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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 11 years ago

Ganga is smarter and more determined.

She should have been in shekhars house to help anandi.

Ganga needs wings, not simple praises everytime she succeeds and then as easily forgotten.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

I don't think Anandi needs help from Ganga.

Anandi has her own way of handdling things and she did manage to turn her life around.

DSa and her parents did ruin her life in childhood as a result of it her life was damaged.

Yes Singhs were there for her when Jagya left her. But the determination to make a life for herself and carve an identity for herself is her own.

Her starting school, her desire to get educated and her desire to help the villagers made her what she is.

She just entered Udaipur a year ago as Shivraj Shekhar's wife she had to start all over again with paople whose mindset is totally different from hers.

She had to work hard to earn their trust and respect.Only now they stopped looking at her as just as their son's wife but as an invidual in her own right.That journey was not an easy one.

She is creating an identity for herself thru Bhaili in Udaipur and not just as collector's wife.Unfortunately we did not get to see much of her work in Bhaili because showing carry trays is more important to the CVs.

She did manage quite fine without any help from Singhs.

As for her fighting back methods - She has been that way from the begining she really needs to be pushed against the wall to fight back.

Bhairon and Jagya wanted her to continue her education but she didn't to do anything until she realised that her life is slipping away from her hands and that's when she started her education and used education to get a life and new identity for herself.

In her new sasural she didn't really face any challenges so far that she needed to fight back till now.

The trial and the fight has just started so why make judgements on Anandi???Anandi as a small kid fought off Dsa and called in Mahapanchayat to get Jagya - Gudiya marriage anulled and Dsa had to make apology to Anandi with folded hands in front of the whole village and Mahapanchyat.

Isn't that enough to tell what she will do to fight for what belongs to her???

You think she is going to sit back and let Rasika walk over her ???

Ganga started her journey with Singhs and Anandi started her journey with Shekhars at about the same time.

Anandi does things in her own way.She has the habit of going to the roots of the problem and that is time consuming

Ganga must be smart during Basant Panchmi she couldn't even write her son's name properly but within 3 months she cleared state board exam😛

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 11 years ago

What I am saying is street smart which is sometimes very useful.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
What I am saying is street smart which is sometimes very useful.

You don't need to be street smart to survive as long as you are intelligent as well as into ethical practices.

Anandi can read people's mind but her way of acting on it is different.

Sanchi time she knew that something was not adding up but she was nayi naveli bahu of the house and she went by the family's judgement of Sanchi instead of going by her instincts.That's one time she misjudged a person.

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

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Posted: 11 years ago

Dont think Anandi needs Ganga's help.

Anandi has her own way of doing things, Ganga has her own.

From the childhood we have seen her heart cries for the people in pain and in her own small way she goes out of her way to help them. That time she used to protest everything which is wrong even if it happens with her.

While watching choti Anandi in rishtey it is so evident , each and everyday she protested DS and told what is wrong. But with time when she went back home her parents and in BH DS has managed to groom her in such way she became perfect bahu of haveli.

Her original character which cant see anyone in pain is still there and today also she does everything to help others but when it comes to herself she become so patient and tolerant she could ignore those pain and bad memories and try to understand from their POV and turn those bitter memories to her strength.

She goes to the root of the problem. Her way though takes time, does have long term effect.

Ganga on the other hand has not groomed in that way. Her torture is more of physical and she doesnt have any emotional attachment to anyone in her family. Her only goal was to run away from there and bring up her child. She couldnt get time to think anyone else other than her son and herself.

So her way of handling things are different

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

Agree with Susmita.

Ganga and Anandi may be child brides who have been packed off to their in laws place while they were still kids.

Ganga - Was living with a bunch of monsters/beasts with no one to look out for her - So she had to fend for herself like small street kids do.

Anandi - while there was no physical torture she had to learn to balance relationships right from childhood she had to win them over for survival.Her way of dealing with things is like taking people along with her.

They shouldn't be compared.

Their lives are much different too.

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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

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Posted: 11 years ago

Ganga and smart? Yes that she is. Else she wouldn't have become the haveli bahu in such a short span😉 😆 with all efforts purely from her side.

But Anandi does not need her help cause she's crossed too many hurdles and achieved too many things without Ganga's help unlike Ganga who needed Anandi's help a number of times. . Anandi works at her own pace and resolves matters . Even though she messes up things sometimes, she does manage to settle down finally with kanhaji's help if not with her own calibre. 😆

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 11 years ago

Ganga is the restless type who wont rest until she gets something done.

She had the option of turning a blind eye and let things work in their own way. No immediate danger from Shyamalbhai. There are hundreds of them. But she chose to go it alone and find whats wrong.

Jagya trusted the wrong people and did not trust the right people.

Hope ganga will make him realise his problem in her sweet and unobtrusive way without fighting and without lecturing.