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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks for the insightful post. Remember reading something similar in QH1 days too.Was it from you?
Got to disagree with quite a few things here. It's a myth that children pay for their parents deeds, they pay for their own misdeeds, when they act like their parents unconsciously and make the same mistakes, so it appear that they are paying for their parent's sins.

The biggest mistake Imran-Naja did was giving up on their love first time,fearing Asad's wrath. They lacked they courage to seek what they truly desired. Imran again gave into his Mom and got engaged to Nikhat. And Nikhat suffered because she lacked the guts to tell hell with everybody,she wanted to be married not because she wanted but because that's what she thought the society expected of her and she got married at the cost of AsYa, if i'm not wrong.She acted like her Mom, Shireen,who trapped Rashid because she wanted to be married after a broken engagement(?).
We don't know how Haya's story is gonna play out so, i'll refrain from writing about it. But Rehan?Again did what his Dad did.Gave in to his Mom, every time, whether it was watching the love of his life being married for all wrong reasons without doing anything but sulking and in breaking the trust of Ahil in hiding his Mom's intention. He is not paying for his parent's deeds,he is paying for his own inaction, at the time where he needed to act.
Compared to him. Ahil acted swiftly, in grabbing the chance that fate threw at him,fully knowing his wife might love someone else and she married him for money.He is trying to work at his marriage and soon will be rewarded.
While everything looks like fate & predestined, it's the work of free will.The choices, these people make at every moment.
I'm interested in seeing how Sehar's story shapes up, for she seems to have walked a different path than her parents & sister.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Thanks for the insightful post. Remember reading something similar in QH1 days too.Was it from you?

Got to disagree with quite a few things here. It's a myth that children pay for their parents deeds, they pay for their own misdeeds, when they act like their parents unconsciously and make the same mistakes, so it appear that they are paying for their parent's sins.

The biggest mistake Imran-Naja did was giving up on their love first time,fearing Asad's wrath. They lacked they courage to seek what they truly desired. Imran again gave into his Mom and got engaged to Nikhat. And Nikhat suffered because she lacked the guts to tell hell with everybody,she wanted to be married not because she wanted but because that's what she thought the society expected of her and she got married at the cost of AsYa, if i'm not wrong.She acted like her Mom, Shireen,who trapped Rashid because she wanted to be married after a broken engagement(?).
We don't know how Haya's story is gonna play out so, i'll refrain from writing about it. But Rehan?Again did what his Dad did.Gave in to his Mom, every time, whether it was watching the love of his life being married for all wrong reasons without doing anything but sulking and in breaking the trust of Ahil in hiding his Mom's intention. He is not paying for his parent's deeds,he is paying for his own inaction, at the time where he needed to act.
Compared to him. Ahil acted swiftly, in grabbing the chance that fate threw at him,fully knowing his wife might love someone else and she married him for money.He is trying to work at his marriage and soon will be rewarded.
While everything looks like fate & predestined, it's the work of free will.The choices, these people make at every moment.
I'm interested in seeing how Sehar's story shapes up, for she seems to have walked a different path than her parents & sister.

Well I Wrote Alot Of Posts In QH Season 1, So Cant Remember Every Topics Properly But You Are A Known User To Me So May Be That Post Was From Me Only

Hmmm So According To You "Todays Choices Are Tomorrows Destiny" I Agreed With You.

But I Think Nikhat n Rehaan Cases Were Different. Their Choices Were Definately Wrong But They Were "FORCED" To Take Those Choices,

Shireen's Dumbness Haseena's Evilness And Najma_Imraan's Closeness FORCED Nikhat To Make A Wrong Decision Of Marriage, That Time She Was Not In Her Sense, More Then A Wrong Did It Was A Mistake, Nikhat Was Capable Of Taking Right Decision She Proved It When She Broke Her Engagement With Imraan n When She Allowed NajRan Marriage. Nikhat Did A Mistake But She Did It Becoz Of SHIREEN's Wrong Dids, Nikhat Was Definatly Not Like Shireen,

Nikhat Was As Selfless As Selfish Shireen Was.

Tanveer Did PHD In Manipulation, Rehaan Was Also Forced To Do What He Did.

Aahil Had The Strength Of Love Which Nikhat Never Had.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arpimugfan

Well I Wrote Alot Of Posts In QH Season 1, So Cant Remember Every Topics Properly But You Are A Known User To Me So May Be That Post Was From Me Only

Hmmm So According To You "Todays Choices Are Tomorrows Destiny" I Agreed With You.

