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Every single day i come here before watching the episodes and i come across so many negative posts about ishita...raman...mani... and trust me it spoils the fun of the episode, i dont y cant we let the CVs lay their story with a straight mind. I'll come to this after sometime, but lemme just write something related to the topic here.
Mani till date has been seen to be calm,mature, rich,intelligent, respectful,respected,loving man...in short a perfect man that any woman would want in a life partner. Who would want someone so considerate, so understanding, so giving. But when it comes to falling in love.. we fall in love with a flawed man, someone like raman. and suddenly we tend to fall in love with their flaws as well. Infact for me loving someone, accepting their flaws is what a true love is. When u suddenly understand his reasons behind shouting at you at every drop of a pin, when you suddenly fall in love with every considerate gesture of his, when u suddenly understand that the reasons behind his irritation is his insecurity about you, you are actually in love.
Raman here is a flawed man. A man who could be seen to be a manner less..egoistic ..ba***rd. But is he really one. No. He is man who is insecure about all his relationships, who panics at a drop of a hat. He is a man who is difficult to fall in love with, because he tends to easily hurt people. Its difficult for him to show his softer side to people, but showing the manner less, harsh,rude raman to even his loved ones is one heck of an easy task for him. But once you understand him, u might feel loved at every moment of your life. That is how a flawed man loves. Once in love , he gives his everything to the person, he might not be lovey dovey towards you, but yes when in need he would be always dere beside you. Yes ishita is a lovely woman, a woman with a big heart, a woman who has got immense love inside her and yes she deserves so so so much love in life, BUT that by no means mean that she does not deserve Raman but Mani, just becoz Mani seems to be someone for whom anyone can fall, and Raman is someone who seems difficult to fall for. When one is in love, there is no question of whether you deserve that person or not, its all about love, falling in love...and things fall into place automatically.
About his behaviour in the hospital. Well there are two types of people in dis world who panic like hell when something goes wrong with their loved ones,and the other who can handle things very calmly with patience. Mani comes from the latter section and Raman from the former. Now again anger,
is one form of panic. People like Raman try to hide their panic behind their anger. When they are scared about losing that person, they shout becoz of course they can shed tears. Raman takes this way of dealing things. For the frst tym in the history of television I am seeing the male lead who is ofcourse a successful business man but has a Rowdish side of him. And here we differ from all the male leads that has been shown on television , who behave in a sophisticated manner even when they are angry, who swear in English. Well we have a different lead here who yet again is an angry young man dat is being shown on TV these days, but yeah wd a different Flavours. When one is emotional, he tends to go back to his origin, to the way he has been brought in. SO yes raman behaves in that manner when angry , an anger is one form of emotion
ishita is here to bring the loving side of Raman, the softer version of Raman, to bring out the flawless Raman, who is hidden behind a Flawed Raman and who knows he might turn into some one much more charming than Mani...
Coming to today's episode. Well yeah it was all about taking the first step of Ishra's relationship. Love is already there, but love is not everything in relationship, dere are other aspects as well. And m glad the CVs are trying to cover those aspects before Love. Once these aspects are covered Love gradually happens, this is the first show where i see that the concentration is being given to not the physical attraction, and physical encounters and through that falling in love, but to the actual parameters of love, that are the essence of a relationship . In real life love gradually happens, once all these aspects are covered. Here we are watching a mature love story, where the reality of an arrange marriage is being dealt with.People dont fall in love by just falling on each oder, or by just dragging/ being dragged to one corner. LOve happens gradually. And dats wat dey are showing. Lucky dat I am a follower of this show, for me dis show is not doomed, not now atleast. Yes the Ekta part of the show does bother me, but right now m enjoying it. I hope this post removes some negativity from this forum, if at all people read such a long and boring post😉
i would be really glad.
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