Unprofessional behaviour by Sandhya

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Today as a professional and as a manager I can say that having a team member like Sandhya is a headache to any team. A team member who doesnt have passion towards what he or she is doing, who cannot fix priority is a manager's worst night mare.
if CVs think they are showing Sandhya balancing family and career they are showing non sense. It is because of idiots like Sandhya stereotypes are formed.
A married woman cant take high risk projects, if she is a mother she is less efficient in her work. Does the CVs even know how much genuinely performing woman suffer because of these stereotypes.
Do they realize because of such unwanted leaves woman are made to run from pillar to post for their genuine needs. I can very well understand SPs anger take full day leave. I would tell the same if one of my subordinate ask me leave on a quarter ending day unless it is very very genuine like sickness to self or some family member or a death in the family, or a well planned leave in advance for a wedding or family function.

What would have happened if Sandhya didnt go to Chavi's place. But her presence in that traffic control was important. To boost the team's morale. True results dont matter, but till the very last minute you have to try, you have to motivate.

Shame on you Sandhya. Today you put to shame millions of working woman who are balancing their life and work in a better fashion.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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CVs are scripting some crap... Sandhya hides everything from her family nd becoz of this nature of her , her family will take advantage of her in the future ... On one day when she tells she has work .. it will burst out nd all will start telling why she s behaving like this suddenly.. ?? This s what happened when she denied to help Momily... CVs 👎🏼


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Posted: 11 years ago
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nd one more... Instead of showing Vikram nd Meena romancing in that bike .. they should have shown surYa romance... Though it was a plot for the future track .. it was a waste of time watching them... nd they are showing Sandy washing her hands nd legs... evvv... what s happening in the show ???
Its clear that they are scripting for Deepika nd Rohit nd not Sandy ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Subha I least care what they are showing for SURYA. But if they dont correct Sandhya's professional behaviour it is going to give a very bad message.
it says how much ever important your work and presence in office , it should never overtake your family let it be for whatever rubbish in the family.

That is not how things work. Even in IT industry or bank. My mom who is retired from bank and has managed both home and family was also irritated. Imagine she was a working woman in 70s. Irrespective of that she called Sandhya dumb and idiot. IPS is a noble profession and a service. Even we who work in IT industry will think twice before taking leave for such things and how could a woman who has taken pledge to serve the nation and who is suppose to do a task can take leave on the day that task is gonna get completed.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I guess CVs are making her do like this as she s new and doesnt realize the difference btw what s important nd what s not...?? nd also what s IPS ??? Sirji was telling this from beginning that she s nt fit for IPS as her weakness s her family... Hope they show some big incident where she remembers Sirji's words and think she was right nd this s not how she has to deal with things ...
nd inspite of knowing that SP sir was angry , I donno what guts she has to take leave ???




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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree wid each word of urs Shruti di...👍🏼
earlier Sandhya used 2 be an inspiration tom me and 1000's of other girls...bt nw i sumhw feel dt Sandhya's inspiring character is lost...evrything dt she does is fake nd cannot happen in real lyf...it's sort of demotivating...a big thumbs down frm my side for the cv's...👎🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The focus of CVs has turned to showing Sandhya more as bahu than a working woman, let even IPS officer.


Today, I did not find anything wrong in Sandhya taking half a day leave. There was not any emergency, any deadline, or any pending work that she had to complete that day at any cost. What she had was an endline of a task which her superior himself had already asked her to stop working and was not even ready to listen to her. Even if she makes any changes in working plan also, there won't be any effect immediately.

In spite of her superior's sarcastic reply to take a whole day leave, she insisted on taking just half a day leave and attend the function (I do not mean that the function is too important). Sandhya indeed showed her professionalism.

There will be many more circumstances in the future and she may decide as per her priority.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree with you that chavi function not so important ..
they making her character dumb day by day.. 😕 i can see the BD used for deepika today.
her voice shivering while talking to bb. why afraid ? kha jae gi? just tell her i cant leave my duty for your daughter's fake pregnancy..
i wonder even after knowing how much SP is angry with her.. he has no care wheather she come or not. shut the phone on her. she take leave and go with her bhabo darling..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sandhya can ask for half a day leave and that is not a big deal, but the real issue here is her priorities.

I'm a professional and balancing my life just fine, but still I have my priorities, and I'll not mix my work and family in one plate!

Sandhya's priorities are all over the place, she is more bahu than an IPS officer.

From the very beginning I'm trying to pointing it out that Sandhya is not IPS material, she could be a good teacher or some 9-5 worker.

She allows her family to interfere in her work though they have no knowledge. Her families interference costs her dearly.

Always a confused expression crossed Sandhya's face.
She is puzzled, disoriented and perplexed...


But I agree with you Shruthi about day off is the timing.. for her the timing was not right and specially she was going through a real bad phase of her job... thanks to her noble family!
Edited by NeelM - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i wonder even after knowing how much SP is angry with her.. he has no care wheather she come or not. shut the phone on her. she take leave and go with her bhabo darling..
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I was like wt... she should not take that day off after SP hang up phone on her face

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