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Posted: 11 years ago
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Another real good track with a good message will be Gehna's remarriage to a widower.
She became a widow at a very young age. Men get remarried with no problems. But there is
A lot of stigma against women remarriage after being widowed.
We did have Suguna's remarriage. But that was done with selfishness while DS still had her views
Against widows for others. This time it is not a young girl but a slightly older woman with kids.
In case of Suguna she hardly had a chance to live with her first husband.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think thye have already shown widow remarriages.
It would even bigger message if they show Gehna living independently taking care of her children.
It would be better if they show thru Gehna that it need not necessarily be men's job women can run and take care of family business just as well. That will be a more powerful message
Gehna's marriage to Basant had been a very good marriage despite the way it began.She had alla woman could want through her marriage.
It would be nice if the family standing up with her and helping her build a life
Asha, Suguna Ganga and Anandi Their remarriages happened because they never had a marriage despite being married so them getting married and experiencing what marriage was all about is the idea behind those remarriages
Gehna never had a chance to explore herself.She was too busy with family.If they show her finding her musical talents and her ability in handling accounts and she doing something with those things will be nice.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Instead of remarriage track ...they should introduce/ show the empowerment of women after the death or left by husband ! It will be more meaningful and yet to deal with !
She had enough of the association , now self emancipation is the need of the hour for her ...because being a mother to a teen aged boy and a tiny toddler , she needs stable ground and assured future !No need to face another turmoil at this stage of her life . Jan ...the thought is good ...but for me it looks too early or rather too late , both sides valid points are there !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No remarriage please. It is time BV shows there is more to a woman's life than just marriage. Becoming a widow is not the end of world and a woman can as well live happily without a man in her life. If at all they want to show remarriage - it must happen like Asha - Gahna marrying of her own will to a person she likes - knowing BV - if they take up remarriage of Gahna, they will show DS or Nandu asking her to marry so and so for their own happiness - what Gahna wants will be secondary (just like the bindi episode).
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

No remarriage please. It is time BV shows there is more to a woman's life than just marriage. Becoming a widow is not the end of world and a woman can as well live happily without a man in her life. If at all they want to show remarriage - it must happen like Asha - Gahna marrying of her own will to a person she likes - knowing BV - if they take up remarriage of Gahna, they will show DS or Nandu asking her to marry so and so for their own happiness - what Gahna wants will be secondary (just like the bindi episode).

😊👏 Appreciate these words !Well said Puja
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Gehna did want to put bindi.
She took it off post Basant's death because tradition dictated it and not because she felt from within that there is no life or joy left in her life post her husband's death.
Yes she is devastated by her husband's death and she loved him very much but she didn't think it was the end of her world.

Nandu's request and Dsa endorsing his request are just the needed triggers to do what she thought is right.

Gehna had she really not wanted to put the bindi back she would have said so.She accepted because she wanted not because she felt obliged.


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I don't think CVs have shown that marriage is essential for the survival of a woman or for that matter a man

Anandi Ganga have been cheated in marriage.But before they were married for the second time they were successful women in their own right.Remarriage was just to give them the second chance to enjoy what has been denied to them by their husbands in their first marriage.

Suguna and Asha - they became widows before they even knew what the meaning of marriage was and therefore consigned to live in store rooms for the rest of their lives just because they did not have husbands.Their lives are not meant to be like and thru remarriage they got a second chance at experiencing a full life with husband children and happiness which is their by rights.

Jagya had two failed marriages behind him and he lost confidence in himself and that's why he was given a chance to make himself prove that he can be a good husband too.He knew that he is a good doctor he has proven himself to be a good citizen of Jaitser and he needed to prove to himself that he can be a good husband too now that he realised where he has gone wrong.

The way the marriages happened was very dramatic but there was nothing regressive about the reasons behind those marriages..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think thye have already shown widow remarriages.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its time that they show some women who alone can evrything. Take car of family, home, herself. Enough with remarrigew anymore -__-
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm sick of remarriage and marriage tracks there have been too many and some people simply do not remarry or marry atleast leave some in balika vadhu. It's not necessary to remarry and a woman can survive without man, especially Gehna.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelic8219

I'm sick of remarriage and marriage tracks there have been too many and some people simply do not remarry or marry atleast leave some in balika vadhu. It's not necessary to remarry and a woman can survive without man, especially Gehna.

Marriage is not the ultimate solution for all the problems , there are many more things, priorities in life . Her marriage is not a good and wish again type of marriage , some problems many hurdles she has been passed through . I don't think such lady will approve her consent for another marriage . she has a responsibility towards her children. Not a teenager like Suguna and Anandi . Her perspective towards future must be based on kids and their well grooming .

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