Gunjan is correct - Page 2

Originally posted by: AyeshaKt

hi I do not think it is any of your buisness as to why I felt the need to make an account

and second off, I am not interested to know if your married or single, I came here to share my opinion on ranvi-gunjan and not hear about your life.

And your just a privileged person sitting infront of a computer wasting hours and hours and thinking all women have privileges like you do.

Gunjan has no privacy at all, Veera even enters their bedroom without knocking, that's just disgusting

right over others is one thing and invading privacy is quite the other and I DO NOT want to hear about Gunjan's past or future,I am talking about the present, it is Ranvi's fault he married her knowing her past, but now that he married her, he simple cannot devote is time all to Veera and not acknowledge he has a wife

I Mean Veera is 22! That is more than an adult for God's sake! No need to dot over her like a child,

And I am blaming Ranvi here not Veera

and accepting his family, she is not a good daughter in law,why does she need to be a good daughter in law?

Ratan has never accepted Bansuri , but nobody points at her, it is always the woman who has to accept everything, right?

and I don't want to hear opinions from privileged married people who waste 8-9 hours on forums and think everyone else has the same kind of lives, get real, Gunjan is nothing but a ''wife'' they bought for Ranvi's ''needs'' and to make rotis.

and yeah right, everyone who speaks the truth or how they feel is ''jealous''. that way even you are jealous of Gunjan, am I right?

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Awww poor Gunjan. Her life in Ranvi's house is SOOO Hard. She has to share Ranvi with his family especially that Veera, who has no manners and is always stealing his attention. She would have been better of with Jaggy - the cheater from Canada

Originally posted by: coolpixie

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Thank you for this post! I'm actually new to this forum, too. Not completely a regular watcher, but I have been sort of watching here and there recently. and I'm kind of baffled by some of the strong reactions against gunjun in this forum, I mean her reaction was a bit over the top, but all in all pretty understandable. I think she even burst out like that because she prepared for that birthday with alot of expectations on how ranvi's birthday was going to go down for the two of them, I guess it was something special for her as a wife? (I'm pretty sure, for couples the first birthday is pretty important).
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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">and the times I have seen, idk it seemed like ranvi sort of gave more importance to his sister than his wife?! I absolutely adore brother/sister relationships and even more so, when they are close even after the marriage and do not forget each other, but there is a time and place for everything. As a husband, I think it is his duty to make her feel like she matters just as much as veera matters in his life, so in the times that it really counts, he has to show that to her. and birthday was an importantoccasionto sort of verify her such place in ranvi's life for gunjun I guess. It wasn't just the preparation, rather the underlying right she has as his wife that she felt was taken away by veera. (or haqq, in hindi).</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">However, I do think the reaction was a bit overboard and little too strong, but for the most part I agreed and sympathized with her. Her relationship with ranvi is new, so she seeks that verification from him to see if she is just as important to him as he is to her. but, seeing that sometimes, veera takes the priority for him, it is understandable that she felt left out. and in terms of veera, I understand that she had no ill intention in regards to gunjun, but even she needs to understand that because her brother is married now, she needs to draw a certain line where gunjun can take over his responsibility and as a result, also feel special and satisfied with her role in ranvi's life. But, after what the mom said, she understands. so, I guess for now, problem solved?</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">long rant short, I think this time, I agreed with gunjun even though she was going a bit overboard.</font>