Why didn't she feel anything?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi all...silent reader of this forum, so I apologize if this has been discussed.
I am wondering why Sanyu felt nothing for Randhir after that hug when she failed the task? I know Randhir felt something when he was crying about the divorce and he hugged her. We all have seen Randhir's point of view and his feelings for Sanyukta.

But, the part that annoys me is that Sanyu felt nothing towards Randhir after that hug. Personally speaking from experience, when someone is crying and feeling helpless and another person is there consoling them, there is bound to be some infatuation for the other person. This forms when someone witnesses you weak and down, but nothing in Sanyu's case .

Its human nature for wanting the person around. Its not even about liking Randhir, the writers should have shown her being infatuated and wanting him around by her side. Also, knowing how strong-headed both of them are, I was expecting Sanyu to feel something because she always shows she is tough, but got weak in front of her competitor.

Another thing is, that both Randhir and Sanyu were the ones who hugged each other first. I know why Randhir did, but the writers failed to justify why Sanyu hugged him.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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OH MY GOSH. It's not only me that thinks that...
I know this sounds super weird... but when a guy gives you attention... helps you out... and cares for you when you are torn. THAT makes a lot of girls (may not develop feelings... but) have tremendous amounts of respect for him. Now... I know Randhir has hurt her in the past... but everything that he has done... should be cancelled out. I mean. At least for me it would. Now. I don't know why... it's super upsetting...

but hopefully Sanyu's love would be exponentially... gah. so annoying! I WANT ... SANDHIR SO MUCH. I just want to see even a little attraction.😲
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Posted: 11 years ago
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didnt she hug Randhir thinking he is parth when she didnt have 1% of "those" kinda feelings for Parth?

I know she doesnt think Randhir has her best friend and its not natural for her to lean on to Randhir like she does to Parth bt i guess thts the type of r'ship Randhir-Sanyu share.

When Randhir hugged her it was unexpected, but she accepted this change of relation betn thm and i guess her hug was an extended acceptance of tht changing relation status betn thm. Thr was nothing more thn tht for her in it.

Also, arent thy always thr for each other no matter wht. Even wen Randhir wanted to trouble her he was around her, annoyingly enuf. Now when he wants to mend things, he is around her too, but not annoyingly enuf.

Normally thy dont find need to say a sorry or thank you neither do thy expect tho thy voice the other shud.

I guess its thrfor very painful for Randhir to not c any type of reciprocation of his feelings from her.😳

Bt v know she definitely feels something for him. She respects and has always appreciated and acknowledged his brilliance and tht he is genius of FITE. She now knows he is an extremely sentimental person beneath tht tuff cloak of his. She knows he is deeply troubled by his personal issues. And she knows he needs her. And now, she has realized she is an essential motivator for him.

I guess she jst needs some time to put things together and ponder over it all with a clean fresh mind, for which she obviously doesnt have time. Since long, one or other thing keeps popping up in her life. she has absolutely no time for Randhir, to miss him, to think abt his antics or anything.

Yes we wud love to c her missing Randhir when not in FITE. Right now its painful to realize tht outside FITE, thr is no place of Randhir in her life.

I wish tht SR on her hand can make some difference in her thinking for Randhir!
Edited by achiever - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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seriously yeah... if a guy would catch me in his arms like gazillion times.. stare at me without blinking with a puppy look in his eyes.. will get angry if i would try to hurt myself or i would feel like giving up.. if the guy would help me out of my every single damn problem.. and i would end up sharing million eyelocks with him.. how would i not fall or at least feel something for him? and that too a handsome hunk like Randhir.. like comeon... 😡

i hope sanyukta is not .. uh oh.. you know like interested in girls 😲

that was a joke 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kri1

OH MY GOSH. It's not only me that thinks that...

I know this sounds super weird... but when a guy gives you attention... helps you out... and cares for you when you are torn. THAT makes a lot of girls (may not develop feelings... but) have tremendous amounts of respect for him. Now... I know Randhir has hurt her in the past... but everything that he has done... should be cancelled out. I mean. At least for me it would. Now. I don't know why... it's super upsetting...

but hopefully Sanyu's love would be exponentially... gah. so annoying! I WANT ... SANDHIR SO MUCH. I just want to see even a little attraction.😲

I actually had this happen to me with a guy friend. He was there for me when I was really weak and crying. Thoughts started emerging in my head because I developed infatuation towards to him because he was there for me. In that case, I knew I did not have feelings for him, but I know we were becoming best of friends and I know I will always appreciate him for it. I think people who have experienced this will understand my viewpoint. This is how I wanted Sanyu to feel.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: achiever

didnt she hug Randhir thinking he is parth when she didnt have 1% of "those" kinda feelings for Parth?


