JealOusy 'Damaged vs protect' lOve...???

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Posted: 18 years ago
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In relatiOnships where feelings of jealOusy are mild and Occasional, it reminds the cOuple nOt tO take each Other fOr granted. It can encOurage cOuples tO appreciate each Other and make a cOnsciOus effOrt tO make sure the Other persOn feels valued.

JealOusy heightens emOtiOns, making lOve feel strOnger and sex more passiOnate. In small, manageable dOses, jealousy can be a pOsitive fOrce in a relatiOnship. But when it's intense Or irratiOnal, the stOry is very different.

SOmetimes jealOus feelings can get Out of prOpOrtiOn. For example, when a man makes an embarrassing scene at a party because his wife accepts an invitatiOn tO dance with an Old friend, or when a wOman is overwhelmed with jealOusy because her husband's cOmpany appOints a female bOss.

These kinds of reactiOn can put a huge strain On a relatiOnship, leaving the Other partner feeling as though they're cOnstantly walking On eggshells to avOid a jealOus reactiOn. The jealOus partner, Often aware of their prOblem, swings between self-blame and justificatiOn.



Debate : What is true fact a/c tO yOu... dOes jealOusy damaged Our lOve Or its just a prOtectiOn fOr Our lOve...???



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Posted: 18 years ago
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nO views... dOes it means nO One feel jealOusy in his/her life...😕

Well, is this pOssible??? 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I guess both are true.

It can damage and Protect.

Damage if you are easily jealous by something, just something small like your partner talking to opposite gender, can cause damage to ones relationshiip, You may be too over protective/not like ur partner doing this. or too much so possesive 😳 which yes then story is very different.

That will damage relationship, as then one thing leads to another and the other person may feel like they can't do anything as otherwise partner will get jealous..and hence arguments.

But i guess can also protect, as maybe u then are like ok i know my aprtner does not like me doing this or that, so i wont do, so to show u are fully committed you dont do something which makes the other jealous. 😳

Possesiveness is good and bad. Not to be over possesive...not good.. 😳 ...but maybe if u dont show...that you care 4 the other then one may start to think u just dont care if they live or die. 😳

So jealousy does Damage but can Protect at same time. 😉

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think when real Love happen they dont feel Jealousy ....they just love each other their good and bad points... 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Usman arnt u just too much intrested in the matters of love.. 😆

Umm i think both the effects can happen. At times its cute when ur patner gets jeolous.. However at times it can also be very negative.. Bec then the trust of the relationship is lost. 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: cool_pooja

Usman arnt u just too much intrested in the matters of love.. 😆

Umm i think both the effects can happen. At times its cute when ur patner gets jeolous.. However at times it can also be very negative.. Bec then the trust of the relationship is lost. 😊


Yes i am.... afterall, i am a lOverbOy....😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
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It is really hard to find jealousy free relationship ..
yes in true love it doesn't exist 😊

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