~LiL*PrInCeZ~ thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hello esteemed debaters.

Before I begin, I would like to apologize to everyone for my behavior last week. If I hurt any of you, that was, by far, not my intention.

I know I have been a little too harsh. I truly regret acting the way I did. But I had my reasons. It was mainly because of my nostalgia. DM has always been close to my heart and I feared the new DM wouldn't live up to my expectation. However, I was wrong. You all are a different group from the one I was accustomed to; the main similarity is the quality of the debaters. Things change and we have to learn to move on and adjust ourselves to changes. This is exactly what I have decided to do.

I read everyone's comments in the thread I posted earlier. Thanks for your replies. Criticism allowed me to see my mistake and make changes in the way I moderate this section.

Someone asked what they should do and to whom they should report if they have a problem with the way a moderator is running the section. This is a very valid question. Moderators are humans and we make mistakes too. If you don't like what a certain member of the dev team is doing, before contacting higher authorities (GM/Admin), send that person a PM. A friendly reminder is quite effective.

Someone else suggested that I should have introduced myself when I first came back. So here's a brief introduction (better late than never)

I'm Javz. Although I'm the mod of this section, I would love it if all of you would treat me as a friend. I'm 17, in high school and absolutely fun-loving. I like to hang out with friends and family, watch tv, meet new people and basically enjoy life and make the most out of it. Like many others, I ended up on I-F thanks to goggle uncle and I've been here for over two and a half years. I don't know how many of you know this but DM started off as a weekly debate topic, usually initiated by pj04, in Member's Lounge. Later, the section started and I have been a part of it in one way or another since the beginning. In the past, I've worked with Sam, Aparna di, Sowmyaa di and Abhijit uncle. Although they have all moved on, these people taught me a lot about debating, moderating and life. Whatever they were not able to teach me, I am sure Raj, Tisha and Maryam will cover. I enjoy DM for many reasons. First, it is different from the usual serial specific sections. Here, we are not limited to discussing only one serial; we can discuss a wide variety of topics. Second, debates are mind-stimulating as well as enjoyable. Every time I enter DM, I know I will leave knowing something new or seeing a different viewpoint on an issue. Last but definitely not least: the debaters! Members are the core of any section. They can make or break the section and I'm glad DMers have made DM the great section that it is. Also, DM tends to have a larger average age group than many of the other sections. This gives me an opportunity to work with people older than me, learn from them and become a better debater, moderator and person.

Friends, I am not as strict or stubborn as I might have seemed before. Feel free to PM me as often as you like and regarding anything you may want to talk about. I love hearing members' suggestions and try to implement them as often as possible. Remember, DM is your section and it is our responsibility to make sure you are pleased.

All this said, I hope we can start fresh, put the past behind us and look forward to the bright future for DM before us.

Regards,

Javzs

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Posted: 18 years ago
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👏 Gr8.....Nice to read about you....... 😊

You always welcome to give me warnings n other Angry PM's too 😉 😃 😛

Best wishes...... 😊


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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey Javz... Great introduction and nice to have met you.. 😃 Being a Mod at your tender young age is commendable and I am sure you will do great going forward. 👍🏼

Best wishes.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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hey javs...thanks for writing in...good to see you back too.. i am glad we are coming back together again...and in this section...priya is here, maryam too, now me and then you...i am sure slowly we shall all get together!

and a wonderful post!!!kudos for being so open and frank!!!not many can do that!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Javs, It takes a great deal of maturity and character strength to genuinely apologize on the open forum. It was a sweet gesture and thanks for responding to the questions I posed.

I think all of us can let bygones be bygones. Move on and accept the change😊. Welcome back to DM.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Welcome Back Lilprincess!!

Happy Moderating!

BTW is this post chat post or discussion post or debate post😉

Wishes,

Mythili Kiran

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Javs, appreciate the thought that went behind this post...It takes a big heart and a small ego to make such posts... 👏

So that's how the DM was born, ha? I was around that time, but don't remember exactly about all this...We just used to jokingly say in our sections, if someone likes to argue or debate you should go to DM - but never came here myself until Dec,2006 and again got more regular here only in March,2007..and got stuck for life I guess... 😊 ...That's a little bit of my story on DM... 😳

Now coming to sending you the PMs and having an open communication, yes we shall do that and I request you also do the same thing...Reading this post of yours, I have no doubts whatsoever that your return is going to be extremely beneficial to the DM...

Cheers,
Raksha
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Thanks for the nice post Javs and welcome back 👍🏼

Yes I am sure there are lot of changes from the time that Abhijeetji were there till this Abhijit is here..... 😆 About the quality of debate, I would say if the whole group moves out with the person, the change will become obvious, I would appreciate the people in that era 😉 to come forward and open some threads or participate with ur knowledge. 😊

For Javs, my little intro, I am Abhijit aka Abhi/kabhi as known on the forum, I came to DM and was introduced through Debate Championship on Gandhian Principles, and was rewarded runners up.... I am here since then and I am glad to see wide variety of topics being debated here. I agree with you that this section is really special as it gives work to this idle brain and when u go out of it, u know something new. It also improve interpersonal skills and conversational and presentation skills.....

Wish you all the best for moderating and I am sorry if you are hurt with any of my comments last week 👍🏼
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Posted: 18 years ago
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JAVS,
It is nice to have young fresh blood here passionate about DM!
It was pleasant to read your introduction, and your answers to DMers' questions.
Most importantly, the apology shows strength of character & MATURITY at young age!
I applaud you for that... 👏 👏 👏

We hope to share great debates with you now on! Let's rock DM!!

mqt / Subhagya




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Posted: 18 years ago
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Welcome Javs to DM,

Thanks for taking time in writing an introductory post answering DMers Qs from last wk. It took a lots of guts, soul searching, and courage to write this apology post. You showed maturity at very young age and put your personal ego on side in writing this post. God bless and happy debating-moderating. Now enjoy with us 😃.

Welcome back Princess!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🤗

DB-Varsha 😛

Edited by Dabulls23 - 18 years ago

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