Enlighten me! In India is it normal to hate your sister in law?

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NamuVyas

@NamuVyas

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Posted: 11 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

No offence but if am not wrong, i have seen you make loads of posts justifying Gunjan and Ranvi..If you believe that its useless to justify fictional characters and its only meant for entertainment purposes, why bother making posts justifying their action? 😆 Why cant we just let ppl be? If its offensive, the mods will close the topic..You disagree with the TM, then state your views, justify Gunjan if you want and leave it at that..Or just ignore if you feel it makes no sense..Why advice them to stick to their favorite characters? 😕

Oh and you are free to feel Baldev is boring..To each his own..No one is forcing you to like him 😆

yeah exactly v r saying d same thing to each other... noone forces me to watch baldev and i wont complain abt not liking him.. cos its my choice...

i dint make any loads of posts to justify gunjan.. may be its someone else.. i made one post fa ranajn few days back to put my feelings across.. resst even if someone disagree i really dont sit down to make dem understand..

and sorry if u feel adviced.. tis not my intention really...

and all those who like their favs always think dey are justified.. dats nature of ppl u know

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NamuVyas

@NamuVyas

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Posted: 11 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: ST0207
Edited part : Namrata ji didnt you justify Gunjan's insecurity giving an example of how you would feel exactly like her if you were in the same situation? 🤔
Then even I can say that you have taken this whole show way too seriously 😆 Why is it that when you have to justify your favs its ok to take the show personallt but if you dont like their actions you cant? 🤔 ye kahan ka rule hai Namrata ji? Please enlighten me !!

i agree wid u dat i justified.. oops i did oh gosh... only to realise dat its useless..

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NamuVyas

@NamuVyas

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Posted: 11 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: euphoric
@ NV-ranjanholic

I just want to ask one question, why was that post made here where everyone is simply expressing their disappointment with the track ans characters and why not the other threads where other forum members are passionately defending Gunjan?

i dint get u euphoric

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rogerrocks

@rogerrocks

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Posted: 11 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: NV-ranjanholic

yeah exactly v r saying d same thing to each other... noone forces me to watch baldev and i wont complain abt not liking him.. cos its my choice...
i dint make any loads of posts to justify gunjan.. may be its someone else.. i made one post fa ranajn few days back to put my feelings across.. resst even if someone disagree i really dont sit down to make dem understand..
and sorry if u feel adviced.. tis not my intention really...

and all those who like their favs always think dey are justified.. dats nature of ppl u know

No..Not everyone is blind to faults of their favorite characters..I watch this show only for Baldev and VeeBa but i know for a fact that i called Baldev a chauvinist, stalker, creep and what not..A lot of others did too..Not everyone believes in justifying every act of their favorite 😆 If ppl want to do so, no one is stopping them..Similarly ppl are free to criticize too..Its a free forum afterall 😆

Edited by rogerrocks - 11 years ago

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NamuVyas

@NamuVyas

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Posted: 11 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

No..Not everyone is blind to faults of their favorite characters..I watch this show only for Baldev and VeeBa but i know for a fact that i called Baldev a chauvinist, stalker, creep and what not..A lot of others did too..Not everyone believes in justifying every act of their favorite 😆 If ppl want to do so, no one is stopping them..Similarly ppl are free to criticize too..Its a free forum afterall 😆

roger v r ringing d same bell.. lets cut it here..

i wanna read ur Sahil posts 😳

Edited by NV-ranjanholic - 11 years ago

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rogerrocks

@rogerrocks

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Posted: 11 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: NV-ranjanholic

roger v r ringing d same bell.. lets cut it here..
i wanna read ur Sahil posts 😳

Sahil? Sorry, i stopped watching..I like Rahat-Haya a lot more than Sahil at this point 😆

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

No..Not everyone is blind to faults of their favorite characters..I watch this show only for Baldev and VeeBa but i know for a fact that i called Baldev a chauvinist, stalker, creep and what not..A lot of others did too..Not everyone believes in justifying every act of their favorite 😆 If ppl want to do so, no one is stopping them..Similarly ppl are free to criticize too..Its a free forum afterall 😆

WORD RR! I said that Baldev was acting like a stalker when he would not leave Veera alone about wanting to marry her. When he would not take no for an answer! I said that his CHAAL to get Ranvi disqualified was crap! Because it was! I NEVER justified that behaviour even though I like him!!

I call him BAZIGAAR, coz I think he knows how to play the GAME! But I don't approve of everything he does. I don't try to justify him saying his Dad didn't love him enough etc etc.

As for Veera, yes, we all abuse her all the time. We say she was wrong to lead on Ballu. She could have thought of a better way to get rid of his attention etc? We say she is arrogant and a know it all! When she asked Ranvi "why did it take so long to open the door?" I said she is a FOOL to ask her married brother a question like that!! THAT is balance!

But the Gunjan and RANJAN fans? All they ever do is justify Gunjan. They CANT see that her behaviour is wrong! She has done SO many cheap acts, but still they don't want to accept that she is wrong! It is beyond comprehension.

The reason I asked if hating SIL is normal in India is coz so many people justifying Gunjan said that after marriage, wife is paramount etc, that the family interfere. YES wife is paramount. But other people don't disappear! Gunjan could have stayed at the party with Ranvi and brought him home and given him and the family a SECOND surprise? Or bring Ranvi home ALONE and given him her surprise! He would still have been THRILLED! I would be, if I was him!! Two parties and two surprises. My sister and my wife both doing great things for me!!

But NO! She was angry that he saw VEERA's party first! So she trashed her own party! Makes NO sense to me! But apparently that makes total sense to some!! Kya Kahu yaar?

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 11 years ago

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snepts

@snepts

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Posted: 11 years ago

#38

In western countries, grown up men and women don't live with their parents. Do you think they hate their parents that's why they moved out ? Shall I ask now the same question " is it normal for grown up men and women in western countries to dislike their parents that they can't live with their parents "?

As you know,they move out because they want to live their own wish so that nobody can interfere what they should do or not do. But this doesn't happen in India or other South Asian countries. When a girl gets married, she has to marry the whole family . After marriage , she automatically inherits a boss ( mother in law ) who always controls what she needs to do or ought to do. She has to suppress her dreams, has to change or mold the way other wants her to be. So it causes misunderstanding which termed as " hatred " .

I am not married but I am talking from my experience. When I was USA , I lived alone with class friends. Nobody is there to tell me what I should do or need to do.So I had nobody to show anger or irritation. Now I am back in home and can't do what I want to do makes me irritated. Btw: I am not irritated with my family. I am more irritated with society actually. For example : I am told that I should not drive car because it doesn't look good even though I drove for 12 years when I was in USA.

If your people western countries people had to live in extended family like we do , you would also see this " hatred " thing and wouldn't be surprised this much. In this show, Gunjan inherited her sister in law who acts like she knows everything.So, how can we expect Gunjan to act cool and calm. The relation between her and Veera will only improve when Veera acts as a young lovely sister in law . Veera needs to act according to her age and needs to stop thinking that she is the guardian of the whole family.

Edited by snepts - 11 years ago

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Jiyagulabi_26

@Jiyagulabi_26

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Posted: 11 years ago

#39

bang on post, Darcy

two days ago I was taking gun shows de but after yesterdays I m really pissed, the way they r showing that's its all veera fault I m sp disgusted, well veera didnt asked ranvi to make two plaits n burnt roti. The way ranvi pampered her , gin should know since day one that veera has a special place in his life, n chai jee n ratan taking gun devi side that is so wrong. Y she is responsible for gun misunderstandings . Well. She was the one who brought ranjan together.

its ranvijay mistake..

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