Sinister or Silly Simmi? - Page 3

Originally posted by: sophee72

A very good post! Especially since it focuses on a side character in our show and that is refreshing :)

I agree with all your points but I agree with the few posts made in favour of Simi trying to explain her POV. We can't discount the upbringing of Bhallas and Iyers. Where the Iyer girls were brought up as independent, self reliant women, the Bhallas,esp. Toshi Bhalla failed to instil those values in her children, more so in her daughter. Again this is all so much prevalent in our society where the man is free to do anything but a woman's only aim is to get married and settle down.

Simi is a loose canon.👍🏼 I agree she rarely thinks before she speaks. Right now her actions are all anti-Ishu even if it doesn't serve her. She's been the most vocal of the Bhalla family, after her mom, who doesn't give two hoots of what anyone thinks. And I'm glad that she's now declared open war and has no qualms in going out with Param despite her family's objections. This is so in keeping with her character. There are a lot of women around us who tend to look the other way if the husbands are caught out. In Simi's case, she never had any conclusive proof to make up her mind and go against Param. And that is what this track will actually bring out. Where Simi has a lot of faults, one very positive thing about her is that she loves her family members blindly. And once Param's involvement in the blue file comes to the fore, she will not spare him. She is also the person who stole the file for Param just about the same time Raman figured out she forged his signature. She acts and then thinks or sometimes doesn't bother to. Her loyalties are misplaced and will Raman take her to task for her stupidity in believing Param meant to help him?

is woman believes in blind love and will go to any extent to protect her loved ones; she's doing the same with Param by turning a blind eye to everyone. But that will all end when she realises that this love of hers is one sided, in contrast to her family members who despite being upset and mad with her love her a lot. And as for Simi's decision to stay with her parents, its all because of Param's directives. She's actually voiced her discomfort and unhappiness with this arrangement but Param needs her to stay in that house for his ulterior motives. So with the current increase in their proximity, Param's true colours are going to be revealed soon and then Simi will strike back.

I also believe the Bhalla children are more or less the same, all of them are selfish with little regard for others. Raman and Romi have gradually changed because of their attachment with Ishita, who as in typical Indian soaps is perfection personified! Simi will also come around 😊 On a lighter note, even I wouldn't be comfortable around such a larger than life character who is never at fault 😛Every time I roll my eyes at Ishu's mahaanta, my eyes hurt.😆

Originally posted by: -mari-

she all her attitude is showing tht m psychos ...AS when she walk in ram and not get selected she was upset 😲 ...and her blind trust on tht param ..cant tolerate it

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Thank you to all for contributing to the engaging discussions on this thread.

Raman as the first born is expected to rise above the others. Rinky has fled the family drama😆. Romi is a work in progress, Simmi is the caboose who's taking a while to come to her senses.😛

Too bad Simmi didn't hear her husband verbal anticipation of Ishita' coming down the catwalk. Her reaction to Mihika being declared the winner was 🤔. Shagun the perennial attention seeking queen being miffed made sense. I find myself 🤔 sometimes and 😲 when Simmi speaks. In particular the way she explained her presence at the formal evening to Raman "I am here with my husband (Param. whose bones Raman can't wait to break) for my brother's function (Raman would have preferred Param didn't ruin his evening with his presence)😆 I know!!! I was amazed at this woman's audacity! This is what they mean ignorance is bliss and when you are blindfolded, no amount of reasoning can work. Wishwaas and Aandhwishwaas. One makes you stronger and the other wreaks havoc because of the blind misplaced trust.

In my humble opinion, the Ishita before she married Raman was down to earth and more real than the mahaan🤔 she became after she became Mrs. Raman Bhalla. 👍🏼 I agree! Ishita Iyer was more real and a little flawed (jumping to conclusions and resulting in Ruhi's custody battle) but at least I could relate to her! Ishita Bhalla is so perfect that she's become larger than us mere mortals. What's with Ishu shown to tolerate verbal abuse in the name of family loyalty. She never tells Simmi to put a lid on it every time she insults her. Raman and Ishu should tell Simmi to pack her bags and leave ...to go to Param and live her life. It's not like they are really protecting her from Param now anyways, while she sneaks around for a rendezvous with her husband. Param has the best of both worlds for now.

It was odd that Raman hadn't call Simmi out on her forgery of his signature for the SIM card... it wasn't a petty theft, something to overlook. What if she did something that tanked his business altogether? I think the credit for that goes to our CVs selective amnesia :) On making IshRa focus on Param, they overlooked Simi's involvement in another attempt to mollycoddle her and pretend there was nothing wrong. All being done to give Simi space to come to terms with Param's lechery. The Cvs will re-visit this act of her's if they deem proper, else this will be simply brushed away.

Simmi is silly at times that she never once questioned why Param would want to help Raman given how he's been insulted and beaten by her beloved brother. She doesn't realize that Param is the last person her brother would want help from, given his open display of contempt for Param. Simmi is not ignorant of the fact that Shagun and Ashok are Raman's nemesis in his personal and business life. So why would she buy into the story that Param working for Ashok would save Raman?😲 She's made herself cling to her reality and believe it i.e. Param's been faulted and she will go along with his story. That he thinks about the family despite the treatment meted out to him. Only Param can take this blindfold off her eyes with his actions and till that happens we will have to bear her idiocy! Raman may not easily overlook Simmi's betrayal but once again Ishu is going to bail Simmi out of a bad situation and Toshiji will yet again bestow the crown of mahanata on her bahu.😛

CVs ought to get Ishu back being "real". They could buck the trend on Indian serial for making the heroines be so mahaan, just so that we don't have to roll our eyes every time we see such moments of mahanata.😆