Contrasting Opinion

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I was one of them who didn't like the episode😆

First of all, very nicely written. You have put forward your points very clearly.

Thank you 😃

I agree to your point that there is a lot of scope for character improvement. I have been telling that these flaws in Nisha makes her a real character. But the problem is, whatever Nisha did today cannot be justified. She has made a mistake and she cannot get through with it.

I agree. She did do a mistake and I dont think she will be let of that easily. Dadaji was watching her during the entire proceedings and I have a feeling he knows exactly what she has been upto. I also think Nisha has her own set of personal problems, They have shaken her up so much just for a simple lehenga - Lets wait and watch how this ends up. One thing I am also wondering is that this was one small function, I wonder what she will wear in the actual wedding 😆.

I had problem with the entire dance drama. There was no reason for Umesh to put on the lehenga and dance. They could have come up with a better witty idea. They wanted to save Nisha but not at the expense of the family reputation. More responsibility needed from the cousins.

Hahaha despite it being a real show, they have to add drama somewhere 😆 In my opinion it was just used as a device to set the ball rolling on Umesh's whole problem - If they had resorted to another technique, it probably wouldn't have dealt with Umesh's problems. As for family reputation - thank god for Ramesh. He dealt with it very well 😆 But yes the cousins do need to take decisions wisely and I am looking forward to how this coming of age story unravels.

Ramesh. He has been a very loving character. I liked the scene yesterday where he was trying to apologise to Lakshmi for what he had said the previous night. Not many would do that.

Yes exactly!

I am looking forward for the gradual improvement in the characters. I just don't want the CVs to justify a wrong thing even if it is for fun

I do agree with that. I hope they dont get caught up in it being modern but not justifying wrong actions like Sukku taking exam papers. For now I think they are trying to lay down the problems and then fix it one by one.

Originally posted by: fairylover

Nicely written n u explained it properly.. But i am still disappointed with Nisha.

i do not know what description is written on star plus as i never bother to go there. As daily soaps are the most inconsistent thing in this world and they changes the character with a blink of eye.

i disliked Nisha today not coz she ran away but she dint consider others feeling before running away. She dint try whole heartedly. She is not the person who can bear the limelight and i am ok with it but just for herself she is ready to make fun of whole family... She has her own flaws and i am ready to accept that. The thing i like in her is not typical daily soap lead bt still she is a lead.. isn't she supposed to be bit braver?? Not braver but at least face the situation like umesh did. umesh knew that it can cost him a lot n he may get scolding from his dad.. which actually happened but still he did it for others... instead of running away I was expecting Nisha to stand there in jeans only. That would have saved umesh's humiliation. One more thing... No talking about traditional attire but here i thought her dress wasn't nice as compared to the boys one..A plain white t-shirt with black jeans is deffo not a way to dress up in ur sis's wedding. But m leaving it coz she was supposed to wear lehenga n in all the mess she came in whatever she wore whole day.

I agree. Nisha did mess up. I just think she is a reserved character who prides herself in being able to solve other's problems that she becomes completely blind seeing her own. Her insecurities run deep and I hope she opens up a little and talks to her cousins about it. I do agree she was selfish and did not realize the consequences but at the same I think, she is much more vulnerable than the other cousins and in an attempt to avoid causing problems like she mentioned to Saurabh she ends up causing many. Reminds me of Manvi from Ek Hazaron Mein 😊 I hope she sorts herself out soon.

N what this gender thing?? is she ashamed of herself being called as a girl?? I disapprove the way Jwala calls her Bro and she feels disgusted on seeing girly things..

I think for Nisha, 'girl' is personified by Kirti - and I dont think she wants to be that. I am a tomboy at heart and dont get me wrong - I am a hard core feminist, but I dont think Nisha wants to be associated with what people call the "girlier" aspects like dressing up, shopping, romanticism and being emotional. Since she shows no interest in either of those things, people tend to call her a 'boy' since typically boys are associated with rationality and toughness. I dont think she is ashamed of herself being called a girl - not at all. But she doesnt want to be what Kirti is - pretty, flirtatious etc. As for Jwala calling her bro.. isnt that like modern slang? Me and my friends call each other by that all the time - I think its a modern show so the team wants to add modern jargon like "Facebook" etc.

i liked Umesh a lot today n gave +1 for him. He proved himself to be a loving brother who was ready to wear lehenga for the his sis. Though Like shwets said i too disapprove the situation as they could have found a better solution to it. But still umesh is nice. And i have no problem with him for working in kitchen... i in fct want them to show him taking part in some cooking competition n winning it. I do not care about gender biasness but all i care about is respecting our gender. A boy can cook in the kitchen and a girl can ride the bike but she needs to accept that she is a girl and she is proud of it.

Like I mentioned, I think the dance drama set the ball rolling to Umesh's track. Another solution perhaps wouldnt have dealt with his problem.

One more thing I forgot to mention in others post... i liked dadaji-Jwala scene. I liked his modern thinking that Daughters are imp or both families... wahtever reason he gave... M glad that he loves his granddaughters.

Yes that was a really nice scene.