Kids are suffering the most

I feel so bad for the kids. They just got to know about their mother. Imagine how desperate they should be feeling. Now Jigar is all set to leave them? It is really good to grieve about his wife but he should understand that kids need their mother most and atleast he should have planned to take them along wih him so that they would have a diversion too. That small kids and they are left alone to cope up with their mother's death and now father wants to go away on vacation and expects the little ones to be brave and understand? I expected that after sharing the news with the kids, Jigar would make them sleep with him in his room not leave them alone on their own in the kids room. Not only in the kids' case but otherwise also the adults are behaving very indifferently...nobody except Gopi and Jigar looks moved with the incident. Like Urmi said they are not bothered at all about Rashi. So disgusting!

I agree..

I expected bonding between jigar and kids but we got very little. Jigar needs to pull his socks up and take up his responsibilities instead of running from them, tolu and molu are his kids and he needs to be both mother and father to them now. If jigar has lost a wife then tolu and molu lost their mother too. Jigar needs to bond with those kids otherwise they will feel their father was never there for them and will feel nothing but bitterness towards him later on.

I know.I've never liked Jigar's weakness.I feel like he's acting selfish right now.😕

He's being very selfish. Thinking of his own.. He should take kids with him to US.

Originally posted by: Nilu123789

He's being very selfish. Thinking of his own.. He should take kids with him to US.

Not only Jigar but whole family is behaving very indifferently. They are behaving as if a very minor thing happened and look at how they are treating the kids...from conveying them the news to sending them to school the very next day to expecting them to understand and behave like adults!!

Don't you think they need much more warmth, affection and support during this time? I didnt like it one bit that the kids are sleeping in their room on their own even now. Gopi or Hetal should have made the kids sleep with them for a few days. Actually Jigar should do it..he should not tolerate the thought of seperating from kids even for a second. Honestly the only person showing love towards the kids and reacting to the incident like a normal person is Urmila. Knowing her, I thought she would run away from taking the responsibility of kids but the way she is struggling to get their custody has surprised me. This shows how much she loves Rashi. I feel bad for her too.

yea he shudnt leave thm like this...they need him the most at this time