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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 11 years ago

Anandi seems to be the eternal victim always at the receiving end.

In the past and in the present too.

In the past, she overcame her problems due to unstinting support from BHairon and then DS.

Now it is Shiv all the way and to some extent Shiv's family.

Can she survive alone without any support at all?

Will her goodness be of any help in this?

Would like to see anandi blooming without any support too for some time.

Of course she provides comfort and happiness to her supporters.

Her social activities are also have the shadow of her supporters standing behind her.

Her family seems to be the biggest hurdle and also the biggest advantage.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 11 years ago

Anandi seems like an innocent kid. Not at all like a grownup woman who can handle the likes of DB in a determined way.

Anandi can fight a straightforward battle but she cant fight a cunning person like DB easily.

She looks so good and so vulnerable that I can almost equate her with Amol.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 11 years ago

I think this is what the makers want to show.

For a woman like Anandi who is quite intelligent proved herself to be very capable handling issues outside of her home right from child hood conquering the world is not a big challenge.

But it is the family who drags her down it is the ties of her family that hamper her growth and prevent from reaching for the heights she is destined to.

She was teacher's pet for the shortwhile she went to school.She was a star performer and knew how to handle bullies even as a kid.

Her parents and DSa tied her up in a marriage and that hampered her growth a lot.Simply because of her love and respect for family she followed their traditions and suppressed her desire to educate herself.

Only when her loved ones specially DSa and Jagya did not recognise the sacrifice she made by giving up her education she decided to educate herself.

Same way when Jagya didn't respect her as a wife she decided to make a life for herself.

Finally when she got rid of Jagya and carving an identity and a life for herself Dsa tied her up to Shiv who came with such a dysfunctional family.

This family tied her down even though Shiv gives her freedom she can't ignore his family who is forever finding itself in trouble and so she spend more time straightening things for them instead of giving in to her desires to enjoy carefree live with her husband.

Even in real world it is the family life and responsibilities towards family that pull back even most capable women.

As for Anandi living without support I guess she is capable of.But the thing is a human being is a social animal and lives in a community and family is the building block

.No man/woman is an island.

While a man is not bound by his family responsibilities to such an extent a woman's growth outside of her family is restricted by her responsibilities towards family.

https://www.ndtv.com/article/india/women-can-t-have-it-all-says-indra-nooyi-in-discussion-gone-viral-552240

She recounted the day 14 years ago when she was told that she would be made president of PepsiCo and be named to the board of directors.

She said she was "overwhelmed" but her mother's reaction was, she said, "let the news wait. Can you go out and get some milk."

Ms Nooyi recalled her mother telling her, "let me explain something to you. You might be president of PepsiCo. You might be on the board of directors. But when you enter this house, you're the wife, you're the daughter, you're the daughter-in-law, you're the mother. You're all of that. Nobody else can take that place. So leave that damned crown in the garage. And don't bring it into the house."

"You know I've never seen that crown," the corporate honcho said.

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Muktchand

@Muktchand

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Anandi seems like an innocent kid. Not at all like a grownup woman who can handle the likes of DB in a determined way.

Anandi can fight a straightforward battle but she cant fight a cunning person like DB easily.

She looks so good and so vulnerable that I can almost equate her with Amol.

agree hope Anandi won't hide from rest of family about DB's Laddo have cocaine

and hopefully Anandi won't confront DB alone about too like that shirt incident that makes DB more dangerous😡

Anandi make sure DB herself confess her crime... or with proper evidence like Anandi shd find from where DB is getting this Drugs. then Shiv Anandi shd revealed this in front of entire family

it seems DB doesn't understand difference between some desi bhasam and Drugs. Both seller and DB are fool feels Drugs can't be traced.

I am sure DB will say she just wanted to throw A out of KB not taking her life ...😡

anyways CV love give whitewash ... foundation has been formed...

only thing even its open that its DB's hand behind all this how on earth she will be redeemed 😡 becoz all this bhanda phod she will be more cunning ...

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 11 years ago

It is sad to see someone like anandi caught in the net of scheming DB and losing valuable time which she could have devoted to some useful work.

If Sanchi can work in an office, why not show anandi also working as teacher?

Has anandi undergone teachers' training?

It is nice to see Sanchi going for work and becoming financially independent in the process.

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
It is sad to see someone like anandi caught in the net of scheming DB and losing valuable time which she could have devoted to some useful work.

If Sanchi can work in an office, why not show anandi also working as teacher?

Has anandi undergone teachers' training?

It is nice to see Sanchi going for work and becoming financially independent in the process.

Sanchi is side character - she can be free from problems, she can go for work and become independent. All this is not possible for Anandi because she is the lead. There seems to be compulsion to show leads entangled in family drama. Asking for an independent working woman as lead of BV is too much. Even her education was completed sitting at home - she never entered a college or knows about college life, I do not think she has undergone teacher's training. Even after living for more than a year in a city - she is still leading her life like she is in Jaitsar, except that she has learnt driving and goes out freely for her bhaili work and to drop Amol to school etc.

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swathimanjula69

@swathimanjula69

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Posted: 11 years ago

Anandi deserves that. For sekhars' she has done only mistakes. As soon as she came to knew about Saurab she should have discussed the matter with elders in the family. Instead she prefers to act as super woman and one man show. There is no need for her to go to jaister for election campaign of jagdish. Then as and when time fits she goes to jaister. Even if Hardick wishes to marry Gulli she should have managed to make him understand the situation of the house. She never felt bad when Sachi's marriage broken whom she should consider as her own sister than Gulli. If analysis being done Anandi deserves more punishment than this. Rasika's case arised during her visit to jaister. A woman's priority should go towards her husband children and the house where she lives in. DB is under wrong impression about the case as well. She thought its Anandi who conveyed the details of shirt & all where as this been conveyed by shiv to his cousin. there is no open communication in the family either

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