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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 11 years ago

#71

Lols he didn't leave Gauri for another woman?

He was heading straight to Jaitser anticipating to run into Anandi's waiting arms and vowing to make Anandi happy all because Gauri's lies were caught and laid open?

Had he wanted to leave Gauri only for her lies he would not have wanted to run into Anandi's arms even if he had walked out on Gauri.

His Saccha pyar was never his saccha pyar or what ever he felt for Gauri disappeared fast enough

As for his pyar for Anandi - He didn't remember the good times he spent with her all the while he was spendingthe money that she sent.Only after the money stopped coming and his life hit low did he start getting FBs of all the good times he had with her and the desire to retrieve Anandi from the dsust bin has started way back before he found about the lies.

Only himself and his needs matter ti him and the woman who is capable of fulfilling his needs becomes the love of his life.

It is the same with Anandi Gauri and even Ganga.

Edited by aparnauma - 11 years ago

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: Missesha

lol... so until the night before he loved Gauri. N suddenly the next day when Gauri's lies were caught, he fell in love with Anandi. Coz that's what he told her that he is leaving her for Anandi... wah kya sacha pyar hai?

Bold what ?when he said that to her 😲May be i need to see episode again or you need to see My ears and eyes are probably betraying me i need check uo because he never said that to her He said i will never see your face again that too when so called true lover being excused because she is woman that gave her birth right to do anything with her so called sacha pyar then reject him instead of saying sorry challenged him yes i did now what this maa ka ladla will do go to mommy';s lap and cry and then so called true lover rejected him go where ever i don't care for you Wah kya sacha pyar hai obviously he needed to built a temple for her to do her pooja after this 😛aisa sacha pyar kismet walon ko milta where the great great lover woman hurts her so called sacha pyar and then cannot even accept her misdeed Jai ho Gauri devi

Anyways coming back to topic my question is simple. If Ganga as a mother has a right to run away with her child for his future unanimously then why can't Gauri abort her child? The child was illegal and J G had already seperated, so what kind of future would the child have. Torn between parents?

O please simple is that Ganga ran away with the child because father was evil She wanted to give child right upbringing and at that time Ratan was planning to kill her? How Gauri is compared to Ganga ? Gauri is herself cheater number 1 and treated her partner so badly In which books of morals or ethics what did with him was right In which books she is victim and she aborted the child just because to avenge the father whom she wronged ? This is why she aborted ? This might be great reason for you not for us She did not give her reasons of her so called misery but she gave reason i want to abort the child because it is his If Jagya would be the one who was entirely at fault i would give Gauri a clean chit but here this is not the case She wronged him and killed the child to punish him ? Wah kya justified reason hai and Ratan is not unaware of he has a child Mannu 3ven when Ganga ran away and Jagya does not even know Kya baat hai

N by the way a woman's womb is not for charity, that she bores a child only to be taken away by her illegal husband. So is there is a reason for Gauri to go through the pregnancy if the child was not going to have a secured future and love of both parents?

Lol women's womb is not charity case but even a man is not a charity case of so called victim woman she can do anything and he is suppose to wash her feet and by the way people live in live in relations too Never marry and break up too still women upbring the children and children are loved by both parents so how are you so sure poor woman Gauri 's child Jagya would have snatched ?There is no denying seeing his character he can ignore the child The child would be loved anyway by him but no the great woman either aborted because she didn't want keep the child of that man who failed her in her plans and she lost a challenge to Sumi she kept first child to keep him with her , she manipulated the situation to use her miscarriage for her own personal interest , again she aborted for her own revenge when she was ever serious to have the child ? It was only tool to keep Jagat or avenge him thats it and may be she has kept the child and she is already liar number 1 Will put all blame in Jagya;s head and deny the child from his father forever and may be stand him against his own father because she thinks she is so called wronged woman when she is insult of all victims in actual

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#73

Lol Hina... we are not discussing what mistakes Gauri made in her past so lets stick to the topic. N niether have i said that J should wash her feet. Those are your words not mine.

We are simply discussing why is it wrong if a woman aborts her child knowing that her child will be illegitimate? And when she clearly knows that, even if she gives birth to him, the child will never have his parents under one roof...so why should she bring the child in this world?

Anyways we don't know whether she has really aborted the child or not, so as per your definition she is not a sinner yet.

N even if she has given birth to the child, she is under no obligation to inform Jagya, who readily went to marry Anandi.