But I Think Nikhat n Rehaan Cases Were Different. Their Choices Were Definately Wrong But They Were "FORCED" To Take Those Choices,

Shireen's Dumbness Haseena's Evilness And Najma_Imraan's Closeness FORCED Nikhat To Make A Wrong Decision Of Marriage, That Time She Was Not In Her Sense, More Then A Wrong Did It Was A Mistake, Nikhat Was Capable Of Taking Right Decision She Proved It When She Broke Her Engagement With Imraan n When She Allowed NajRan Marriage. Nikhat Did A Mistake But She Did It Becoz Of SHIREEN's Wrong Dids, Nikhat Was Definatly Not Like Shireen,



Nikhat Was As Selfless As Selfish Shireen Was.

Tanveer Did PHD In Manipulation, Rehaan Was Also Forced To Do What He Did.

Aahil Had The Strength Of Love Which Nikhat Never Had.

@Blue- Nikhat made her choice when she wasn't in her senses, unconsciously, following her Mom's pattern.I'm sure Rashid & Asad&Ayyan would have supported her if she didn't want to be married to Farhan. She again chose to get married into that family,knowing about Haseena's evilness.She almost paid for her life with that.Reactive,she might have been, but it was her choice to marry.She lacked the courage to stand up for what she wanted, which definitely wasn't Farhan,soon after her broken engagement with Imran.
Agree-Nikhat wasn't Shireen.While Shireen snatched away Rashid from Dilshad,Nikaht inherited a souten because she freely married Farhan. Yes, she was cheated.Because she allowed herself to be cheated.
Rehan- is better placed than Nikhat tomake his choices.He could have gone to Ahil & told him to stop the wedding,I think Ahil would have backed off.But he didn't. He chose to be a witness to his Mom's evil ploys,when he has/had the power to take action.He'll suffer like Imran,because he is acting like Imran.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ Simran, I Agree In Case Of Farhaan Nikhat Did Wrong Even If She Had Her Own Reasons, But In Case Of Imraan What Went Wrong?

In Case Of Imraan Nikhat Did Nothing Wrong, There She Even Raised Her Voice Against Haseena n Broke The Engagement In A Hope That Her Love Imraan Will Come Back To Her. BUT What Happened?

In Case Of Imraan She Had To Pay For Shireen's Dids Right?

Well Aahil Knew About Rehaan's Feelings Phir Bhi He Choose To Marry Her. BOTH Aahil n Rehaan Did Not Get The Time To THINK n Act. They Just Went With The Flaws
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arpimugfan

@ Simran, I Agree In Case Of Farhaan Nikhat Did Wrong Even If She Had Her Own Reasons, But In Case Of Imraan What Went Wrong?

In Case Of Imraan Nikhat Did Nothing Wrong, There She Even Raised Her Voice Against Haseena n Broke The Engagement In A Hope That Her Love Imraan Will Come Back To Her. BUT What Happened?

In Case Of Imraan She Had To Pay For Shireen's Dids Right?

Well Aahil Knew About Rehaan's Feelings Phir Bhi He Choose To Marry Her. BOTH Aahil n Rehaan Did Not Get The Time To THINK n Act. They Just Went With The Flaws


Nikhat didn't pay for Shireen's deeds. Nikhat like her Mom chose to bow to external pressure instead of raising against it. She wrongly believed Imran loved her or would come to love her, like Shireen believed Rashid would be hers.He never was.His heart was always with Dilshad. She repeated her Mom's mistake.It was her mistake not Shireen's that she paid for.

In case of Ahil-Rehan, Ahil grabbed the chance and Rehan missed the chance.Whether they had time to think or not,what Ahil did instinctively was what drives him the most, that's his junoon for Sanam. It's like fortune favouring the brave.
See, Asad, gave up Zoya temporarily for others, like Rashid gave up Dilshad. And he suffered like his father,losing his love.even, then Asad told Zoya,"I'll come and claim you,once this calms down".And he marched to his brother's house and claimed brother's wife(real/pretend doesn't matter) as his lover. He did within days(?) what took Rashid years,to go after his love.
Rehan did no such a thing.He didn't express his love, indecisive like Imran and he won't have the guts to claim Ahil's wife as his love. Ahil had the guts to make his brother's love as his wife and he got his love as his wife. Because Ahil acted differently from Asad& Rashid &Rehan by not giving up his love Ahil-Sanam story has taken a different turn than AsYa,Rashid-Dilu or Zoyan.
No,they didn't go with the flow, Ahil went with what was in his heart and Rehan what influenced his mind,his Mom.

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