I can see that you feel strongly abt this show...but it is just good acting...it is human nature to be weak in some areas and it is showing us that Adi is raman's weakness...this is sureal of how Indians favour sons more than daughters.I think Ekta is trying to get the message across that Indians will blindly support their male child no matter what. it is an eye opener to all Indians that we do this in our own family without realising how shelfish we are. we all can see that Ruhi is not that important to Raman as Adi is.
Well..in india yes i agree that male child is favored..
however im sorry but i dont see that being potrayed in that track...there are better ways to potraythis issue...what i see ekta teaching me is ways to be manuplitative and how trap your ex-husband using his weakness while living off another mans money