Edited by Missesha - 11 years ago

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BeautyBabe

@BeautyBabe

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#74

Lols those FB s of Anandi was when realization struck As much as i remember he wanted to correct her misdeeds towards Anandi at that time Later cvs took a 360 degree turnNo wonder most of people here ( the actual neutral viewers ) were confused what cvs did with him because at that time this was his thought and no where no where it was shown when he left Gauri at the spot he talked about Anandi i am going back to Anandi or even thought about her or even a night before if Bade papa never met him he would have never left Gauri so this all he left Gauri for another woman is as usual a logic invented to beat the favorite pinnata .. Every person wants to be with a life partner who fulfill his needs People want Jagya to worship a partner who wrongs him and then rejects him then i cannot say anything 😆. Gauri fulfilled his which need ? If he was not best was she best ? Rotten to the core as a lover and as wife He did much more for her then she ever did except only insulting , abusing . protesting , using him for her malicious purpose Did he used her for any of his own malicious purpose ? Was he ever this ill towards her not even concerned for her life because he lost in some of his malicious purpose ? So why he is suppose to worship her

and Ganga fulfills his need ? Yes she did She fullfilled his only one need the most which his great family ignored because they were busy doing Anandi jaap She listened to his heart She stood with at the time when everyone else left him all alone despite calling him back home for getting Bhairon's generation forward This is why DS was dying to have him back nothing more He did much more for Ganga than she did He made her from nothing to everything He bonded with her over her child Mannu I think behind that too some selfish reason was there ?

I suppose a woman can do anything but a man is suppose to worship her thats how poor Gauri is being defended

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#75

Lol Missesha ...Gauri's mistakes i brought when you are making her victim and putting all blame on Jagya he left poor bechari woman after using her Who used whom for what malicious purpose need to be cleared and also your comparison of Gauri with Ganga Perhaps you were trying to make Jagya = Ratan Singh and Gauri was victim of him as level of Ganga was of Rat otherwise this is pointless comparison

and may be for you she is under no obligation For you she might deserve a noble prize for me she is under obligation to tell her unaware once partner whom she wronged She is not his victim She needs to tell him that he had an unfortunate child that she killed to avenge him , punish him because she was angry at him she lost a bet to his mother and those were all over her thoughts when he left Till she does not clear this her so called redemption is sham

After she rejected him he goes to hell do whatever It is none of her business In that no under rules ( in my view may be not yours )she can drag an innocent child Abort him or keep him hidden from his father Thats what my views are You can surely disagree 😛

To me he didn't leave her for Anandi He left her only when she crossed limits and these were not her first mistakes She did numerous still he never left her She was never the best wife for him ever but still he was glued to his choice This time she crossed all limits Not only she fooled him , used him to plot revenge on his family and she kept him dark for many things She challenged him and rejected him too so i don't know why he was suppose to stick with her and she knowingly did everything Knowing very well it will hurt him and he will be very very angry at me so i don't know how she became bechari woman

if Gauri would not have rejected him he would never have left because he never came with such planning In fact he was very happy in the morning Gauri's kaands and rejection made him leave and she killed the child too in that Not a great work for me It can be for you

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 11 years ago

#76

Hina, First of all it is not clear that Gauri has aborted her child. So let's not be so sure that she killed the child.

Secondly, I have never said she needs a noble prize for this. So stop putting words in my mouth. I pointed that part in my previous post too. N don't assume things on my behalf. Quote only what I have posted. Not what you think I would think about a character. Thanks

Rest,you can fault Gauri however much you want. But it doesn't make her a sinner if she aborted her child in her circumstances. N that is what I was arguing all along

Edited by Missesha - 11 years ago

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#77

Lol if you read my post i gave both options she killed or hidden Since you were talking about aborting i gave my view on abortion I am not forcing words in your mouth In fact it was started by you If we think Gauri is a sinner you started questioning us Ganga is this than why Gauri is that We cleared you why we are thinking so and some other started directly saying we have no right to criticize Gauri The post you liked so who is forcing whom ? i guess before telling others one should themseleves act on it When we are talking on Gauri from where Ganga came in here It wasn't us who dragged her but people think they can clean everyone on wash board Jagya and Ganga ?People started blaming Jagya we told Gauri's mistakes then logic came her mistakes are not to be discussed here People themselves are talking on abortion we talked it is not sure

Many thanks if you will act on your own words too before telling us do this do that

i am out I don't want to argue