What is Aditya teaching or explaining to Ruhi... but himself??

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

This adi is nothing but a creep were was this creeps brain when he calls Ashok as dad and what about Raman his bio father he is just like shagun creep

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Anju.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: rockstar29
This adi is nothing but a creep were was this creeps brain when he calls Ashok as dad and what about Raman his bio father he is just like shagun creep

This is all what he's on which basis and why did he calls Ashok dad isn't he the same smalll... kid who asked his father to sign the change of name document.. But here when I said he's evil by his mind, his way of thinking of course I was dictated not to call him so...

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Rajji (Shanu)

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21
What Aditya said in precap to Ruhi" you are praying for your Ishima what about your own mom??
i'm happy that he knows to differentiate who's his biological mom and who's Ruhi step mom...
But when it is is the turn to differentiate between Raman and Ashok ( his dad😡) then Aditya is still a kid but an evil one...
Cvs must put some light on how this kid differentiates his relationship.

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very smart! adi chose to make raman feel miserable by calling ashok dad, that's truly mean of him.

If he loves ashok and is mad at raman for not being part of his life, then he should understand that ruho does the same with ishita. why should ruhi love a mother who left her, then tried to get her back only to let her play with the servant.

adi is a sneaky child!

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Aamina2013

@Aamina2013

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

exactly! he is one confused child!
what is annoying me about him now is that he has shown no remorse to what he has done but instead accusing Raman for not finding a solution for the mess he has created!
before Raman goes covering up his tracks I think he needs to pay more attention in showing him discipline.

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wickedangel

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni
Good post Anju.
Adi has got bias quality inheritance from Raman🤣. Jaisa baap aisa puttar.
to @Wicked...He He...Raman an amazing father. Joke of the year. Do you even know what an amazing or good father is? An amazing father loves his children deeply and can do anything for them just to make them happy leading to a honest and good life (I saw my parents and many parents around me like this, don't know, what you have seen). I guess, Raman falls in this category only leaving the important last part. He doesn't want his son to be a honest and good guy. He is that's why covering him crime. Covering is fine, he isn't even making him realize how wrong deed he has done. Do you call this as an amazing father?
And, for God's sake, an educated father doesn't differentiate b/w his children the way Raman does in adoring the kids. Whatever, Raman may be a good person, but a good father...he has to take rebirth to be that.

@ bold = As a matter of fact I do know what an amazing father is. I happen to have one myself. In my dictionary an amazing father is someone who gives unconditional love to his children no matter what the situation. Someone who is always in their children's corner.

In this case, its very obvious to everyone that what Adi did is wrong and he need to understand the consequences of his actions. But how to make his understand this is the issue here. As far as Adi is concerned, Raman is the man who hurt and betrayed his mother and him, his whole life. He doesnt know the truth, he only knows what his mother has taught him half his life. So, now if Raman starts yelling at him for what he did, humiliates him and makes him apologize to Ishita and her family then all he is going to see is that his mother was right. That Raman cannot be trusted and he has forgotten his son for his new family. How is that going to help Adi??? Will that really make help him understand anything??

Child Psychology 101: kids will listen to you and understand right and wrong if they love and trust you. Yelling, threatening, beating, and all such asinine techniques wont get you anywhere when it comes to showing kids the difference between right and wrong.

Raman is doing exactly what a good man and a good father would do. He is trying to win his son's trust so he can be there to show him the right way. He is doing exactly what Ishita has taught him to do which is not to let his hate for Shagun and what she did take him away for the most imp thing, his son. He is letting people think the worst of him, blame him for something he never did, all for the benefit of his son. In my book, that right there is a man worth his weight in gold.

If Ishita is not in on the plan, then when she finds out about this, she will love and respect Raman more than before. Because this is exactly what she has wanted from him all along.