A Strange Symbolism in old Mala-Rudra Scene - Page 2

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh nice catch...those epis seem like eons ago now...but yes even then I think some of us wondered how come Mala felt no connect but Rudra felt it even while just seeing her eyes...

And given how these characters have turned out to be, it does add up...it's remarkable how much Rudra has ended up being affected by and VALUING the bonds he's made in his life considering that he was fed poison and bitterness for most of his life...yet he is able to nibhaao and value relationships better than both his weak-minded parents.

Even when he claimed cynicism, he was appalled by the speed with which people could spurn relationships and their most loved ones...this thought is UNTHINKABLE to Rudra...and it shows even now with the way he protects Paro, Dilsher even now...and soon he will defend Mala again as well as the spoilers say...this is the kind of guy he is when everyone else around him has failed him time and again.

Originally posted by: babyji

Oh WOW...what an insight you have..👏👏 Now that you mentioned it,yes...it makes perfect sense. We have NEVER seen Mala pine for Rudra but ...Rudra has ALWAYS been pining for his mother. Now,one more reason for me to hate Mala , unless CVs have something up their sleeves which might unveil tonigh.

Originally posted by: brainychild92

I watched the whole episode again just so I don't mix up what I am about to say..

I do not agree with a single thing on this post.

I don't even feel that Rudra felt a connection. He is the one who signaled for the car to leave. I think he was sort of in deep thought thinking of Tejawat and why his wife was by herself so late and in bad weather. Obviously, she does not come out a lot alone.

Also, you have to understand that she had not seen her kid in FIFTEEN years! My dado hadn't seen my dad in about 5 and she didn't recognize him when he visited for the first time (pre-skype days). HIS OWN MOM did not know who he was until my mom introduced him! It happens.. this "tug" and "connection" is not 100 % accurate in the real life...

And I can't stand when people blame mala for not looking for him. She trusts her BIL blindly. He promised her he would reunite them once he came back; before then, she did try. She truly felt her BIL would honor his promise and make sure that Rudra is not poisoned against her. She tried taking him away.

Mala was not right for running away; but don't call her selfish and put the whole blame on her. Dilsher and circumstances are to be blamed too; all I am saying.

Originally posted by: svijaya77

I'm totally okay with you disagreeing with my post 😊

Just a couple of things..I'm talking about reel 'connections' not real. You know, the way mothers are generally portrayed on tv, that's all. I saw something in that scene...maybe you didn't...that's okay

And i am so not putting the whole blame on Mala!! I totally DO NOT condone Dilsher's actions!! Mala did the right thing in walking out of the relationship!!

I'm just saying I think she was wrong in not trying harder for her child...then, later, or at least even now! The same way Dilsher is very very wrong for all that he did to Mala and Rudra!

BOTH parents have failed Rudra.


Viji

Originally posted by: brainychild92

Good to see someone blaming both parents and not just one... It was a combined effort the way i see it..lol

Originally posted by: svijaya77

After all the revelations of Dilsher being an abusive husband and all, I'm sure there's no one who blames Mala for walking out 😕
I'm just waiting for Rudra to blast his father for all the lies he fed to him! 😡