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Posted: 11 years ago
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Does Ganga know how close Jagya was to Gauri and those roses, kamarbandh, chaat chronicles?
Gauri looks fine to me. Why doesn't Jagya tell her truth in civil manner before things get complicated too much?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

Although it is has not been shown, I assumed that Ganga would have told J, that Gauri is falling for him, because she is his wife. I expected that level of transparency in a complicated situation like this. If Ganga hasn't told J anything yet then she is doing injustice to both herself and Gauri. Not a wise move at all.

I have no issues if A supports Ganga. Yes it's natural to feel that way to see someone suffering in this instance.

But Anandi being the epitome of wiseness / fairness and a third party to this triangle with no vested interest, I expected her to show a new angle to JaGan. Anandi should have been the one to tell, JaGan that even if their intentions are noble, they are going to end up causing more harm / hurt to Gauri by hiding the truth and instead of hiding they should politely tell everything to G. That way she would have done well for both Ganga and Gauri. But by advising Jagya on how to take care of Ganga, she endorses that what JaGan are doing is right and the only person getting hurt in the process in Ganga. But that's not true. In the end Gauri will be more hurt while Ganga will be secured.

So why Anandi's worries are only limited to Ganga, when actually there is nothing to worry for her? Ganga is safe with hubby, babies, sasra etc etc. Ganga is not in Anandi's shoes. In JAG triangle, it was Anandi who would go through the pain and end up with nothing. But in JGG, what Ganga is going through is a self-invited temporarily pain with nothing to lose.


@ bold - so true. Ganga is already saying that this is a temporary phase and things will change back to normal again. While Gauri is being misled and will be shattered when ultimately she comes to know the truth. More than J being married - it will hurt that everybody was in to lying and misleading her (except her parents - perhaps she will not blame them).

Anandi was bigger disappointment in this track. Why she cannot think impartially? And Ganga has a special bond with her? How long does she know Ganga or how much time she has spent with Ganga? Anandi knows Gauri from childhood. She has seen the innocence Gauri and the vicious Gauri - still she has more bonding with Ganga? If she feels more bonding with Ganga that means - she is doing so because Ganga is the current beendni of BH.

Several times in serial several characters (including Shiv) were given dialogue that "Anandi kabhi jhooth nahi bolti". Is this true? She will lie with a straight face, even on oath if it is to necessary to save her special someone or someone near him. She lied in court - and she so easily lied to Gauri - it served double purpose - Gauri agreed not to go to havan and she also presumed that if J has told Anandi about her skin damage due to havan, he must be caring for her. When she was asking Gauri to move on - she was under influence of narcotics - so I will not blame her - but if she was to say all this in her senses - she should have told Gauri to forget past relationship - that would have given a clue to Gauri (if she can see beyond her illusion).
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

Although it is has not been shown, I assumed that Ganga would have told J, that Gauri is falling for him, because she is his wife. I expected that level of transparency in a complicated situation like this. If Ganga hasn't told J anything yet then she is doing injustice to both herself and Gauri. Not a wise move at all.

I have no issues if A supports Ganga. Yes it's natural to feel that way to see someone suffering in this instance.

But Anandi being the epitome of wiseness / fairness and a third party to this triangle with no vested interest, I expected her to show a new angle to JaGan. Anandi should have been the one to tell, JaGan that even if their intentions are noble, they are going to end up causing more harm / hurt to Gauri by hiding the truth and instead of hiding they should politely tell everything to G. That way she would have done well for both Ganga and Gauri. But by advising Jagya on how to take care of Ganga, she endorses that what JaGan are doing is right and the only person getting hurt in the process in Ganga. But that's not true. In the end Gauri will be more hurt while Ganga will be secured.

So why Anandi's worries are only limited to Ganga, when actually there is nothing to worry for her? Ganga is safe with hubby, babies, sasra etc etc. Ganga is not in Anandi's shoes. In JAG triangle, it was Anandi who would go through the pain and end up with nothing. But in JGG, what Ganga is going through is a self-invited temporarily pain with nothing to lose.

Don't Ganga and Jagya know what they are doing? They know that Gauri will react badly to this news.
In the beginning Shivani said to keep quiet about it and then later on post surgery she reacted quite badly.After that there is no other alternative but to wait for her to get better before they tell the news.
They obviously know that this news is going to have big impact on her and that's the reason they are waiting for her to get better before she gets to know of it
What more new insight would Anandi be able to give?
They already know what it would do to Gauri and still want to do it this way then what is she expected to do?
Where did she endorse what they did? Didn't she tell them what she thought of it before she left.

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