Originally posted by: dsr11
awesome analysis vinni.
liked how you interpreted zero and blank paper etc.
as i said before, aastha taking anjali to the office is a stupid move with good intentions and it doesn't empower anjali in any way. i'm glad they showed the same. in today's episode anjali promised aastha that she won't let anyone mistreat her but she won't do anything wrong either. ...Yeah rekha think Anjali got the point that office was not her ..cup of tea ..and so very nicely explained to astha ..her shortcomings in the matter ...and even pointed out her own capabilities as a house wife ...which was a hard and important too ...from where she could with astha's help and turn it into a small business too for her to be independant ...as astha was trying to give anjali her self respect back someway or other ...and shlok pointed out the right direction ..Anjali realised shlok's meeaning .
anjali didn't know anything about niranjan's line of work and she doesn't have to prove herself as his equal in his field. that's stupid. she should realize her own strengths and use them. that's smart. aastha might have taken anjali to the office with good intentions but she put her in a vulnerable position by doing that. when niranjan tried to humiliate anjali, she pitched in to rescue anjali by faking that she is reading anjali's ideas, when they are not. isn't that humiliating too?! where is anjali's empowerment in all this?! ...
Absolutely Agree...that is what both shlok and Anjali pointed out to astha ...They understood the point...that anjali need not do or enter NA'S sphere to show anjali's rights and place ...but her own strengths and abilities were important ...astha was not understanding at all as she wanted anjali to regain her wife and bahu rights but forcibly won't work only self help will ...but think anjali is now steady in her decision too.
shlok definitely pointed that out to anjali in yesterday's episode. you cannot just claim someone else's success as your own just by being their spouse. however bad niranjan may be, he is solely responsible for his success or failure in his career. because spouse is not the only person who plays a role in shaping a person's life and career. actually parents should be credited more, though they cannot be held responsible for all of our actions, for inculcating the ideas and values in the childhood that eventually lead to a person's success or failure. then come the teachers and then the spouse. though there are many people who influence one's life, its up to the person to make the right moves/ choices that lead to his/her success or failure.
Yeah ur so right rekha ...one's success should be credited to ...nature ...parents ...environment. ..Teachers ...friends ...circumstances ...and then only spouse comes in and withhelds it with her own inputs and strength and adding her abilities too if she can in anyway ...if not problems arise without mutual...respect ... understanding or support ...as support and maintainer ...in 99 cases...to either failure ...or complete success too.
niranjan became a good businessman like he wanted because he controlled his life. but anjali couldn't become the good daughter or good wife or good mother like she wanted because she let niranjan control her life. it's high time she stops letting others control her and takes the reins of her life back into her own hands...
Absolutely Agree about both Niranjan and Anjali too. ...Niranjan is his own master and controller ...thats why can deal with any situation easily if not selfishly but still a mastermind. ...Anjali is slowly taking the reins of her own life I think ...not only from Niranjan. ..but after shlok shouted at her ...even from Astha too ...as per her decision of relaying on her own strengths ...not others .