Bani loving AD - KS can go to hel!

NOTE : Everyone can participate in this thread. But I have posted my views politely. And if you are to reply, i expect the same. If you dont know the existence of the word "Polite", i suggest you stay out. I am in no mood to entertain any rude comments or battles over here. No chatting, No cheering for fellow members, no gushing over the looks of any character for that matter (AD, JW, Ranveer, Pushkar). The following post has comments about AD...Mind you, it is about AD and not RR, if anyone has to misunderstand. THIS IS NOT "ANTI-AD" post...if Bani and AD's association has to be discussed then i guess we should talk about AD...or is there rules that JB fans are banned from talking about AD?

Now, there is a lot of talks going on about how Bani should be the AD who truly loves her and deserves someone better than that pathetic JW...well, as a Bani fan, l want to share my take on this.

Before going into the issue itself, can i say I miss my Bani a lot. Please give me my sweet, innocent, self-respecting, dignified Bani back...

Now, what is AD and Bani's relationship as of now.

Bani is obligated to AD for saving her and giving her a mother in the form of Sasu Ma...Period. She does not have any romantic inclinations towards AD. She used to respect him before but now, i doubt she does even that.But she does pity the guy. I need to give it to AD for brilliantly again confusing her by his counter question and emotional talk. Hats off guy,you should write a book on "how to manipulate someone into becoming a bigamist". Yes, she agreed to marry him but that was because she felt she was betrayed by JW. She wanted to prove to JW that if he can move on, so can she. So far Bani DOES NOT love him at all.

In future, why should Bani not fall in love with AD?

AD is a person who does not know what love means. He is a egoistic guy who only cares about his ego and does not like to be defeated. He claimed to love Pallavi and poor guy, she was drove to comment suicide...He does not nuts about trusting a person. He is an possessive guy who cares only about himself. He shows extreme reactions.

Now, i am scared of Bani's future with such a guy. He needs treatment for being mentally abnormal not Bani mata's sacrifices and advices.

Okay, now lets forget about Pallavi. Lets come to AD's so called love for Bani...it clearly shows that he is simply egoistic...he does not love her. Now that his revenge is not justified, he does not want to accept his defeat. He needs to win and losing to JW was sth he cannot to. So he has to hit back again. He is very very possessive about her too. His possessiveness scares me. "if I cant get her, no one can"...well, if this is called love, then i guess the person who said "if you truly love someone, set them free" must be have gone bongers to say that.

But can Bani ever fall in love with him?

NOPE...as simple as that. even the extreme hatred on JW and AD's pretenses to be a good guy, did not earn him her love..now after knowing his possessive nature, i dont think she will...she can pity, she can fell threatened but love - nope...We can truly be hurt a person only when we had high hopes on a person. Even though Bani says, she hates JW...so far, she has not tortured him directly like she did to Pia...She still loves him deep down. She is hurt that Jai chose Pia over her...so once, Bani's anger disappears her love will surface back.

Bani needs someone who understands her pain, reacts to her silence not someone who harps about how pained he is.Bani needs to be with someone with whom can she be herself NOT with someone who thinks he can control her destiny as he created her.

Points for creatives
~ The minute Bani even thinks of falling in love with any other guy, you guys can be assured that KS will lose audience and i am not kidding and you guys should know that by now.
~ Especially, if she falls in love with a psychotic guy, KS will become history. Forget abt Prime time.
~ Bani is a ONE-MAN woman....Keep it that way...We dont Bigamist as our protagonist..

Cheers,
Meena

really a great post meena behna and i am sure that bani won't fall for that psychopath AD for sure and as u said she is one man woman and she will continue to be that only.

have u seen the jealousy in her eyes whenever pia tries to take place of MRs. Walia, bani wants to have that title for herself only and i am sure destructives won't butcher her character more by showing her falling for bhoot.

u know only few days back bani said that their is only a small distance between love and hatred and so i am hopeful that her hatred for JW is soon gonna be changed to love and then both of them can make chatni of that pia and ad-bhoot and fed that to Moti MIL of aD 😉

There is no doubt in the fact that if bani will develop any soft love feelings for that bhoot that will be end of KS for me.

swati

Meena,

I quickly came here to catch an update actually,and need to go soon,but not before saying this much...

There is absolutely NO story line with AD/DDG...JB deserves each other,and thats the ultimate truth of it,whatever they may show now.

"Bani needs someone who understands her pain, reacts to her silence not someone who harps about how pained he is.Bani needs to be with someone with whom can she be herself NOT with someone who thinks he can control her destiny as he created her. "
Truly said.Bani just needs to know th truth,it will come out soon enough,from Rano,and then whats there to prevent her from going to the one place she belongs to,With THE JAI WALIA.

I have faith,and i am hanging in there,we all should.

KS is,has alwaaaaaaaays been and will be ONLY Jai and Bani.Forever and Ever.

