Do U think Ishita is Over Reacting with Raman in Amma's accident case?

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Why Ishita is not trusting Raman?

Atharva Dev

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Posted: 11 years ago

We see Ishita worried for Raman's kids all the time, she is all the time caring for Ruhi because she has a beautiful mother-daughter relationship with her and as Aditya is Raman's son, hence Ishita also cares for him.

Gradually, Ishita is in Love with Raman, despite oo his impulsive nature and the differences between them, in cultures and habits etc. It looks justified till here.

We also saw Ishita trusting Raman and Raman keeping her trust for all the time. Only in this case, he is been trying to solve everything on his own without letting Ishita know. Its related with Mrs.Iyyer who is Ishita's mother. Ishita wants real culprit to get punishment legally. It also looks justified till here.

We saw Raman supporting Ishita whenever she is at need. So why can't Ishita support Raman when he is at need? why is she reacting so much?

okay you love raman but why is she getting hyper just because Ashok gave her all the proof against Raman-Shagun.

We see Ishita realising that she over reacted and over cried when she came to know about Picnic plan. But why? Ishita needed to control her emotions there. But she failed to do so.

Raman also failed to keep Ishita's trust. He could have shared this with her.

Ishita is unaware of real culprit, otherwise he would have never filed a case against shagun.

I'm bit disappointed with Ishita because she could have kept her trust for some time more, instead of getting emotional everytime everywhere.

Ruhi is Raman's daughter. and so Adi as well, so it would have been better if Ishita had given thought before getting hyper.

Why Ishita thought that Raman is protecting Shagun>? Ishita very well know that Raman doesn't like Shagun anymore and Raman does not Love Ishita as well. It is only Ishita who has started feelings for him first.

so thats why Ishita got insecured? thats why she was so upset with raman?

see we know that real culprit should get punished but Ishita got personal in this case. She could have trusted raman.

I'm disappointed with Both, Ishita and Raman. They could have taken this case maturely instead of creating drama and crying!.

This is not to hurt anyone but just my view point.:)

Please keep discussions calm without fights and respect others views, I also Love Ishita-Raman. :)

Edited by *Dev.* - 11 years ago

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Atharva Dev

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Posted: 11 years ago

I know that Aditya's custody will be with Raman if Shagun get in to jail but Why Ishita forgot that this would affect Adi?

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BombayTroll

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Posted: 11 years ago

Well unfortunately don't agree

Ishita can't just assume that adi did the accident afterall he is a kid

And way he has behaving recently like

Lying to her

Spending entire day with her in hotel

Going on a picnic with ex wife

It is not overreaction for any sane individual to join the dots and assume the worst

And it clearly appears as he is trying to save Shagun

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Atharva Dev

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--
Well unfortunately don't agree

Ishita can't just assume that adi did the accident afterall he is a kid

And way he has behaving recently like

Lying to her

Spending entire day with her in hotel

Going on a picnic with ex wife

It is not overreaction for any sane individual to join the dots and assume the worst

And it clearly appears as he is trying to save Shagun

I respect your views.:)

I'm not saying Ishita to assume that Adi is culprit.

I'm just saying that why she has not thought about Adi ? what will happen to him if shagun goes to jail? Adi dont like raman and so he will be not happy to live with him. so Ishita could have gievn this thought if she is So much concerned about kids. so why not in this case?

Didn't Raman clarified that he is trying to solve something and has nothing to do with shagun. Ishita needed to trust raman. Trust is needed in Love.

Culprit need to get punished , justified, but Ishita could have calmly discussed all this with Raman.

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Wings-of-Fire

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Posted: 11 years ago

If anything, she's under-reacting! If it was me in her place then Raman would've wished with all his might that he never knew me. I'd have destroyed the person trying to save someone who'd ran down my mother and then I'd have destroyed his family!

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BombayTroll

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: *Dev.*

I respect your views.:)

I'm not saying Ishita to assume that Adi is culprit.

I'm just saying that why she has not thought about Adi ? what will happen to him if shagun goes to jail? Adi dont like raman and so he will be not happy to live with him. so Ishita could have gievn this thought if she is So much concerned about kids. so why not in this case?

Didn't Raman clarified that he is trying to solve something and has nothing to do with shagun. Ishita needed to trust raman. Trust is needed in Love.

Culprit need to get punished , justified, but Ishita could have calmly discussed all this with Raman.

Well what more trust you need

She was trusting him enough to happily send him to a picnic with ex wife

She was trusting him enough not to assume worst despite lying and spending entire day with her

Now if your husband is protecting someone who ran over your mom then you are bound to get angry

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Atharva Dev

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Well what more trust you need

She was trusting him enough to happily send him to a picnic with ex wife

She was trusting him enough not to assume worst despite lying and spending entire day with her

Now if your husband is protecting someone who ran over your mom then you are bound to get angry

Ishita could have trusted Raman that so what he is with is ex-Wife, but still he belongs to Ishita. At some point of time, she also knew that Adi live with shagun so something like this will happen.

okay, she got angry agreed and justified, but like I said, it was of showing more maturity for both Ishita and Raman. so I'm disappointed with both of them.

