Completely agreed with you Duha.. it is really a very sensitive topic and someone who has gone through it will know how it feels. I am sorry to hear about your experience and pray to god that you have a healthy baby in the near future. 😳
I can understand your fear of taking a chance again as me too have and am experiencing the same fear. I had a miscarriage last year because the fetus had some problem (which we came to know later on by doing a test on fetus) and guess god took the decision in his own hands that time, otherwise, I would had to go through what you had to, in taking one of the toughest decision. Then also, it was very very painful experience to go through the process of detaching the fetus from me. I still sometimes remember that time and it makes me sad & cry. I can completely understand from where you and your fear is coming from. The fear of baby being normal in next preg is something which weights heavily on us. We can only pray to god and take every precautions (pre tests and medicines) before conceiving.
I also agreed with the bolded red part....
I wish you a healthy and safe pregnancy in future. May God Be With You.. and give you strength... Take Care.. sweta 😊
Hey thanks!!!.. exactly only ppl that have gone through this pain can understand how difficult it is. the feeling when i had abortion was awful - i really didnt understand how women can willingly abort there child - its horrible, the most humiliating experience in life! and when u feel ur baby leaving u, its heartbreaking!
Im sorry to, to hear abt ur experience. its tough when u find out ur pregnant n see so many dreams - n then ur little baby leaves u! u think yyy? y me, what did i do wrong? I pray we both recover from r loss n r blessed with healthy beautiful children! When my test results came, everything was totally healthy, they just couldnt understand y it happened. I have been told im healthy, i can try again but im just toooo scared.
I was 4 months pregnant - and in those 4 months i had come very attached to my child - i was like 5 months away. it makes me sad thinking abt my experience. my husband doesnt understand why i think abt that time, but how can i explain what i lost n my fear of trying again.
what if i cant have healthy babies - waht if it happens again - i know u should think positive but its something that will trouble me throughout my 9months - iv been advised my by Peer Saab not to have any scans or anything in my next pregnancy - which is going to b even hard for me- but i am going to b strong n whatever happens il accept it from God!
I will InshaAllah keep u in my prayers!! I wish you a healthy and safe pregnancy in the future too!!!!
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