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Posted: 11 years ago
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what we all expect Raman to do is to send Adi to juvenile custody. Is it possible for a father to do that ? Whether that child loves him or not is secondary ..

and hiding the truth is his biggest mistake I do agree..but..if what will be situation if Ishita dnt understand and stand against Adi(she has every right to do that as it's her mother who got effected)

it is the same Ishita who said to leave the case when raman is suspecting Param..(for siimi or toshi whatever)

but she is fighting for justice when the suspect is shagun..what if she does the same thing with adi..(in Raman's point of view where he can't take a chance)

he has to tell adi about right and wrong. He has to teach him.. but in this situation where adi is in full of fear and panic will he listen to Raman.

He is comforting him so that he will burst out the truth in front of anyone just like he did with Raman. That is what bothering him.

While his conversation with Ishita he said he is solving Adi problem and will tell the details once it get solved. That mean he don't want to take a chance which can end up adi in jail.

I hope cv's will show something like Raman explaining Adi what he did was wrong after all this drama..

This is purely my opinion...not meant to hurt anyone.

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Posted: 11 years ago
#32
no raman is setting wrong example of everything
he is one confused man
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Main Toh Adi Ka Deewana Hoon ( a new title for YHM). Raman's Adi obsession is ruining Raman big time for me. Today Raman's drama queen act was totally a waste of an episode. Wake up Raman ( I mean Ekta Mata) raham karo and don't ruin an another show for your crazy whimsThe idiot Adi does not even refer to Raman as dad. Even when Ashok showed at the hotel, Adi referred to him as dad.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I totally agree with ur views.

Raman is not setting a good example as a father. Before marriage he was not even sharing a good rapport with Ruhi.


Now he has failed in everything. Instead of realising Adi about his fault,he is taking him for a picnic. He could have taken Adi to Mrs Ayer and shorted the whole issue out of court. Ishita is quite understanding,she knows that Adi is Raman's life. She would have taken a good decision for Adi.


This time Raman did all the wrong things. He doesnt have any master plan to come out of this crisis. I dont know how is gonna get Ishu's trust again.


Hopeless track.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35
What I cannot understand is : The way he deals with the situation hw can he be sure Adi wouldnt do such a thing in future? The boy has no guilt. Heck, does that boy even feel he has done something wrong? Kudos to Raman for being a very bad father. He wants to support his son? OK fine. But instead of picnicking n going on cycle rides with him...tell him he was wrong. Scold him, n make him apologize. But Raman is so selfish that he doesnt want to lose Adi's good opinion.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post Leela.

Inspite of being biological parents Raman-Shagun couldn't nurture the children properly and in a good way. Adi is totally a lost case. Ruhi would have been if her grand parents were not with her. Ruhi was still a lonely and silent child before Ishita came in her life. Ishita, though she is not her biological mother, she proved to be the only parent of Ruhi. Even, Raman can't be said to be a parent for Ruhi. He never much cared for her before. Now, he is loving her only due to Ishita. But, still he is discriminating here b/w Adi and Ruhi.
I think, first Raman should grow up like a father and then let the kids grow up.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweety_10

what we all expect Raman to do is to send Adi to juvenile custody. Is it possible for a father to do that ? Whether that child loves him or not is secondary ..

and hiding the truth is his biggest mistake I do agree..but..if what will be situation if Ishita dnt understand and stand against Adi(she has every right to do that as it's her mother who got effected)

it is the same Ishita who said to leave the case when raman is suspecting Param..(for siimi or toshi whatever)

but she is fighting for justice when the suspect is shagun..what if she does the same thing with adi..(in Raman's point of view where he can't take a chance)

he has to tell adi about right and wrong. He has to teach him.. but in this situation where adi is in full of fear and panic will he listen to Raman.

He is comforting him so that he will burst out the truth in front of anyone just like he did with Raman. That is what bothering him.

While his conversation with Ishita he said he is solving Adi problem and will tell the details once it get solved. That mean he don't want to take a chance which can end up adi in jail.

I hope cv's will show something like Raman explaining Adi what he did was wrong after all this drama..

This is purely my opinion...not meant to hurt anyone.


@bold, did you see Adi panicking again after that night of revelation? I dint see yaar. May be my eyes are not well. I can see him enjoying his free life with his wicked mother. He is not guilty, forget it, he isn't even scared now. Isn't it abnormal? How much your father says to you that nothing will happen to you, being an adolescent won't you have a lil bit fear?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I really don't understand Raman's majboor wala excuse for all his crap.I'll tell you what..he is AADAT SE MAJOBOOR!! And the aadat would be spoiling his Rotten kid!He has serious issues.He walks around saying I understand people so well and yet he really misjudged the Iyers way too much!Does he actually think they would want a 12 year boy to go to jail and ruin his life forever? Does he think so low of them?.Yes they will be crossed.Ishita too will be crossed but they would never let the kid suffer.They are mature people! Raman needs to get his head straight! So much for his pragmatism. Cv's have turned him into an internal crybaby and always whining "pappa loves Adi" . He should be yelling at his son for the mistake no the sin that he did!!! But NO!! he is trying to make Adi feel at home...giving him the impression"oh its ok to hit and run an old lady when you've got a Rich daddy " Raman is feeding crap to his son.Till this date i thought Shagun was the bad parent.d but lately Raman has proved that he too was no better!!
Edited by AMJflora - 11 years ago

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