Sukhi, I for one, feel Rudras pain. But I also feel Paros. His life was torn apart by his mother. Now that she is back, its going to tear apart if he does not confront her, his father and himself. Paro needs to walk a tightrope. She needs to keep mala in the picture. Or rlse, Rudra will never have a chance to heal. He will continue all his life to self destruct whenever the topic of his mother comes up.
She spent the night with Mala... After asking the head of the house. After seeking his advice on whether she should ask Rudra. She knows Dilsher is there to watch over his son. And when she saw Rudra sleeping, she covered him and caressed his face with such love before leaving. And now, she is bringing Mala back at Dilshers bidding.
You see its not just what Mala did to him that is destroying Rudra. It is the hate, the poison that is destroying him. To rid himself of that hate, he needs to move on. He needs to find a reason to let go of that hate. For his own sake. For his hope of happiness in this life time, with Paro.
If you truly love someone, you will do your best to make them see whats best for them, not blindly support them.
Paro never asked rudra to forgive Mala. She just asked him to face her, get mad with her, give her a chance to talk. And now as we see, Dilsher had a part in it. And that truth needs to come out too, for Rudra to understand. And thats why Dilsher asked Paro to bring Mala back.
Mala has been depicted as both a good mother and a bad mother by the cvs. A mother who does the unthinkable. A mother who gives an orphan a chance at having a mother. A damning fact and a redeeming fact. Its going to be an exercise where everybody will have to acknowledge their part in this checkerboard of betrayal and trust.
One interesting point. Rudra sees Dilsher as being the trustworthy parent. But Dilsher never told him that he threw Mala out that night! Paro saw Mala as trustwotrhy. But Mala never told her about her son!
Two children were grievously wronged. They were made to believe things that were not necessarily true. And now these teo love each other. The straightening out process will involve clashes. But let us not lose sight of the fact that the bond is stronger than the divisive forces. And they are fighting tooth and nail for it.