TC,
Radhika

meena the title of ur post gave me a massive heart attack i thought oh god not another article plzzzzz

honey do u feel protective abt someone's possessiveness...hearing his words i was scared so was sasuma...the guy is nuts to be courteous which exactly are not the emotions i feel for him.....

his girlfriend committed suicide now this flashback is going to give us an insight of the great mind ......

bani needs to know the truth and then decide ..but i rather she stay alone with her kids getting her life back than be tied to this psycho for the rest of her life due to a kasam to sasuma.....if 5 yrs she developed no feelings .his kindness evoked no feelings u think his madness wld.....each day is worst than the next

oh yes if the twisted mind of basu lady want to show us two OCD's paired of with JB well good luck to her ..but i surely will not be here to oooh aah

nice post Meena...now my thoughts maybe pro or against AD...I dont know...they are open to interpretation...

Bani had known JW for a few months before her marriage, but more on a professional level (as her boss and landlord). The personal side came in when JW fell for Pia and Bani as her guardian intervened.

Once married they had lived together for only 3-4 months (maybe more in the serial timeperiod, but that was never clarified). During this time Bani had hated JW for what he was doing to her and her family. Yet, somewhere deep down she fell for him and fell hard. This is evident by her numerous jealous outbursts.

Now coming to AD, Bani did not know him before hand. She was rescued by him and immediately the teaching of revenge had started. Yet, they lived in the same household, under the same roof, for 5 long years.

In this time frame, she formed bonds with his sisters and mother. Today she calls MIL, the mother she never had. Yet, with AD she had only a prefessional or a guru-shisya or indebted kind of relationship. Nothing was shown where Bani connected to him at an emotional level.

My only point is she had more time to know and understand AD than she had with JW,yet the emotional bond was missing.

Now many may argue that the circumstances were different, or Bani was emotionally dead. I dont buy it. Period.

Because even before, Bani was adjusting to an abusive husband, a bhagodi sister, abusive inlaws, etc. She was just as emotionally tortured (ok I give her a slack, getting your children snatched is worse than the other emotional abuses, but still the whole EA factor was available)

Also, neither did AD nor did JW try on their own to forge a emotional relation with her, during this EA period.

My point is, if Bani did not fall for her savior and teacher so far, what are the chances of her bonding with him now?

I mean marriage is not about physical compatibility, it is a lot more emotional understanding. And if 5+ years did not bring that in, how is it going to work out now?

Rivs

Thanks for the reply guys..

Rivs thanks for adding on to my point about Bani did love AD even when she tot he was gd n JW was bad... 😛

I will respond to all of you tmr...i m very sleepy right now... 🥱

Meera
Great post and totally agree with your points!!!
They need to bring back our sweet Bani back and FAST!!
KS is losing its appeal day by day with the stupidity being shown and all the damm love triangles, polyangles etc etc!!!
We have been SCREAMING for a JB reunion and we get crap like 1.5 marriages, a psycho saying he will get Bani/Durga by hook or by crook.....
You don't "hasil" love - it comes naturally!!!

Then to top it off we are served body doubles because OUR JW decides he wants to expand his horizons and portray a character in a love triangle with grandma Tulsi!!!

i am utterly disgusted and feel the Kreatives, Ekta etc are sabatoging KS....Doesn't Zee pick up on this ?
Aren't they protesting ? don't they have a damm contract with BT??

Nina

guys from AD 's pov he also never harbored any feelings for her for 5 long years and suddenly they show AD has fallen in love with bani ..next we know that AD is obsessed abt bani and was obsessed abt his girlfriend who ws supposed to be his wife if we listen to dialogues after leap bani says u love ur wife's mother as ur own......
this is mayiland sab instant hain ....overnight positive negative ,negative positive, love hate ,hate love
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AD does not know the meaning of love. To him it is all about possesion and his POV. Whom he loved, whom he hated, who betrayed him. It's all him. The man who has pursued revenge for 25 years in the name of love and shows no remorse on finding he is responsible for the death of that love and his unborn child is not capable of love. Durga to him will be another possesion, his creation.

Bani feels nothing for this man. No emotional connection. I also don't believe that Bani was too dead to form any connections. She did so with the clone factory. Bani marrying AD will probably be the biggest tragedy of her life.

I do not think that Bani even remotely has any romantic or for that matter any kind of love for AD.
She is a very confused and deceived individual who has a deep sense of gratitude towards him for saving her life.
But I maintain, he saved her physically but killed her spiritually and emotionally.
When she finds ot the truth, all hell might break loose.

Bani can and will only love Jai Walia!
She is a one man woman.
I was however disturbed when she allowed AD to put his arms around her in the scene in Turkey at the mosque.... I felt as if she had betrayed Jai.
Jai has never crossed his limits with Bani...he longed and hungered for her from a distance even though she was his wife.... not like AD who went into her room, invaded her privacy and blew on her face... it was so ugh!....something like rape!

I also believe that the creatives of KS are really attempting to sideline Jai (RK ) and wanted to foist RR on us but as expected, 99.999% of us rebelled and will certainly drop KS like a hot potato if that happens.

Also, I feel that PD's heart is not in this storyline... she has not created the magic as she did when she portrayed Bani now that she plays Durga.... she comes across as if she is simply mouthing meaningless dialogues.
As Bani, together with Jai, they made and still make the screen sizzle with their awsome chemistry!
How I long for those glorious days... even a shadow of them will do !