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Posted: 18 years ago
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Who do you think loves Kaajjal more selflessly and purely!

Dev or Satya Prakash?

I think Dev's love is more selfless! SP loves his daughter and very selfishly. He thinks she is doing the right thing in choosing Aditya as her life partner thus making him her present and future!

While all the time Dev thinks that none other than Kaajjal can be his past, present and future! But then too he is ready to sacrifice and let go of this precious love just for her happiness!

Satya loves his daughter and guides her to choose the right! But in my eyes he is disillusioning her and misguiding her towards nothing but pain and grief! Which father would want that!??!?!? Gosh, I can't even dream any father would do such a thing! However angry, with a wealth of experience SP should have remained neutral and since he has so proudly made Kaajjal what she is now, should have encouraged her to use that strength in thinking and choosing correctly! Isn't he a teacher for Christ's sake? He could have handled it much much better!!!

Dev inspite of knowing Kaajjal for such a short life-span, is ready to sacrifice his love for her for her happiness!! 😳 He will wait for her to choose unlike SP who is deciding and choosing for his daughter!

However weak, he should be the best judge by not influencing her decision!😕

Of course we all know in the end Kaajjal will of course choose Dev, but another character that of a loving father, ruined in that process!!!!! 😡

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I dont think we can compare both because one loves her like a father and the other as the man in her love life. I think they both love her Equally but differently.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i dunno...i think both love her equally..satya just wants the best for his daughter 😳 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: simi1295

I dont think we can compare both because one loves her like a father and the other as the man in her love life. I think they both love her Equally but differently.

Sorry, but let me word my question again! Yes you are right both love Kaajjal in their own way one as a lover, one as a father! But my question is whose love is more selfless?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Engel*

i dunno...i think both love her equally..satya just wants the best for his daughter 😳 😊

you are good to point that Satya loves her equally like Dev in his love for Kaajjal. You say Satya wants the best for his daughter, does that mean even if his daughter could remain unhappy with her present and future, she should choose Aditya?

Where her happiness lies in her past - Dev!!!😕

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Autumn ji......

I thought you were going to compare Adi and dev and got a shock. 😆

Though I have to say we cant compare Satya and dev.Satya is a Father and dev her Love.

I am not angry with Satya.I know in general He;s not being Fair to Dev...

But since Dev refused to come Meet Kaajjal when she was sick and said he didnt care wether she suffered or died...Satya has Been enormously angry with him.

Second KAju's dad does not know Dev was the one who helped find kaajjal and he moved heaven and earth to try and ask for forgiveness.
He still thinks dev not bother to look back.

And of course Since satya does not love his damad dev as much as Kaajjal he will indeed find it hard to forgive him and hence thinks Adi is best for her.

Of curse when Adi is showing this picture perfect phase of his ....Which dad wont be impressed?


Currently This was to happen......He still remmebers the way Kaaju gets very adamant when it came to devu and feels she's bette of without him.


I can understand his anger .Butbbeing a father he is not thinking rationally.
Twice before this he let her do what she wanted...first sacrifice her own life and marry devu and second go in search of dev knowing that he is 'probably' dead.

Hence the third time Even Kaju doesnt have the guts to face her dad.


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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: autumnleaf

you are good to point that Satya loves her equally like Dev in his love for Kaajjal. You say Satya wants the best for his daughter, does that mean even if his daughter could remain unhappy with her present and future, she should choose Aditya?

Where her happiness lies in her past - Dev!!!😕

oh yes he wants her happiness...

The only stupidity is that he thinks her happiness is with Adi not devu.....He is failing to see that he is blinded by personal prejudices.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sharmii

Autumn ji......

I thought you were going to compare Adi and dev and got a shock. 😆

Never in my life!! That goatbrain is not even close to anywhere near Dev ki choti oongli ka naakhoon!!!!😆

Though I have to say we cant compare Satya and dev.Satya is a Father and dev her Love.

Here again I am not comparing the love itself, the selflessness of their love!

I am not angry with Satya.I know in general He;s not being Fair to Dev...

But since Dev refused to come Meet Kaajjal when she was sick and said he didnt care wether she suffered or died...Satya has Been enormously angry with him.

Second KAju's dad does not know Dev was the one who helped find kaajjal and he moved heaven and earth to try and ask for forgiveness.
He still thinks dev not bother to look back.

And of course Since satya does not love his damad dev as much as Kaajjal he will indeed find it hard to forgive him and hence thinks Adi is best for her.

Of curse when Adi is showing this picture perfect phase of his ....Which dad wont be impressed?


Currently This was to happen......He still remmebers the way Kaaju gets very adamant when it came to devu and feels she's bette of without him.


I can understand his anger .Butbbeing a father he is not thinking rationally.
Twice before this he let her do what she wanted...first sacrifice her own life and marry devu and second go in search of dev knowing that he is 'probably' dead.

Hence the third time Even Kaju doesnt have the guts to face her dad.

Agreed to everything, that SP doesn't really know the situation and is accordingly wishing that Kaajjal forget Dev and all, but I still feel, the creatives could have made a more neutral face for SP!!! After all he is a learned professor and knowledgeable inspite of being a selfish father!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Actauly Autumn ji Parents Can never be selfsih in their Love... 😳

So I guess I would caal a satya a little prejudiced and now a bit over-protective....

He needs to forgive dev.Afterall dev too has been wronged so many times and yet never once held it against them. 😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sharmii

Actauly Autumn ji Parents Can never be selfsih in their Love... 😳

So I guess I would caal a satya a little prejudiced and now a bit over-protective....

He needs to forgive dev.Afterall dev too has been wronged so many times and yet never once held it against them. 😳

Okay I agree that parents don't love selfishly. What I mean is that his influence over Kaajjal should have been more mature in his prejudice that he feels for Dev. He could have handled that maybe in a very different neutral way! I know he loves Kaajjal and she is his daughter. It is his right and everything said and done, but then again, Dev loves Kaajjal where she doesn't even yet belong to him at least not yet! But then too he is thinking only about her happiness. He knows that she loved him to death, but now its Aditya with whom she wishes to spend the rest of her life. So he is willing to sacrifice for her sake. Had he known then that she has lost her memory, I am sure he would still wish her happiness and respect her choice. He might fight to get her back, he did too, but didn't know of her ML. Inspite of her ML Dev would want what Kaajjal wants in her heart!! At the moment out of sheer trauma of her Memory returned and the pressures from SP and goat family, she is unable to make the right decision.

Here comes the understanding of a father. He knows the real truth and her entire past. So He should at the moment not misguide her but be her strength and help her decide thinking of her happiness - Dev. But no, he is letting prejudice overcome his love for his daughter and misguiding her blinded by this prejudice!!!

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