What will Pari do??? Part 2 - Page 2

Given the recent changes in her character she will feel more insecure. If her marriage gets cancelled then she will surely think Ankita is snatching everything from her, first Naren then her Family.

Originally posted by: jjj123

Given the recent changes in her character she will feel more insecure. If her marriage gets cancelled then she will surely think Ankita is snatching everything from her, first Naren then her Family.

I agree. Cv has brought dramatic changes to her character just like they did to Ovi. If everything is fine then there is no drama or trp. I do see flip in Pari

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Im not replying to your question. Im replying to part of your post as was highlighted!!! If you only wanted answers to your questions, then you could have simply asked ONLY the questions. But the fact is you included a back handed insult to the character. If you did not want ppl to comment on part of the post, then why post it in the 1st place?

Adoption as defined by every dictionary and online site is "is a process whereby a person assumes the parenting for another and, in so doing, permanently transfers all rights and responsibilities, along with filiation, from the biological parent or parents. Unlike guardianship
or other systems designed for the care of the young, adoption is
intended to effect a permanent change in status and as such requires
societal recognition"

1. It doesn't have to be FLESH AND BLOOD (I will never understand the obsession of flesh and blood, some ppl are flesh and blood and dont even treat you as good as your adopted family). For example: If a child's parents passes away and he/she is adopted by their grandparents or aunts/uncles, they ARE flesh and blood and still ADOPTED!

2. They are very much HER grandparents as well as Ankita's! When a daughter is adopted as in Purvi's case, SHE becomes the adopted daughter and attains her status as daughter and recognition. Pari was, is and never will be ADOPTED anything as she has legal parents and grandparents!

3. At the end of the day - they are suppose to be EQUAL grand daughters to the Deshmucks. It shouldnt matter that one is the child of the scoundrel son and the other the child of the adopted daughter. If Ankita should not be treated any worse for NOT having to chose her father who is a rascal, then Pari should NOT be treated differently for NOT having to chose her mother who was adopted. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander!

As to your questions:

Would she leave desmukh household? - I dont think she should or she would. She is their poti too!
Would Archana look at ankita
differently? - YES she will look at her differently, she is her grand daughter after all and the daughter of the son she lost, she will be elated to discover she is her grand daughter.
Ankita get more abuse as she is daughter of alcholic
man? - Maybe from Sachin and Nina, but not from Archana and Manav.

Point is you automatically went in attack mode. No one suggested she will be striped of her grand daughter status.

Originally posted by: preetie

Sure she has loved being kirlosksar so far:) what is the last name she goes by again??

Sometimes, the maternal family is the richer of the two and the paternal family may be the poor one. The maternal family supports the children/grandchildren but they still carry the paternal name. So, really and truly the relations matter in Pari's case. Im sure if the Deshmukhs didnt accept her, she would not have been left on the street a pauper.

Besides, whats in a name? That which we call a rose by any other would smell as sweet 😉 😊

Originally posted by: preetie

Now drama is getting to the height of climax. Pari has told she wants nothing to do with Ankita's family. Interestingly Ankita's family has been taking care of her. She would have been no body without Ankita's family. What will she do when Soham family connection is revealed???

Would she leave desmukh household? Would Archana look at ankita differently? Or ankita get more abuse as she is daughter of alcholic man?

What do you think? Which way its going to go?

Originally posted by: preetie

Point is you automatically went in attack mode. No one suggested she will be striped of her grand daughter status.

I was simply debating your sentence in the opposition mode. I did not attack. I even listed my points in an organised manner because I did not agree with it. Im sorry you can only see points that are NOT in your line of thinking to be ATTACK instead of interactive debating!

Edit: Please note, you did not suggest she would be stripped of her grand daughter status. Your sentence says she is NOT even a grand daughter, without them she would be a nobody!

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Sometimes, the maternal family is the richer of the two and the paternal family may be the poor one. The maternal family supports the children/grandchildren but they still carry the paternal name. So, really and truly the relations matter in Pari's case. Im sure if the Deshmukhs didnt accept her, she would not have been left on the street a pauper.

Besides, whats in a name? That which we call a rose by any other would smell as sweet 😉 😊

Dear my comment was in response to comment that Pari is kirlosksar so in this case name does matter. She never wanted to be kirloskar.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

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Pari is also as much the daughter of the Deshmukh family as Ankita is . Just like Purvi is as much the daughter as Teju and Ovi are ...

In fact the way it is shown , it looks like Pari is the apple of everyone's eye ...they all fuss around her all the time ..Pari is lucky to have such a loving family ..

The way the story is moving it looks like Naren and Pari will get married .I don't want them to get married right now .They love each other so they should get married but not right now ...Not when Naren has a wife and a child coming in this world .He should first know about his wife and child and take care of this situation before getting into a new relationship ...

He loves Pari but he has responsibilities also and he should somehow know about them specially of the baby ...

Also I would like it that he should remember his last 6 months , recover completely and then after getting completely cured , then he should marry Pari ( if that is what they decide to do ) ...That will be the right time , now is not the right time ..

But the way things are going , for now I will assume that Naren and Pari will get married and that is supposed to happen after one day only ..Obviously then Pari will move in to the Karmakar house with Naren ..

It would be nice if Ankita is taken care of by her grand mother Archana ..She too deserves to be loved and someone take care of her ...she is a very unlucky girl and it will be nice to see someone also taking care of her and her baby for a change ...

So far she is going through a very traumatic time totally on her own ...

I don't think Soham will allow the Deshmukh family to come anywhere near his children .He is very angry with his family ...

That would be in ideal. I see wedding not happening. Both Ankita and Pari stuck around Naren. Naren has no where to go. Archana stuck between Pari and ankita. Sachim and his wife instigating one side against other to benefit themselves. Salochana and manav's mother also picking sides. All this will continue and we will sit and scratch our heads which means mission accomplished by Ekta

Ankita and Pari belong to the same family. Archana and Manav would want all of them to get the rights of being grandchildren.

I don't think Soham will agree to come and live with the Deshmukhs in their house. At most, it will just be that Archana and Manav will start taking interest in the lives of Ankita and her siblings and will want to mingle with them, and yes, this might annoy Pari (going by what has been shown so far) though I don't think she will walk out of the house or anything like that for this reason. I think she's sensible enough to understand her grandparents feelings in this situation and won't make them choose between grandchildren, though she (understandably) might dislike Soham for beating up Naren, and more so ever cos he hasn't come across a very likeable character so far.

Originally posted by: preetie

You are definitely watching different show. Just in case you forgot, soham's two kids are below age 10. you wont want their grand parents to spoil them with love and affection. It's ok for kids of only son of the house to live in poverty and have a brat like Pari look down on them. It's very selfish thinking to suggested those little kids should continue to live in poverty

agreed.hope Soham act sensibly this time and his kids will get their rights.