What will Pari do??? Part 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Now drama is getting to the height of climax. Pari has told she wants nothing to do with Ankita's family. Interestingly Ankita's family has been taking care of her. She would have been no body without Ankita's family. What will she do when Soham family connection is revealed???

Would she leave desmukh household? Would Archana look at ankita differently? Or ankita get more abuse as she is daughter of alcholic man?

What do you think? Which way its going to go?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ankita's family has been taking care of her. She would have been no body without Ankita's family.

Points to note pertaining to the above sentence:

1. HER family has been taking care of HER! It just so happens that her and Ankita belong to the same family (unknown to either of them).

2. Everyone is someone and somebody, everyone has parents or some relative. No one was dropped from a coconut tree and therefor Pari can never be a NOBODY.

3. She is still a Kirloskar even if she isnt a Deshmukh and she would still be just fine

4. Please dont tell me that she is NOT part of that family because her mother was adopted. At the end of the day, whether we want to accept it or not, Purvi is a Deshmukh. However legal or illegal it was, she is still considered a D and part of that family and by extension so is her daughter. Family isnt just blood, but relations too and anyone who TRULY believes in Pavitra Rishta would know that blood is not the beginning and end of a relationship.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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It wud be really wrong to say Ankita's family had been taking care of her, it is Pari's family too.

Infact Pari has been shown as the first grand child of Deshmuk's since she was infant.
+ she always had a mother to take care of her, purvi did not leave pari alone in deshmuk's house, purvi herself was there, not uselessly at home too, she worked in deshmuk's company so evn if u wud like to c it very financial point of view so pari's mom- purvi earned enough to take care of her daughter n evn pari being adult joined D business.

Even pari leaves the Deshmuk tag, she is still kirloskar! n thats enuf for her to be somebody rather than jst Nobody!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why should Pari leave the deshmukh household when they are her family too?
Her grandma, grandad, aunties uncles, great grandparents. The entire deshmukh family are her family and ankita is her cousin. Either way ankita does not need to move in with deshmukhs when she herself is being taken care of by her own siblings.
In any case if she does move in then it will be after pari's marriage to naren by which time Pari would have moved in to karmarkar household.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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pari will try to brainwash deshmukh family just like she brainwashed mansi against ankita by spreading rumours about her character.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Ankita's family has been taking care of her. She would have been no body without Ankita's family.

Points to note pertaining to the above sentence:

1. HER family has been taking care of HER! It just so happens that her and Ankita belong to the same family (unknown to either of them).

2. Everyone is someone and somebody, everyone has parents or some relative. No one was dropped from a coconut tree and therefor Pari can never be a NOBODY.

3. She is still a Kirloskar even if she isnt a Deshmukh and she would still be just fine

4. Please dont tell me that she is NOT part of that family because her mother was adopted. At the end of the day, whether we want to accept it or not, Purvi is a Deshmukh. However legal or illegal it was, she is still considered a D and part of that family and by extension so is her daughter. Family isnt just blood, but relations too and anyone who TRULY believes in Pavitra Rishta would know that blood is not the beginning and end of a relationship.





Adoption is taking care of someone that is not your flesh and blood. Pari has said many times she doesn't want anything to Ankita. It's ironic she is adopted grand daughter of ankita grand parents. Question how will she handle.
Thanks for going around in circles instead of reading the topic.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: hARSHA_Neeti


It wud be really wrong to say Ankita's family had been taking care of her, it is Pari's family too.

Infact Pari has been shown as the first grand child of Deshmuk's since she was infant.
+ she always had a mother to take care of her, purvi did not leave pari alone in deshmuk's house, purvi herself was there, not uselessly at home too, she worked in deshmuk's company so evn if u wud like to c it very financial point of view so pari's mom- purvi earned enough to take care of her daughter n evn pari being adult joined D business.

Even pari leaves the Deshmuk tag, she is still kirloskar! n thats enuf for her to be somebody rather than jst Nobody!



Sure she has loved being kirlosksar so far:) what is the last name she goes by again??
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ambolove

Why should Pari leave the deshmukh household when they are her family too?
Her grandma, grandad, aunties uncles, great grandparents. The entire deshmukh family are her family and ankita is her cousin. Either way ankita does not need to move in with deshmukhs when she herself is being taken care of by her own siblings.
In any case if she does move in then it will be after pari's marriage to naren by which time Pari would have moved in to karmarkar household.



You are definitely watching different show. Just in case you forgot, soham's two kids are below age 10. you wont want their grand parents to spoil them with love and affection. It's ok for kids of only son of the house to live in poverty and have a brat like Pari look down on them. It's very selfish thinking to suggested those little kids should continue to live in poverty
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonalak

pari will try to brainwash deshmukh family just like she brainwashed mansi against ankita by spreading rumours about her character.



Bang on. Even though its not Ankita's fault that soham is her father. Pari will not be happy camper. She will be worried only about her just like sachin
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: preetie



Adoption is taking care of someone that is not your flesh and blood. Pari has said many times she doesn't want anything to Ankita. It's ironic she is adopted grand daughter of ankita grand parents. Question how will she handle.
Thanks for going around in circles instead of reading the topic.



Im not replying to your question. Im replying to part of your post as was highlighted!!! If you only wanted answers to your questions, then you could have simply asked ONLY the questions. But the fact is you included a back handed insult to the character. If you did not want ppl to comment on part of the post, then why post it in the 1st place?

Adoption as defined by every dictionary and online site is "is a process whereby a person assumes the parenting for another and, in so doing, permanently transfers all rights and responsibilities, along with filiation, from the biological parent or parents. Unlike guardianship or other systems designed for the care of the young, adoption is intended to effect a permanent change in status and as such requires societal recognition"

1. It doesn't have to be FLESH AND BLOOD (I will never understand the obsession of flesh and blood, some ppl are flesh and blood and dont even treat you as good as your adopted family). For example: If a child's parents passes away and he/she is adopted by their grandparents or aunts/uncles, they ARE flesh and blood and still ADOPTED!

2. They are very much HER grandparents as well as Ankita's! When a daughter is adopted as in Purvi's case, SHE becomes the adopted daughter and attains her status as daughter and recognition. Pari was, is and never will be ADOPTED anything as she has legal parents and grandparents!

3. At the end of the day - they are suppose to be EQUAL grand daughters to the Deshmucks. It shouldnt matter that one is the child of the scoundrel son and the other the child of the adopted daughter. If Ankita should not be treated any worse for NOT having to chose her father who is a rascal, then Pari should NOT be treated differently for NOT having to chose her mother who was adopted. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander!

As to your questions:

Would she leave desmukh household? - I dont think she should or she would. She is their poti too!
Would Archana look at ankita differently? - YES she will look at her differently, she is her grand daughter after all and the daughter of the son she lost, she will be elated to discover she is her grand daughter.
Ankita get more abuse as she is daughter of alcholic man? - Maybe from Sachin and Nina, but not from Archana and Manav.

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