweta's character as call girl etc.

Sky disclosed one issue about Mehek 's past about some party in goa.

Sapna called salman woman beater.

Imam discussed that he dropped Urvashi from some project where he was casting director.

Mine putting all examples here nothing to defame previous contestant but to tell that contestants does so.

Dont u feel that romantic link ups some where malign girl's image? Minisha said correctly that she has one boyfriend and such link up will harm her relationship with him.

Further, you said he propose and she cud have said no. But between that future proposal and current salman's indirect questioning, PR news plantation might have put an harm on Minisha's image.

Take other scenario, which u find appropriate that is she wud have refused in future. If she wud have done so, many viewers like us wud have put allegations on her intensions that if she wanted to decline his proposal why did she gave so much importace to his stupidities in first phase. Some might have called that her plan to stay in house.





What is the point of Raking up previous season's contestants and their 'disclosures'? WHAT IS WRONG, IS WRONG and will remain wrong, irrespective of how many times it is done.

Also, as far as I am concerned, I form my opinion based on what they do in the house and not the baggage they carry from outside. I wasnt aware of more than half of these contestants, so my opinion is based on their conduct in the house.

People would have formed any opinion of Minissha looking at how she interacts with Arya in the BB house and not based on what his PR says or what their old story was. Actions speak louder than any words...so if she stayed away from any flirting, why would anyone think she is interested in him?

You didn't understand what I meant by - he proposed, she disposed. I meant that he put this idea forward and she had declined it OUTSIDE the house itself, so that story was finished before they entered the house. What on earth was the point to talk about a personal conversation on TV, if not to show yourself in a good light and the other in a bad light??

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have written elsewhere too that what Minisha claims cannot be proven. Arya and Minisha can reveal their phonecall records to show who called whom, but what was said remains between the two of them.

Either ways - we know that Arya claimed on the first day itself that whatever happens he'll never nominate Minisha. Minisha on the other hand has been showing some kind of animosity towards Arya from the beginning. She had a problem with him when he talked about Sonali (not that that was in good taste, but she did not have a similar problem with other men), she's already nominated him and she's talked about him behind his back. Arya has left her strictly alone.

We have to also ask why does Puneet who's worked with Minisha in the past have so much anger against her. No one can claim that either Minisha or Arya is more successful - Arya has 21 films to Minisha's 18 - which is more or less equal.

What Minisha's claim has done is leave a bad taste - there's protocol of behavior - something called the "Honor Code". In this day and age of Stings and Juicy Gossip they may not mean much, but to me and there are others like me - the Honor Code matters.

I might've respected Minisha if she'd made this disclosure when Arya was around to defend himself or clarify his position. To do it sneakily to a person Arya is close to and respects (so far) - is reprehensible.

Just as a woman's reputation is a fragile so is a man's reputation. In this industry everyone knows everything about everyone else - there are hardly any secrets. So the attempt to tarnish his reputation will only backfire on her.

Anyway speaks volumes about her - if she's found to be worthy only to be a fake girlfriend and not a real one.

Oh and here's something on this issue:
http://www.apunkachoice.com/content/article/sid100021801-aarya_babbar_had_no_time_for_minissha_lamba_before_bigg_boss_8/
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I like your post Purva. If Minissh is a strong character she should've spoken to Babbar directly. And it's not even that Arya is one really aggressive violent person that she's scared to confront him. He would've replied back probably in a similar or in an even milder tone with her.

Tanna is irritating her yday and telling her about smiling blah blah but Minissha is scared of being open with her. Just gave one line and shut up. I would've loved if she just gave her back and shut Tanna up.



So far this week she has followed Salmans instructions and sidelined Tanna and Arya and jumped with Gautam. I want to see if she keeps becoming a baingan each week.

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