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This is something I see over and over, but i would beg to differ. From the start I've been saying the opposite: Sanam is one of the least judgmental Hindi serial heroines I've seen.
Sanam may be personally wary of Aahil for a number of reasons, including his playboy ways. However, that doesn't make her judgmental.
Sanam has not preached or moralized to Aahil unless she had a good reason to do so. She never exactly used his playboy ways as the basis for her dislike of him. Sure, she saw his playboy ways and didn't think much of it or him. But she was never a judgmental character who went around deeming others moral, immoral, etc etc.
Her opinion of Aahil came because he was an arrogant jerk as a whole. She may not have liked his playboy ways (I mean will any of us think much of a guy we see literally having a roll in the hay with a girl), but that wasn't the basis for her dislike. She saw Aahil was having flings with other girls, and her thoughts went to the girl she thought he was cheating. Her dislike was that combined with his playboy ways, he proved himself to be an arrogant jerk with all his other actions.
She never ever thinks a person to be a bad person due to their lifestyle, which while shocking and surprising her, she never uses that as a sole basis to judge.She gave Shazia the benefit of the doubt twice, and even called her a nice girl.😆
And unlike many other serial heroines, she doesn't lecture or moralize regarding another's lack of Faith. (And this show treats Aahil's forays into finding peace and some faith in a far more nuanced manner than the whole hit us over the head with how bad he is for his lack of faith first and then make it a huge win for the heroine that he changes and finds some belief many other shows have done.)
