are opposites or similar people appropriate for marriage?

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are opposites or similar people appropriate for marriage?

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peace.. thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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dis one's based on my last poll. are opposites or similar people appropriate for marriage? those who r experienced, definitely share ur views πŸ˜‰ this is not in reference to ISHRA, but in real life..wat do u think is better?
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--Megha-- thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very difficult to answer.
Some people like their spouse or partner to have similar likings or hobbies like them (e.g. hiking or traveling or music, books etc) so that they can share time with each other in doing stuff that they like.

Some people prefer having some space in relationship not having their spouse around them clinging 24x 7 e.g., Women going to kitty parties or men enjoying Golf with their friends.

So accordingly I wud say m between the two options that u have mentioned. πŸ˜› Sometimes its good to have different tastes sometimes its good to be similar. 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123

Very difficult to answer.

Some people like their spouse or partner to have similar likings or hobbies like them (e.g. hiking or traveling or music, books etc) so that they can share time with each other in doing stuff that they like.

Some people prefer having some space in relationship not having their spouse around them clinging 24x 7 e.g., Women going to kitty parties or men enjoying Golf with their friends.

So accordingly I wud say m between the two options that u have mentioned. πŸ˜› Sometimes its good to have different tastes sometimes its good to be similar. 😳


hmm..good answer.. r u married btw? if yes, den to which kind of a guy..similar or opposite or smwhere in btw? πŸ˜‰
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think opposites r best suited for each other..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123

Very difficult to answer.

Some people like their spouse or partner to have similar likings or hobbies like them (e.g. hiking or traveling or music, books etc) so that they can share time with each other in doing stuff that they like.

Some people prefer having some space in relationship not having their spouse around them clinging 24x 7 e.g., Women going to kitty parties or men enjoying Golf with their friends.

So accordingly I wud say m between the two options that u have mentioned. πŸ˜› Sometimes its good to have different tastes sometimes its good to be similar. 😳


Last line is very much important in real life πŸ˜‰
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--Megha-- thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: peace..


hmm..good answer.. r u married btw? if yes, den which kind of a guy..similar or opposite or smwhere in btw? πŸ˜‰



Hahaha it takes a lifetime to figure out a Guy πŸ˜† I am married but to a person who has similar and contracting characteristics

I have my own flaws but he has accepted me with those, N I work around his problems as well.

Well to have peace in life, sometimes u need to sacrifice, sometimes u need to make ur husband sacrifice for u πŸ˜›πŸ˜‰
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123



Hahaha it takes a lifetime to figure out a Guy πŸ˜† I am married but to a person who has similar and contracting characteristics

I have my own flaws but he has accepted me with those, N I work around his problems as well.

Well to have peace in life, sometimes u need to sacrifice, sometimes u need to make ur husband sacrifice for u πŸ˜›πŸ˜‰


bold: πŸ˜†
hmm..good to know. tfs 😊 god bless!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: peace..


bold: πŸ˜†
hmm..good to know. tfs 😊 god bless!



thanks but marriage is difficult dear πŸ˜† There r days when I feel I shud leave all this n go to himalayas. N there r days when I feel wow this is the best day of my life πŸ˜†πŸ˜‰

It all depends on how we handle those good n bad days. 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Studied Psychology, the greatest myth is that opposites attract. It has been scientifically proven that like attracts like and those who are similar have highly successful relationships.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: canuck-umz

Studied Psychology, the greatest myth is that opposites attract. It has been scientifically proven that like attracts like and those who are similar have highly successful relationships.


even i agree..imo similarity is really imp in a relationship, esp ur choices btw wat is right and wat is wrong..
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