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Candypop

@Candypop

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Posted: 11 years ago

Ok guys,I'm seriously annoyed right now and I need to share this with all of you 😡 I may be wrong so please feel free to correct me! Ok I've just been thinking at the start Raman used to be so mean to Ruhi like if he even saw the mole on her face he got angry and it reminded him of Shagun.But now with Adi he is all like my child,I used to drop him to school I did this and that.I understand he probably has more memories with Adi than Ruhi but why such a big difference? Everything about Ruhi made him angry so why not Adi? I guess he has probably changed since the start but such a big change is not possible!! I love YHM and everything about it but I'm not liking this Raman attitude with Adi,Raman is being way too nice.The first time he got a call from Adi he got so excited and the first time he saw Ruhi he was happy but then he saw the mole,even adi has something like that near his nose(I think).In addition to that,I think they should show more scenes of Ruhi and Raman because everything is just about Adi these day 😭 I really want to see some scenes of Ruhi and Raman,Raman used to be upset that he didn't get Ruhi and now when he got her he doesn't spend time with her and all the time Adi Adi Adi.Sick of it 😡 Please correct me if I'm wrong or I'm Missing a point but this is what I think.

Edited by Candypop - 11 years ago

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priya

@silvia1999

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Posted: 11 years ago

raman loves adi and ruhi equally.
he himself once said by the time ruhi was born there is no love between raman and shagun.
he is showering his love on adi because he wants adi himself i think.

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Sabina

@Guguminti

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Posted: 11 years ago

A child is a child chahe Ruhi ho yaa Adi he loves both

And yeah he loved Ruhi always when he used to hurt ruhi then also he used to get more hurt.

And a father cannot tolerate his child hating him

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Juhi

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Guguminti
A child is a child chahe Ruhi ho yaa Adi he loves both
And yeah he loved Ruhi always when he used to hurt ruhi then also he used to get more hurt.
And a father cannot tolerate his child hating him

and may be adi is his first child...n first child n the memories to it really does mean a lot... u may have many more child bt d happiness frm d first born cant be replaced wid anythin else...

n ya buddy ( candypop) i do agree wid u dat thr must be a bit more of father daughter relationship be shown bet raman n ruhi... also bcz a daughtr is always more close n dear to a fathr... bt ya raman is justified twrds adi bcz a fathr can nvr accept d fact that his first born hates him fr no reason ( or fr sum misunderstndings)... n may be so he s more inclined twrds adi !!!😊

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Gkathria

@Gkathria

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Posted: 11 years ago

1. He has the ability to do so much for Ruhi than he can for Adi
2. Adi is his 1st born and he was so in love with Shagun at that time
3. Adi is away from him
4. Adi has been poisoned to believe that Raman is wrong so hates him
5. He married Ishita to give Ruhi a mother's love, thereby she get's love and care from both parents, so why can't he work harder to give Adi love from both his parents

Even though Raman isn't very verbal about it we know how much he truly loves Ruhi, but Ruhi has everything she wants where as Adi has been deprived of a lot, even though Adi is convinced that he has everything because Ashok is rich we know that's not true.

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ishra4ever

@ishra4ever

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Posted: 11 years ago

I have no issues raman being slightly partial to adi as adi is away from him.

But yes I want ishra scenes more with ruhi.

It's natural for any parent to pay attention more towards the child who is weak and needs them. Here adi is far from him do he misses him.
Ruhi is living with him so obviously he is not that stressed about her.

Suppose you get an injury on right hand, obviously you'll paymore aattention and care about your right hand than rest of your body. It doesnt mean you don't love your body right?
(It was jus an example...plz do not mistake me. I have no ill feelings for whomsoever on this forum 😳 )

Edited by ishra4ever - 11 years ago

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Candypop

@Candypop

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yes I guess,true true 😊 I guess I was wrong,but I'd still love some ishra Ruhi scenes 😛

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BLR_babe

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Posted: 11 years ago

Raman is human ... i am not saying he is in the right .. but like many he transferred his feeling of shagun to ruhi .. which is absolutely wrong ..

When Adi was born Raman was in love with Shagun like mad .. his first child with the person he loved .. he was there every step frm pregancy to when adi was growing up ..

when Ruhi was born things had changed actually even before tht .. love was gone frm the marriage .. Shagun left him for a more successful man .. She had belittle him for being a nobody .. Raman was not there when ruhi was growing up .. he trying to better himself , with anger filled in him ..

things has again changed .. he has started seeing ruhi as his daughter rather than Shagun's .. hopefully we will get to see more of ishra with ruhi 😊

Edited by BlrBabe - 11 years ago