Okay to see but not touch?? General Question

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vandana21

@vdna

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Posted: 11 years ago

Guys ...how many of you think it is OK for your hubbies to see and gawk at other women so long as they don't "touch" them ...I personally think it's quite gross...for married or unmarried women...

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Rajji (Shanu)

@.Rajji.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hmmm so i may be alone in this, but i think it's okay to "look".

But then again, i'm really not a jealous type of person.

I mean it's NOT okay to do it all the time and to look at every woman without any regard for the situation but if it's a party like it was in the episode (outdoor party at a club), it's bound to happen.

At this type of party people dress to be noticed, dance to be noticed and so on, and they usually go without their partner : it's almost like those party are made to have fun.

So to me it's okay. If someone doesn't want to look then they wouldn't go in that type of party in the first place.

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kewlkidz

@kewlkidz

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: rajji-cutest
Hmmm so i may be alone in this, but i think it's okay to "look".
But then again, i'm really not a jealous type of person.

I mean it's NOT okay to do it all the time and to look at every woman without any regard for the situation but if it's a party like it was in the episode (outdoor party at a club), it's bound to happen.

At this type of party people dress to be noticed, dance to be noticed and so on, and they usually go without their partner : it's almost like those party are made to have fun.

So to me it's okay. If someone doesn't want to look then they wouldn't go in that type of party in the first place.

Agree with you Rajji. Also I feel that its ok to see but not to touch" is better than "do it behind your wife's back and behave like a Ram in front of her and fool her attitude"

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Divya

@_Divya_

Inactive

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Posted: 11 years ago

dont gals married/unmarried notice any HOT guy? 😉

m unmarried.. but weneva any HOT hunk passes by.. i stare at him 😉

toh i guess seeing is OK! until n unless u dun cross ur limits! 😊

bhayi ab koi acchi cheez dikhi toh aap dekh sakte ho.. wats d big deal? 😉🤣

Edited by _Divya_ - 11 years ago

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redwine1

@redwine1

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: vandana21
Guys ...how many of you think it is OK for your hubbies to see and gawk at other women so long as they don't "touch" them ...I personally think it's quite gross...for married or unmarried women...

Ahem .. whats sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander .. personally its perfectly right to 'appreciate' a piece of art ... a good looking person falls in the category of "GOD ART" so why not appreciate 😛

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BIackSwan

@BIackSwan

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Posted: 11 years ago

My boss says this line all the time; only seeing no touching 😆 In my opinion both men and women have to be some kinda saints or aliens if they do not find the opposite sex attractive. Appreciation is fine by me as long as nobody cheats on their spouses or girlfriends / boyfriends

Like that line in YJHD, flirting is good for health 😆

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rutu83

@rutu83

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

i think it's when where and how
leering is a no no but looking is natural

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Meera

@MeeraHK

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

U will find very few folks who mwill nt touch other woman...
if thy say so thy are lying...throo their nose...
men no mattr what age thy are thy glare and at slightest chance other woman...
my opinion...u cant say anything to tthmmm

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Juhi

@JUHI.HI

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

its fine to see as lng as u r in ur limits n u dont cheat ur partner...n i feel evryone atleast give a glance at a person whom u feel a bit appealing... its normal...bt ya u must be in ur limits... decency is a must...also one must nt cheat their spouses n give them their own space... irrespectev of ur gender (hubby/wifey), u can appreciate the othr person bt at a level of decency!!!!😊

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FieryLioness

@FieryLioness

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: _Divya_
dont gals married/unmarried notice any HOT guy? 😉
m unmarried.. but weneva any HOT hunk passes by.. i stare at him 😉

toh i guess seeing is OK! until n unless u dun cross ur limits! 😊

bhayi ab koi acchi cheez dikhi toh aap dekh sakte ho.. wats d big deal? 😉🤣

@bold :- i second u here😳😆

@TM :- me think there's nothing wrong in seeing other galz as long as u r not crossing ur limit and

don't turning it into those lusty stares ...

when ever we see anything beautiful we tend to see it isn't it...be it girl ,boy or anything...

now just coz they r married we can't say them to not even look at others 😆 (hope i make sense here😳)