That is her over the top and guady make up, self obsession etc.
I would like to see a different Urmila who is less selfish.
Kokila always used to scold Rashi and will she feel a tinge of guilt?
Rashi used to be a grey character misquided by her mother and had to deal with a fault finding Kokila.
Its good that we can remember Rashi as a transformed one.
No one can replace Rashi.