What's Next After Family Holiday Dear Adi's Papa ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its safe to say that after visiting the forum today and reading all the latest spoilers, my day has been ruined for sure.

I can understand that a parent loves his child unconditionally, so why is Raman's love unconditional for Adi only ? He says, he is partial towards Adi because he is is his first born, as was born out of his and Shagun's love. So does that mean that since Ruhi was born around the time he and Shagun were having marital problems and he later ended up hating Shagun for betraying him, he can never be able to love Ruhi as unconditionally as he loves Adi ? Because the poor darling has born the brunt of his father's hatred for Shagun, his indifference because she happened to resemble Shagun, his anger anger when she least deserved it and now his guilt ?

My question to Raman and to the CV's is, what is the extent of Raman's blind love for his son ?

Adi asks him for a family holiday with him and Ruhi and as usual Raman gives in ? Will Raman even give this matter a thought that Ishita is Ruhi's mom, so even if Ishita ends up convincing Ruhi to go on this holiday with her dad and brother, will Ruhi really enjoy without her mom on a family holiday ?

Even if Ruhi does enjoy herself, what's next after family holiday ? As per the current article, Shagun wants to go back to Raman, so what if Adi's next request/demand is that Raman gives divorce to Ishita and remarry his mom Shagun ?

Ruhi for the first time is basking in the love showered by her IshiMa and Papa, because thanks to Shagun, she never got the love of her parents. Her life changed the night Ishita saved her life and fell in love with her. Would Raman go to the extent of choosing his son's wish for being a family again, over Ruhi's wish and happiness of being with IshiMa and her papa ?

This is a not a character bashing post, as I'm trying to stay neutral and just voicing a genuine question regarding Raman's behavior and though process right now and in the future.




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well the strings of news definitely affected my day but at least the latest segments showed some ray of hope.

Raman has openly declared than Adi definitely holds a special place in his life which can never be replaced by anyone. I guess Adi was the very same child that gave him the joy of being a father, initiated his journey into parenthood. Every parent will definitely hold their first child and their memories dear to them but that doesn't mean they love their other children any lesser. Raman's guilt of depriving Adi of a normal childhood that he deserved due their divorce and the broken marriage has immensely increased his guilt towards Adi. Raman's yearning for the same affection and love from Adi has always driven him to extremes that one can imagine. I guess this are the reasons why there can never been an equilibrium between Adi & Ruhi. It is the bitter truth is that Adi will always precedes everything in his life.

The only thing Raman needs to learn, he should never let his eagerness to prove his love turn into obsession that spoils Adi and his future. I'm still waiting for the moment when Raman decides to bring Adi back to the track the right way instead of blindly following his demands.
Edited by rev4eva - 11 years ago

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