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mnmj

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Posted: 11 years ago

Until today, i had always been the type of person who believed that a celebrity owed to society to share with the public their personal life and that if something was to be leaked then it is their fault for being careless. But after seeing comments in the thread regarding the Preity-Ness case and also facebook comments, i understand why celebrities would want to keep their lives under the wraps from such judgmental, hypocritical, mean and pure evil beings. Initially when the Ranbir-katrina thing happened i was like "what idiots, they are celebs" but now i think that would be the worse thing to happen to someone. To be snooped on and have the pictures plastered to the world to ridicule.

Yes by all means express your skepticism to the validity of the report, but don't call them names, don't call them a gold digger, wh**e etc etc. It is disrespectful to the parents who raised you with such manners. I read comments about preity that were so derogatory, that even though i understand that is one or two people, i am saddened that such toxins and make life difficult for others in the community. Whether she is guilty or innocent i can no way be 100% sure of, but to put your career on the line it makes me think she is telling the truth (but that is another topic in itself, so lets not go there) BUT if she were, i imagined being her and reading those comments and just feeling horrible, that the fame, glamour and money wouldn't be worth it.

Why can we so easily degrade others and wrath hateful comments? Would we be able to say such things if the person was in front of us?

All in all, being a celebrity sucks. And making a mistake whilst being a celebrity is a living hell. I don't blame Aishwarya rai for being so called "cold", i don't blame shahrukh for giving witty-sideline-rude comments to the media nor kareena's arrogance to fans. i don't blame them. They can be jerks, but sometimes we are the bigger jerk.

I remember in year 2 hearing "if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all"...damn right

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Posted: 11 years ago

p.s. i agree that celebrities should be prepared to such insults but i'm talking about US, why are WE so rude and what gives us the right to be so hateful/sadist.

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Posted: 11 years ago

It is best not to take anyone's opinion too seriously. That's the only thing you can do.

But yeah celebrities do have a hard time. We judge them thinking they must have it so easy, but that's not true at all.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: AppleCider
It is best not to take anyone's opinion too seriously. That's the only thing you can do.

But yeah celebrities do have a hard time. We judge them thinking they must have it so easy, but that's not true at all.

I agree on not taking anyone opinion too seriously but i think that is how peope transition from being innocent/happy children to bitter and held-back adults. We are scared of the opinion of others because of years of abuse. Or a person could grow to become more resilient, but is the struggle and pain worth it when it comes negatively?

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: mnmj

I agree on not taking anyone opinion too seriously but i think that is how peope transition from being innocent/happy children to bitter and held-back adults. We are scared of the opinion of others because of years of abuse. Or a person could grow to become more resilient, but is the struggle and pain worth it when it comes negatively?

The ones being bitter and vicious seem unhappy. It mostly seems like they are going through an extremely hard time in life. Till date I have yet to have seen a person who is enjoying their own life and busy with work acting vicious with anyone.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Agree with you...sometimes many of us tend to think that celebs are dumb, scandalous creatures and anything they speak is evil and has another meaning behind it but it is actually not like that..they are also humans.

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Posted: 11 years ago

I agree with u well said 👏

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mnmj

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: AppleCider

The ones being bitter and vicious seem unhappy. It mostly seems like they are going through an extremely hard time in life. Till date I have yet to have seen a person who is enjoying their own life and busy with work acting vicious with anyone.

I agree, i guess its a way to release frustrations with the way that their life is heading. What you described seems to be on par with the definition of bullying- wanting to control or dominate, or counter low self esteem.

we are bullies😕

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Lost_n_Lonely

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Posted: 11 years ago

l agree with u. sometimes I wonder y do ppl hve so much hatred and anger against certain celebs wht the celebs do or say doesn't affect us in any way!😕. ppl hve a right to criticize or disapprove certain things but there's a way of doing it. no need to degrade anyone to vent ur frustrations😡

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