Also, I'm sure you are a talker when you really get to know someone. thats just how introverts are. hah. i know, since i'm one too! lol. and i feel you.. about being afraid to talk to the opposite gender. u know, the fear that we feel, it only lies inside of us, and its invisible to the outside world, unless we make it visible, by being obvious. :) thats why they say, confidence is key.
if u are always worried about what girls wld think of you when u talk to them then in all your lifetime u may not be able to be so open with them. but if u keep your worries and doubts aside and just talk to see how things go with confidence.. and it goes well, you may be surprised to know. what u were fearing all this while.. was only in your head :) you'll never know.. till u give it a try! :)
as I said, we evolve with each step we take in life, learning through trial and errors. not so much about what works and what doesn't regarding the outside world.
but about who we are, and what works within us, when we are put to the test :) learning about yourself will give you more confidence to face the world. the more you know yourself, the more you can conquer !
A good swordsman isn't afraid of war, as he knows what he's best skilled at. he knows his worth..and isn't afraid to face what comes in front of him, no matter how big or scary the war may seem! Just an example :) trust me, u aint alone in this war.. we all may appear different, but in reality.. we are all similar, in many ways :)
all the best!!
Edited by rouble_lover - 11 years ago