I know she doesnt think Randhir has her best friend and its not natural for her to lean on to Randhir like she does to Parth bt i guess thts the type of r'ship Randhir-Sanyu share.

When Randhir hugged her it was unexpected, but she accepted this change of relation betn thm and i guess her hug was an extended acceptance of tht changing relation status betn thm. Thr was nothing more thn tht for her in it.

Also, arent thy always thr for each other no matter wht. Even wen Randhir wanted to trouble her he was around her, annoyingly enuf. Now when he wants to mend things, he is around her too, but not annoyingly enuf.

Normally thy dont find need to say a sorry or thank you neither do thy expect tho thy voice the other shud.

I guess its thrfor very painful for Randhir to not c any type of reciprocation of his feelings from her.😳

Bt v know she definitely feels something for him. She respects and has always appreciated and acknowledged his brilliance and tht he is genius of FITE. She now knows he is an extremely sentimental person beneath tht tuff cloak of his. She knows he is deeply troubled by his personal issues. And she knows he needs her. And now, she has realized she is an essential motivator for him.

I guess she jst needs some time to put things together and ponder over it all with a clean fresh mind, for which she obviously doesnt have time. Since long, one or other thing keeps popping up in her life. she has absolutely no time for Randhir, to miss him, to think abt his antics or anything.

Yes we wud love to c her missing Randhir when not in FITE. Right now its painful to realize tht outside FITE, thr is no place of Randhir in her life.

I wish tht SR on her hand can make some difference in her thinking for Randhir!

I agree with most of what you said, but not the part about Parth. Her relationship is completely different with Randhir compared to Parth. Even though she thought it was Parth, it was just a side comforting hug, not the full on one she gave Randhir. Randhir and her have history, who can forget the hate kiss and their hugs meant a lot more than if she was to hug Parth.
Realistically, if you hate someone you wouldn't throw yourself at the person in a hug, there is obviously more here. I know a couple who broke up and hated each other, but even though they were both screaming at each other they had a moment where their hidden feelings spilled out again (similar to the hate kiss scene). The same thing will and is happening to Sandhir.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: r07c

I agree with most of what you said, but not the part about Parth. Her relationship is completely different with Randhir compared to Parth. Even though she thought it was Parth, it was just a side comforting hug, not the full on one she gave Randhir. Randhir and her have history, who can forget the hate kiss and their hugs meant a lot more than if she was to hug Parth.

Yes i said the same thing. Her rship is differnt with Parth compared to tht to Randhir. Thts y many thot tht hugs wer a significant milestones in thr rship. And thts wat i said. Remember it is Randhir who keeps remembering tht hate kiss. Sanyu hasn't reflected much on tht kiss since tht nite. So she is taking things casually abt Randhir. The only thing she is really serious abt is her family and engineering. Rest is all quite superficial, her fship with parth or even her care and concern for her friends. so abt Randhir she hasnt reflected deep enuf but she ought to realize soon wer thr rship stands. And for tht, she needs some questioning, some answering. Jst like Randhir got a push in form of Parth and Sameer, Sanyu needs a shock, a realization. It mite not necessarily b another girl in Randhir's life. It mite jst b machines. Bt eventually she will have to chose betn Randhir and her career! Remember Randhir is insecure abt ppl leaving him in his life to pursue thr own ambitions!

Realistically, if you hate someone you wouldn't throw yourself at the person in a hug, there is obviously more here.

Yeah thts true. so thts y thrs this running chemistry betn thm rite? Agar hate karte to aisa rship nahi hota.😳

I know a couple who broke up and hated each other, but even though they were both screaming at each other they had a moment where their hidden feelings spilled out again (similar to the hate kiss scene). The same thing will and is happening to Sandhir.

Frankly i can never understand these things. I m type of person who believes in preserving and nurturing things before thy get awry or wrong! I dont wait for anything to fall or fail. Bt i guess wen one goes to extremes in love in heartbreak in hate thrs always a deeper thing or feeling tht binds you. You hate someone so much tht he/she is in every thot of your life. so essentially she/he is ruling your life. So wen time comes and the emotions erupt, you cannot hide ur inner feelings b it outright hate or buried love!😳

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