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Posted: 11 years ago
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@DexterRocks, Paro's problem is that she is not aware of the depth of the problem she is trying to solve. To her the pain that Rudra feels over Mala's abandonment is the same as her pain over her parents death. Even when he tells he its not the same, she thinks he is talking in anger and doesn't really mean it when he tells her that Mala should not be a part of his life. For her a mother's love is absolute. Nothing can heal Rudra as much as Mala's presence. For her, he is getting a chance to reunite with his family, something she never will. So she doesn't want him to let go of it. She overestimates Mala's importance in the life that he wants. He has managed to survive all the taunts and the pity of people and grow up focussing on his career and his father. He no longer needs or wants his mother in his life. He is happy with just his father, uncle and some of the Ranavats. She is ignorant of the fact that he wants to rebuild his life around her. This is why I wish he would have finished his speech before Mala entered. That's when it becomes clear that he wants to find healing in her and not his mother.
Rudra's love and Paro's love is like comparing fire and water. They are each other's greatest strength and weakness too. No point in comparing each other.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rithureuben

@DexterRocks, Paro's problem is that she is not aware of the depth of the problem she is trying to solve. To her the pain that Rudra feels over Mala's abandonment is the same as her pain over her parents death. Even when he tells he its not the same, she thinks he is talking in anger and doesn't really mean it when he tells her that Mala should not be a part of his life. For her a mother's love is absolute. Nothing can heal Rudra as much as Mala's presence. For her, he is getting a chance to reunite with his family, something she never will. So she doesn't want him to let go of it. She overestimates Mala's importance in the life that he wants. He has managed to survive all the taunts and the pity of people and grow up focussing on his career and his father. He no longer needs or wants his mother in his life. He is happy with just his father, uncle and some of the Ranavats. She is ignorant of the fact that he wants to rebuild his life around her. This is why I wish he would have finished his speech before Mala entered. That's when it becomes clear that he wants to find healing in her and not his mother.

Rudra's love and Paro's love is like comparing fire and water. They are each other's greatest strength and weakness too. No point in comparing each other.


exactly, the only problem is that Paro is yet to realize that Rudra does not need Mala at this phase of his life, he had moved on and given her the most important place in his life. Rudra has nurtured his wounds, buried them, found his solace in Paro and was content in his life with his dad and Paro. But then suddenly Mala enters and along with Paro even his father is trying to justify Mala, this surely is a let down for him, and they are underestimating his suffering and overestimating Mala's suffering when Mala herself has shown no damn sign of remorse .
Paro trying to bridge the gap is ok, but she should not have told Mala that Mala is a good mother for Rudra, that puts Paro's character under question that did she really understand the magnitude of Rudra's pain to make such a statement ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaz1990

I really like that last scene with rudra and paro was nicely done with some very good dialogues


yes dialogues were really good. thank god we got something other than a repetitive scene of Paro with a plate of food and then as usual arguement over Mala.
This time, she was tensed about Mala, Rudra consoled her in his way.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@DexterRocks, I hated that part so much when Paro was praising Mala's motherly nature and assuring her that she deserves respect. What was that, Mala remembered her son only when Danveer informed her that Rudra has returned home with his father. She was never shown pining over him or trying to contact him. The least she could have done is left him as letter saying that she still loves him and will come back for him. Then he would have waited for her with open arms. But she didn't do anything to command respect. Love and respect are some emotions which have to be earned. She has to work twice as hard to get what she carelessly threw away.
Even with Paro, who admires her and sees her as a mother, she hasn't shown any special affection or concern. She still hasn't enquired how she went from Rudra's captive to his wife. Last she heard from Tejawat, Paro was killed by BSD.
I know that Paro likes to see the best in everybody. But Paro saying that Mala is a good mother is unreasonable.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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simply loved it❤️ that scene as well as ur writing😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rithureuben

@DexterRocks, I hated that part so much when Paro was praising Mala's motherly nature and assuring her that she deserves respect. What was that, Mala remembered her son only when Danveer informed her that Rudra has returned home with his father. She was never shown pining over him or trying to contact him. The least she could have done is left him as letter saying that she still loves him and will come back for him. Then he would have waited for her with open arms. But she didn't do anything to command respect. Love and respect are some emotions which have to be earned. She has to work twice as hard to get what she carelessly threw away.

Even with Paro, who admires her and sees her as a mother, she hasn't shown any special affection or concern. She still hasn't enquired how she went from Rudra's captive to his wife. Last she heard from Tejawat, Paro was killed by BSD.
I know that Paro likes to see the best in everybody. But Paro saying that Mala is a good mother is unreasonable.


I know Mala herself is not taking a stand to reach Rudra and give him the much deserved explanation. Why should he go and ask ? Its not his fault that he should take the measures and go and ask her, so why does even Paro want him to take the necessary measures and try and reconcile ? Why cannot Paro say the same thing to Mala instead of worshipping her and hooting for her so called motherhood ? I was extremely pissed off that day, i would not be if Rudra would not tell about his troubles to Paro, but when he told her everything, its very insensitive to see Paro boosting up Mala by telling her that she was a good mom for Rudra.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: winnieluvsarun

simply loved it❤️ that scene as well as ur writing😉

hey ur post turned out lucky for me😃
main toh IF dazzler ban gayi😆


congrats for being a dazzler now.😃
and yes, thank u for liking the post, all thanks to Rudradev.😉

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