was ishita wrong in trusting sanjana? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ..Mehak..

She shouldn't have trusted a stranger and shouldn't have taken such a big step she is going to face it hard tomorrow but it also isn't her fault as Raman and Mihir didn't told her the full truth.

Me I'm neutral
I believe neither were at fault
What we've gotta remember is Mihir forbid Raman for telling ishita as Raman asked mihir many times to reveal
Whilst ishita was confused n upset understandably she could've handled better instead of giving Raman silent treatment but what can I say she's too soft hearted to believe what all say
In fact if anyone to blame it is mihir n especially shagun as mihir didn't even think his future partner didn't deserve to know truth n especially shagun for using her twisted mind to trap both ishita and mihir
She's the real culprit in all of this

It was a Arora family secret. Hence it was solely Mihir's responsibility to tell the Iyers about it. The Bhallas could have tried to make Mihir understand the gravity of the situation. In fact, Raman did try to tell Mihir to speak the truth. But it was MIhir who refused. Once he did that, It would be wrong of anybody outside the Arora family to spill the beans. So in my POV, Bhallas are not at fault this time. It was Mihir's fault.

Second, Ishita had two issues, one about Mihir Sanjana and the other about Sanjana Raman. She had asked Raman if he knew Sanjana. Raman had said no. Ishita did not trust him and decided to trust Sanjana and believe that Raman had affair with her. Why? Why did trusting a stranger become more important than trusting a caring husband? She acted like a total fool.
As for the sibling issue, Ishu should have first spoken to Mihir and asked him that if some day he meets his sister, what will he do or if some day , his sister wants to come back to him, will he forgive her. But Ishita did not do any of these. SHe took charge without anybody's consent, without thinking that it might hurt someone. She did the same mistake when she asked Shagun to sleep in the bedroom. SHe did not care about Raman or BHallas feelings. So all she does is what she thinks right. She refuses to accept that she can be wrong. Unless Ishita lets go of this "thinking", all the vamps and villains will "fool" her.
Just wait ...Param will make her a laughing material, Simmi will taunt her.. I guess even Mihika will taunt her... Ishita can blame ONLY HERSELF". She has turned into a "FOOL". Suddenly Shagun has become intelligent. 😉

Originally posted by: YaSha0512

Me I'm neutral
I believe neither were at fault
What we've gotta remember is Mihir forbid Raman for telling ishita as Raman asked mihir many times to reveal
Whilst ishita was confused n upset understandably she could've handled better instead of giving Raman silent treatment but what can I say she's too soft hearted to believe what all say
In fact if anyone to blame it is mihir n especially shagun as mihir didn't even think his future partner didn't deserve to know truth n especially shagun for using her twisted mind to trap both ishita and mihir
She's the real culprit in all of this

Originally posted by: rose35

It was a Arora family secret. Hence it was solely Mihir's responsibility to tell the Iyers about it. The Bhallas could have tried to make Mihir understand the gravity of the situation. In fact, Raman did try to tell Mihir to speak the truth. But it was MIhir who refused. Once he did that, It would be wrong of anybody outside the Arora family to spill the beans. So in my POV, Bhallas are not at fault this time. It was Mihir's fault.

Second, Ishita had two issues, one about Mihir Sanjana and the other about Sanjana Raman. She had asked Raman if he knew Sanjana. Raman had said no. Ishita did not trust him and decided to trust Sanjana and believe that Raman had affair with her. Why? Why did trusting a stranger become more important than trusting a caring husband? She acted like a total fool.
As for the sibling issue, Ishu should have first spoken to Mihir and asked him that if some day he meets his sister, what will he do or if some day , his sister wants to come back to him, will he forgive her. But Ishita did not do any of these. SHe took charge without anybody's consent, without thinking that it might hurt someone. She did the same mistake when she asked Shagun to sleep in the bedroom. SHe did not care about Raman or BHallas feelings. So all she does is what she thinks right. She refuses to accept that she can be wrong. Unless Ishita lets go of this "thinking", all the vamps and villains will "fool" her.
Just wait ...Param will make her a laughing material, Simmi will taunt her.. I guess even Mihika will taunt her... Ishita can blame ONLY HERSELF". She has turned into a "FOOL". Suddenly Shagun has become intelligent. 😉

I'm with Ishu on this one.. I think some ppl are forgetting that sanjana had a lot of convincing proof that she was mihirs sister
She shared the same stories mihika had already told her,showed the same photo too. It's not entirely unheard of that you can't believe someone you just met.can't believe some ppl are calling her dumb.