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Posted: 18 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: kal-el
yep its disgusting you should tell her mum in confidence before it gets worse and she gets hurt by this guy

ya i agree..this guy sounds like a player..n not someone she shud be hanging out with..n what nug said..tell her mom if shes not willing to listen to you..ofcorse she wud be mad at u for that but u don't have a choice do u?

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NUG

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Posted: 18 years ago

#12

yeah she will be grateful to you in a few years

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Pooja

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Posted: 18 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: sakura*

i hav been trying to explain these things to her for a yr now but she just wont listen.and the special thing he has done to make a special place in her heart is that he let her flirt wid others while she was in a relationship wid him.but he doesnt do taht anymore.he black mails her instead.and i knbo how much he means to her!she k*ss*d a guy 2 just a few mths back.she met a guy in malaysia in nov who followed her to her bd and had a nice little chat wid her on her roof.
Well if he blackmails her then im suprised that she is letting him do dat and still trusts him. Show her all these refrences. support ur argument with all these.

a few weeks back i spent 2hrs trying to explain maths to her after that she goes home he calls her and she forgets all about the assignment at night she tells me Oh my god math sir is going to cut her marks for not doing the assignment.

Well u know these things do happen. Wen u feel that u love someone u want to spend the most of the time wid him/her. So its nt like she is wrong. She just needs to realize the truth. Tell her that it is affecting her studies.

I hav my own problems too i hav slight ocd and my depression isnt slight i dont think i can keep up with this anymore i care a lot about her and i dont want to leave her but i dont want to listen to her crap about her bf and i dont want her to fail. she makes me feel like giving up life.

Just relax. She should feel lucky to have a friend like u. Tell her that maybe sometime when u two get together u can talk abt something else then her boyfriend also bec u personally dont like that guy however if she is happy thats what matters and u two can then aviod going on the subject of this guy. Im sure she wil understand.

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Tiya Rahman Khan

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Posted: 18 years ago

#14

dear,plz tell her parent the whole truth!

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shivani

@Miss.Colorfull

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Posted: 18 years ago

#15

first talk to ur friend about it and tell her that he is not ur cousin and he is acting and using her if she doesn,t believe u then talk to her mom about it maybe she will listen to her.tell ur friend that she is flunking and it,s harming her grades and if she really wants a boybriend then
go out with other guy but plz try to understand that he is a jerk. the most imp thing is that she get lots of boyfriens but if she doesn,t concentrated her grades now she is going to regret for her whole life. tell her that the guy is affecting her personal and school life.

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Vaishnavi (YSH)

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Posted: 18 years ago

#16

oh dear! this sounds serious! and you guys are too young

i think the others are right

Approach her parents ASAP!

Dont care if she understands or not or even if she breaks ur friendship because you are doing the right thing and that is all that should matter to you now...

That guy is bad news obviously and she could land in bigger trouble than she anticipated... tell her mother the entire truth and if it helps (nd if you are comfortable with it, of course) ask your own mom to talk to hers and explain that he is no relative of urs...

and if ur mom talks mebbe she could try to ask her mom not to get too angry at once (for the natural reaction of a mom to hear a child has been fooling around like THAT is disastrous !!!!!!!)

i think u nd ur mom should talk to hers in confidence!

hope i helped
Good Luck!

-❤️Ysh❤️-

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Chandni

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Posted: 18 years ago

#17

Is she is realy your good friend then she will listen to you, talk to her slwoly and say that your only telling for her own good and you justt want to try and help her out. Try to sayif you were in my position and knew this what would you do. Just explain from you POV and hopefully she will listen 😊 If she does not it seems that you will have to tell her parents however bad you may feel as he is forcing her to do these things... and she should not be. Just tell her parents, most probably her mum to confide in as this may harm her if she continues the relationship.😊

Edited by Bollywood_mad - 18 years ago

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sakura*

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Posted: 18 years ago

#18

thanx for all the advice. Things r better now her mom locekd her telephone no outgoing and she started staying at home and keep an eye on her though he still meets him outside but hey its still better than before.

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Daniel Alberty

@Sunrise Coach

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Posted: 18 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Jayda_Carmon
Okay. I have a 14 year old friend who is dating an 18 year old, and let me tell you people, it's messed up.

I'm prolly not the best person to be telling you this, but I think you should definitely sit down and talk to her. I mean, if you guys are really good friends she'll listen to you. Just don't confront her, yell at her, or accuse her of anything. Be understanding, but show her that you care about what happens to her and that your worried.

Hope it helps.

--JayJay--

That spells Illegal.

If that 18-year-old friend gets caught with that 14 year old, that older person could face over 10 years in prison! 😲 That's Endangering The Welfare Of A Child charge right there.

Do me a favor: tell that 14-year old person to get the hell away from the older one. Cuz you don't want police to come knocking on doors....Aw hell no.

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