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...EhSaas...

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Posted: 11 years ago

She first time understand raman unsaid word

instead of misunderstanding him.this time she didn't take impulsive decision towards raman like in past she did. she trusted hom where everything was going against him. She lost her trust not because of ashok.word bur raman silence in picnic.

Raman is not saying ishita it didn't mean that he didn't tryst her but he trust her it just that how he will say that his son did accident of your Amma

Edited by ...EhSaas... - 11 years ago

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gems4sana

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: *Dev.*

Ishita could have trusted Raman that so what he is with is ex-Wife, but still he belongs to Ishita. At some point of time, she also knew that Adi live with shagun so something like this will happen.

okay, she got angry agreed and justified, but like I said, it was of showing more maturity for both Ishita and Raman. so I'm disappointed with both of them.

Nope, I'm sorry but I completely disagree.

I don't think Ishita is overreacting at all. She is reacting perfectly maturely and responsibly and morally.

Raman is with his ex-wife, first lying about texts and then meeting up at hotels and then going on a picnic like a happy little family... on top of all of this, he tells her that he, her husband, can't trust her with something but on the other hand can trust his ex-wife with it, after they both know how horrible Shagun is - especially after the long benchwala scene between them? That in itself would break my heart if I was Ishita. And then to find out that the truth he was hiding is that he is trying to protect his ex-wife, who isn't an angel to begin with, because she caused Ishita's mom's near death accident?

Even if they had married for love and not for Ruhi's custody, that in itself would have justified Ishita standing up for her rights and going to court so that the perpetrator would be punished. Its not fair to the Iyers, Ishita, and even the other Bhallas that Shagun, an adult (who they all think is the one who hit Amma at the moment), can be freed just because she's Raman's ex-wife and just because they're rich enough to hire a good lawyer/bribe people to get evidence erased.

If this was Parmeet or someone else in the family, Raman wouldn't have hesitated to jail them. After all, hit-and-runs are a crime. Raman is showing double standards.

On top of that, both Ishita and Raman know they didn't marry for love. They married for convenience. Just a month and a half ago Raman wasn't above insulting and yelling at Ishita and reminding her that "I married you only for Ruhi. Don't try to act like a wife." Also, drunken visits to Shagun's home and Ishita knowing full well that Raman was still in love with Shagun even after IshRa wedding ... I mean, that would make any woman feel insecure.

So no - Ishita is deff not behaving childish or immature or whatever. It is not her duty to sit and talk calmly with Raman; the time for that has passed. She asked him on the night of the hotel burning as well as per spoilers, when he is drunk - what is the problem? Tell me what is wrong?

But in order to initiate a conversation, the other person - Raman - has to be willing, too. I honestly think that Ishita is not only standing up for her mother's rights, but also her rights as a wife to Raman Bhalla and not a mere "ayah," as Shagun so lovingly described her. This isn't some petulant or catfight-y behavior on Ishita's part; its her duty to go to court and stand her ground against Shagun. Ishita has tried to be mature towards Shagun too - next week, she'll tell Shagun that all Shagun has to do is apologize to Amma, but Shagun of course disagrees... also, going to court to stand up for what you believe in/the truth is not immaturity. On the contrary, especially considering this scenario, it takes balls and courage and conviction to do what Ishita is going to do.

Of course, Ishita doesn't know its Adi - but neither will Raman tell her as per spoilers. If it was Adi, then of course it wouldn't be right of Ishi to plow on ahead and do a case against him like this. But this is Shagun, an adult, who has a track record of wrecking lives and families.

Edited by gems4sana - 11 years ago

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Mimi2609

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Posted: 11 years ago

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is really ishita over-reacting???

I mean just remember how Raman treated Param after everything, why didnt Raman think about Simmi's kid then?!

Simmi's baby should live without a father, already living actually, on top making Param go to jail because of the accident😕

but Shagun should be spared because "his Adi" loves her too much?!

if i go by this logic, Raman's kid should be spared of all pain but other people, his own sister's baby, has to suffer and live without a father?!

That's pure double standards in my eyes😡

and Shagun( well till now we all know this) almost killed Ishita's mother, so why the hell should she even think about Raman and his son!

which is more important a daughter who has just gone through almost losing her mother, or a father who is nothing but a stupid puppet in his son and ex-wife's hand😡

Raman is behaving very egoistically here, actually in my eyes Ishita has already understood Raman quite enough...