Originally posted by: souro
This is what I said:
Please show me where I claimed that companionship and emotional support from one's sexual partner is exactly same as that received from friends, parents or other people you are close to. I only claimed that sexual partner is not the only source of companionship and emotional support. If that is to be the case then I'll have to believe that people before the age of 18 doesn't have any company or emotional support.
If you assume something and express shock and disgust at an imaginary claim, to try and ridicule your way into disproving me, then expect the same coming towards you.
Kindly go through ur initial post.. the post where u said that 'one does not need to jump into bed with someone for companionship,emotional support .etc.'.
Since your comments were made with respect to the LGBT community, it can be safely assumed (correct me if I am wrong) that u were talking about sexual partners/lovers/couples in the community.. right?..
I agree u did not use the following words but thats pretty much the essence of what u were getting at (correct me if I am wrong):
"These people should lead a celibate life unlike the heterosexuals since heterosexuals are privileged with the cause of procreation & things like companionship ,emotional support can be obtained from friends & family; & that should suffice"
Feel free to correct me if I am wrong, but going by ur initial post & especially context of the post to which u used your initial post as a reply does insinuate something on similar lines..but again I will leave it to you to better explain your stand on this issue to avoid any misinterpretation..
Moreover, when u say that people dont need to have sexual partners to obtain emotional suppport & companionship as it can be obtained from friends & family, it is BUT OBVIOUS that according to you both types of emotional support & companionship can be substituted for each other..and hence I raised the question with my argument that both are different but equally important in an adult's life & cant be substituted for one or the other..again I would like to know what makes ur statement independent of such obvious interpretations...
Further more, ur argument that "If that is to be the case then I'll have to believe that people before the age of 18 doesn't have any company or emotional support." is irrelevant here as it can be safely assumed that when we talk about sexual relationships, we are talking about adults..
Edited by Quixotic5 - 11 years ago
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